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I've liked this one guy for quite a long time now and it seemed like he kinda liked me to cause he'd always be staring and just stupid little things like that. We never really talked much even though we've been in the same period 4 class for 2 semesters because hes more of the jock type and im just kinda floating around lolll.
So every halloween people sponsor a dance called SPOOK-O-RAMA and everyone goes.
So he was there along with the guy my best friend likes.
This boy kept following me around, staring, and at times it looked like he'd try and come over but he chicked out. So it was like 10 minutes before I had to leave so I just went up to him and asked him to dance.
HE SAW ME COMING AND PRETTY MUCH REFUSED TO LOOK ME IN THE FACE. I go up to him:
Me: "hey, wanna dance?"
him: *mumble* no
me: "Common :) "
him: *tries to show me he's tired with his eyes*
me: "k whatever *walks away*"
It wasnt even like a "nice" no, it was like "im too good for you so you better go away" kinda no. lmfao.
cocky-ass attitude. He danced with me at the previous 2 dances so I didn't think he'd really say no this time ANNNDD I made sure his friends weren't around when I asked cause they like to tease.
like WTF.
Then on Thursday and Friday he KEEPS STARING AND ITS LIKE IF YOU DONT LIKE ME THEN EFF OFF!!!! I turned around at lunch on Friday and he was facing me and when I looked his eye quickly darted away and then I left and he pretty much WATCHED me leave. ughhhh.
God its so frustrating.
Im overrrrrrr him and all this nonsense but I'm still sorta stuck cause its like "if you dont like me, then why are you staring?" you don't stare at someone if you don't have even just a little bit of interest? Right? Am I wrong?
Sorry this seems kinda out there.
Its just really pissing me off.
Why would he do that?
ANY OPINIONS?
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He sounds like a wishy-washy guy -- one minute he likes you and wants to be with you, the next he doesn't even act like he wants to be around you. It seems like he does like you, however, I don't know if there's something holding him back or if he's just playing games with you..I really don't know what his deal is. But I think you should take a look at this link here, it should help you out. =)
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I'll say this, you made the effort and went up to him which is admirable AND as far as I can see he had no reason to say no (more so if he's danced with you before).
I honestly can't say what it could be that possessed him to say no at the dance. If he liked you (and in his place) I'd have jumped at the chance since I find approaching girls like that virtually impossible to do. He seems to have had little reason to say no if he had danced with you before as well so it wouldn't really have been exterely awkward either. I've had the exact same thing happen to me not long ago in a club when I had 'noticed' someone at the club but me being myself I refused to go up to her to say anything (that's just how I am I guess). She came over and asked me to dance and even though I made some really stupid excuse at first (I can't dance) she grabbed me and said it's time to learn then wispered in my ear on the dancefloor I'd been looking at her all night so now I finally got my chance to dance with her. :D So it does seem at first glance he likes you but then his reaction when you approached him made no sense. Initially I'd put it down to shyness but if he's danced with you before why be shy now? Unless... when he did before he didn't like you like he does now. I mean, I can talk to any girl normally without any problem but if it's a girl I like I find that I do sometimes get hit with shyness.
I can't really offer much of an explination (even after all that) but I can say if you catch him doing it again maybe just going up to him and simply asking him what's going on may result in some answers. Obviously if you're completely over him and such then if his staring at you is making you feel uncomfortable it may just be time to tell him quietly to stop since it's making you feel uncomfortable AND that he had his chance at the dance - which he now missed.
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