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Of your favorite music genres, which do you think is the *least* popular, nation-wide. If the person before you has the same answer as you, please choose the second least-popular. I'm interested only in genres that you like, and I already know statistics. Thank you very much for your time, I truly appreciate it.
Theymos
Hey Theymos :] Of all of my favorite genres, which include rock, punk, indie, metal, and more, I think the least popular would have to be metal. People dont like it too much because they think it is plainly heavy screaming. Hope I helped, and understood your question :]
whats my name?
george the chicken obviously.
i'm 15 and haven't hooked up with anyone yet. first of all, i mean hooking up as in kissing/making out. i really want to hook up with someone just to get my 1st time over with. dont answer this lectureing me on how i should wait for it to special - just answer my real question. theres some parties coming up.. how do i put myself ina situation where i can hook up with someone? how should i act to show i want to hook up? what shold i wear? etc. any advice is good.
Clothes- Tight jeans, or a skirt, with either a cami or any shirt - doesnt matter. As long as its not a turtleneck or anything, haha.
You should go to a guy, and just say "hey". Dance with them if possible for awhile, and say "It is really hot down here, want to go _____(upstairs, basement, or another room). He will most likely say sure, and by then he has one thing in his mind... "HOOK UPPPP!". Once you are in the room where you want to be, sit next to him. If you are in a bedroom, sit on the bed. If you are anywhere else, the floor or couch will do. Hold his hand while you are sitting, and start looking in his eyes. He will start moving closer to you (his face), and move your closer too. After your faces are close, he will start making out with you, or you can start making out with him, it doesnt really matter. Good luck, and hope I helped
ok so I'm getting my ears double peirced in a few days, i want to know how bad it hurts. I couldn't tell how bad my first piercing felt because i was only 6 months old! So does it hurt?
When you get your first piercing, it feels like a 5 second pinch. I got my double hole in November. I had gotten my first hole about 3 years prior. The second hole feels maybe like a 10 second little pinch. It stings for about 30 seconds afterwards too. Do not worry though, it is not that bad. It is worth it.
(I got mine done at Clairs- good place t0)
Which car has the best gas mileage??
Thanks so much!!
http://www.epinions.com/content_113784229508
I'm fourteen, and our 8th grade dance for school is coming up soon. Supposably it's not going to be that "formal" but you can still wear a dress. Where can i get some simple but cute dresses for it?
- Something thats not too expensive as well.
Thanks =]
Debs! Its at www.debshops.com
Also, Delias, Macy's, and even Kohls!
does anyone know if '97 mustangs have antilock braking systems? thanks.
I just asked my dad, because he used to have one. He said that they do! Hope I helped
I was wondering if you could bleach hair (head hair) with the bleaching cream that's meant to be used on the body (upper lip, arm, whatever)...
I will just bleach reallly thin streaks of hair (head hair XD) 'cause I have plans for a new hair style thing + new color. And I want to do it myself.
Any advice on this one?
Note:Where I live ... no one knows how to do highlights and all.. I'm out of options!
Dont use the bleaching cream. You can dip a comb in bleach, and comb it where you want- That is what I did. It worked fine.
edit- Oh, haha sorry. I have done it several times. For streaks, it did not really make a difference what I used, but I liked the bleach for hair better. It worked more effectivly.
i want my period so bad what do i do !!!!!?????????
You cant make it come. If you are overly scared, or excited for it, it will just delay. It is not that fun. It keeps you from doing a lot of things, like swimming, and you can feel like crap on some days. It is not fun, and it will come when you are ready, no way to speed up the process, nor slow it down.
hi.
can someone find me, or give me a link, to the most rated person on advicenators? it doesn't matter what their rating is, but just how many times they've been rated.
is there a way to filter out like, the most rated when searching columnists?
No, there is not. You can look at most recently updated, because they tend to have more questions updated. Sorry!
why do people make wishes at 11:11? just whats so special about it?
It is the only time where all the numbers on the clock are the same. It is just a myth, haha. It is fun though :]
About a bit over a month ago, me and my friends met lots of new people. They're really great but I'm so shy around them, and find it hard to approach them. One of my best mates has the same problem, but another one is absolutely fine and is really confident with them. One of the girls has starting joking about how quiet me and my friend are, but it's just that I'm shy, I don't want to be known as 'the quiet girl'.
How can I overcome my shyness? Are there any things like visualisations or anything like that that can help you get over it? Or anything else?
Please help, xxx
Try these :
http://www.self-confidence.co.uk/shyness/tips.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2879_overcome-shyness.html
http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/amipregnant/ht/beatshynessht.htm
Hope I helped, and good luck
14/f
I don't know if I'm depressed or if it's just teenage hormones but...
Since 4th grade, I've been getting multiple suicide thoughts and in the past year and a half, I've been attempting to kill myself but backed down at the last moment. & I feel like a horrible person, friend, daughter, sister, and everything. I feel like no one cares about me and that no one would miss me if I'm gone. I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone and that everyone deserves someone much better than me. I've tried to drug, drown, strangle, and cut myself to death. And I always seem to stare out of my window wondering where I'd fall and if I would die. I've been cutting myself for over a year now and blah. I'm afraid to let anyone get close to me and I just pretend like everything is fine. But when I get home, I just want to kill myself and start crying.
What's wrong with me? This has been going on for 5 years now and it's not getting any better but getting worse and worse
Please understand that no-one on this site can fully diagnose you, we can only make suggestions. In my opinion, it sounds like moderate depression. You really need to see a doctor, or a therapist. You need help with the thoughts, cutting, etc.
