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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i picked this out to show a girl how much i care what do you think?

I'm not sure if you know or not
But I really do love you a lot.
You still hold a special place in my heart
And you did, right from the start.
But when he came along and took your breath away,
I was devastated and didn't know what to say.
I spend my nights crying, time after time,
I spent my days lying, saying I was fine.
Little did you know, my heart was crushed inside,
And on that day, a little of me died.
But with her, you look so in love
'Cause you are an angel from above.
I now have to teach my heart to move on,
For, you are now forever gone.
But about one thing I am unsure:
Why it can't be me, and not him?

Aw, I think that's that sweetest thing in the world. It's so adorable. I'm sure she'll love it. ♥

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Could someone give me a list of HTML for MySpace?

- - http://www.chasebadkids.net/main.php
- - http://www.myspacehtml.net
- - http://www.myspacesupport.com
- - http://www.freecodesource.com
- - http://www.myspacetweaks.com


Here's some sites with a lot of HTML codes that you can use on your MySpace page. ♥

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what is a booty call?

A booty call is when you call up a person when you're in the mood for sex. This person isn't your boyfriend/girlfriend nor are you together. You're just in this for sex, nothing more. ♥

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I'm really not liking my advicenators name anymore. Its so corny XSugarpieX77, i mean come on. I have a 4.95 rating, should I make a new site? or, is there a way to change my username but keep my advice page?
thanks.

-Brina

I think you should just keep this column up. I mean, you have a high rating and you answered so many questions already. Why delete that column when you put so much hard work into giving advice. Just keep it. I like the name, it's cute.


I used to want to start a new column, too. Just because I didn't like my user name. Then I relized how stupid that was because I put a lot of work into this one. I don't think I'm ever going to delete my column.


If you want a new user name, you can always get a paid account. You'll be able to change your user name to something different, then. Here's the site, if you're interested in learning more/getting a paid account. http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php ♥

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15/f
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now and i still havent given him a handjob yet because i am so nervous (ive never given a handjob before).. can you please tell me everything i need to know.. like should i use lotion or not? etc.. and just any tips would be great.. if you can't say it on here then you can give me your sn for aim.. thanks

As you know, we can't be giving out detailed questions like this. However, I did find a site that I'm sure will help you out; http://www.herbalcantera.net/sexguide.html ♥

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I have a MySpace acount and I always knew there was an option to make my profile private, so that only people who are already my friends can view it. I recently wanted to apply this option, however when I went to "Account Settings" there was no option to make my profile private. Can someone please help me by tellign me how I can make my account private?

Just change your age to 16 or younger and it'll automatically go to private. ♥

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how do you hide the contact box, & have SEND MESSAGE & ADD ME in a seperate box on the other column?

rate fives. XD

Hmm. What do you mean by this?! ♥

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

I don't see nothing wrong with this, at all. If you guys like eachother and care about eachother, be together. Age is just a number. When it comes to people liking one another, you should be together. You could be missing out on something really special. ♥

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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks

Yes, it does mean the same thing, hun. ♥

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What are some REALLY good tips on flirting? Like I want to start to make my boyfriend really interested in me. Like I already know he likes me but i want him to show he likes me. So I need tips on flirting and stuff like that. Thanks in advance! =)

These's sites will probably help you out a lot. They have great tips and a lot of information;


- - http://www.sexuality.org/flirtadv.html
- - http://www.becomeaplayer.com/flirtingtips.htm
- - http://www.RealWorldSeduction.com/Flirting
- - http://www.CatchHimandKeepHim.com
- - http://www.DoubleYourDating.com


Hope these's sites help you out. Have fun! ♥

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

Being girlfriend and boyfriend means you're in a relationship. You're together and you call one other yours. You're not single.


Having a friend with benefits, means they're just friends with you. Even though, you're able to fool around with them and do sexual things, but are still single. ♥

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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

Yes, you're able to do this if you download Trillian. Just go to http://www.download.com and search up 'Trillian'.


Also, if you have an AOL/Yahoo E-mail, you're able to sign onto MSN and talk through that. ♥

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I wanted to know how do you delete the websites that come up when you type in a website in the toolbar.

Just go to 'Tools', then to 'Internet Options'. Once you are there, go down to where it says 'Temporary Internet Files' and click on 'Delete'.


If you want to delete all your history, too. Go down to 'History' and click on 'Clear History'. ♥

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how do you make the heart things not like this

& hearts ; but put it all together. ♥

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Emo Bandss?

Atreyu.
My Chemical Romance.
The Used.
Taking Back Sunday.
The Ataris.
Brand New.
The Postal Service.
From Autumn to Ashes.
Saosin.
Death Cab For Cutie.
Underoath.
Silverstein.
Daphne Loves Derby.
Armor for Sleep.
The Cure.
Hawthorne Heights.
Scary Kids Scaring Kids.
Eighteen Visions.
Dashboard Confessional.
The Killers.
As I Lay Dying.
Throwdown.
It Dies Today.
Armor for Sleep.
Winter Solstice.
The Postal Service.
Rilo Kiley.
The Juliana Theory.
Matchbook Romance
Senses Fail.
The Faint.
Spitalfield.
RECOVER.
The Western Front.
The Appleseed Cast.
The Hurt Process.
I Killed The Prom Queen.
Bedlight For Blue Eyes.
Brown Eyed Deception.
Fordirelifesake.
Straylight Run.


Here's a few 'emo' bands, enjoy. ♥

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If some guy says you're both dating, but not officially going out [boyfriend/girlfriend], then does that mean you're single or taken?

Even when you're 'dating' someone, you're still able to see other people. You guys aren't officially together, yet. So it means you're still single. ♥

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i've never used a tampon and i haven't had my period yet but does using a tampon feel like sex

Using a tampon feelings nothing like sex. Sex is so much better. ♥

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What happens if you take too many sleeping pills?

If you take to many sleeping pills, you'll never wake up - you'll die. ♥

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okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.

This really depends on the guy, how comfortable you are with him and how hard or rough he's being with you. While he's doing this, don't be all scared. Try to relax and it'll feel so much better. Don't tense up, because then it'll hurt.


Also, if he's going rough, tell him to stop. He shouldn't just jab his finger(s) into you, he should take it slow and be gentle. Since it's your first time, tell him to take it slow at first. Then you can tell him to go harder or what not when you're most comfortable with it. ♥

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I don't know if this question has been asked before..but is there any way to see exactly who has visited your myspace? Thanks

There's no MySpace tracker. However, you're able to see how many people have visted your page, but you're not able to see who. ♥

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