"* Give up the idea of perfection. No one's life is perfect. We all usually have one aspect of our life that is frustrating, unfulfilled, and simply not working. Very few people ever have everything at the same time. While one person's career might be flying high, their personal life might be in shambles. Another person might have both a great career and a great love life, but they may lack good friends. One person may have lots of opportunity to travel, but lack opportunity for close personal connections. Another person may be gifted with lots of friends and family, but opportunities for travel and education might be limited. Let go of the notions television feeds us. Forget thinking about the supposed perfection of the lives of celebrities--their lives are told to us through public relations machines that are skilled in dishing out a portrait of perfection that usually is far from the truth (remember Burt and Loni).
* Write. Each day, write freely about what most bothers you. Don't edit yourself. Don't worry about spelling or grammar. Just write! Write five things you are most grateful for each day. A gratitude journal can help you begin seeing life as half full rather than half empty. Write letters to friends and family. Write notes to yourself, encouraging and upbuilding yourself as if you were talking to a much beloved friend. Write letters to your children, to be opened at various stages in their life. Write cards. Write postcards. Writing can help you reach within yourself and outside to the world around you.
* Get involved in the life of a child. A child can bring you out of yourself and help you once again see the wonder and joy in life. If you have children, begin to really put yourself in their shoes. Get involved in their activities. Aim to make one hour of each day with your children fun and joyful. Make this an hour they will remember all their lives. See your job as a parent as a sacred trust--everything you do and say can either heal them and make them strong, or wound them and make them weak. If you don't have children, become a Big Brother or Sister, volunteer, write letters to children who are ill. Get outside yourself and involved in the life of a little person who needs you.
* Watch your language. The words you use can make you depressed. Stay away from negative words. Avoid sayings like, "nothing ever goes right for me" "or figures that would happen to me" or "what should I expect? Life isn't fair." Your words can turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy. Let your self-talk be positive, optimistic and hopeful. It may take effort to keep your language upbeat when you feel down, but making an effort to do so will help change the pattern in your brain that may expect life to be unhappy, unfair and depressing.
* Pay attention to your spiritual self. Each of us has a deep spiritual self that needs attending to. Pray. Read spiritual works. Memorize passages in the Bible. Spend time in nature. Be good to the soulful part of you that longs for connection to something higher.
* Write a life mission statement. What do you most want to accomplish in your life? If you were to die tomorrow, what would you want to be remembered for? What legacy do you want to leave? Stop sweating the small stuff and pay attention to your life mission. Each one of us can contribute greatly to the welfare of this earth. Commit yourself to someone or something outside yourself and make it a life goal to improve things on this earth. Your mission statement could include a commitment to the environment, animals, the homeless in your community, your grandmother, the public schools in your city, your children. Make it your goal to improve the lot of someone else.
* Get creative. Take painting lessons. Start learning how to play the piano, the guitar, the violin. Walk around town taking photographs. Begin a scrapbook. Write a children's story, a novel, a romance, a poem, a song. Let your creative self explore and revel in the joy of creation.
* Eat healthy. The chemicals, or lack of them, in our brain and body can either make us happy or sad. Eat lots of spinach, kale, broccoli, parsley. Buy a juicer and begin making vegetable and fruit drinks. Take a multivitamin. Make sure you getting the adequate amount of folic acid, zinc, Vitamin C, E and B. See a nutritionist and find out which herbs, vitamins and minerals your body needs. Vitamins and minerals, such as folic acid, magnesium, Vitamin C and others can do wonders to improve your mood. Make it your goal to eat four vegetables and two fruits a day. Stay away from too much caffeine, sugar, chocolate or empty-calories like white bread and white pasta.
* Get plenty of rest. Sleep deprivation can make one depressed. A fatigued and sleep-deprived body will fail to make the necessary 'happy chemicals' to keep you feeling up. Shut the television, cancel your appointments, shut the telephone, and go to bed early at least three nights a week.
* Start exercising. Exercise can help your body make and release those 'happy chemicals' that keep you feeling good. Start swimming. Join an aerobics class. Buy a videotape and start exercising. Join a local walking club.
* Set new goals. A new goal can give one renewed interest in life. Set a goal that is challenging, but not stressful and frustrating. It could be as simple as taking a class, getting to know your neighbors, reading one new book a week, or volunteering at a local senior citizen center.
* See a therapist. Sometimes depression stems from long unresolved feelings and issues that go back to childhood. Other times, depression comes from a lack of understanding about how to make one's life meaningful, authentic and fulfilling. The right therapist can help get to the root of one's sadness. Be careful of therapists who want to blame or alienate patients from family and friends--the goal is to heal, not blame, become strong, not encourage a victim-like mentality.
* Read. There are thousands of self-help books available that actually have some very good advice. While some of the advice is cliche and useless, most books at least have one nugget of knowledge that can be useful. Visit your local bookstores and library and read as much as you can. Self-education is a gift to yourself.
Bonus tip:
* Self-nurture. Surround yourself with teddy bears and dolls. Drink soothing tea. Light candles scented with fragrances that make you feel warm, loved, serene. Hang up pictures that remind you of happy times. Wrap yourself in a lovely quilt or afghan. Buy clothes with colors that heal and invigorate. Play music that gives you hope."
http://www.committment.com/depression.html
Try this too!
http://www.wikihow.com/Cope-with-Depression
Your depression may also be an effect of low self esteem. If you have low self esteem, try this:
http://www.hypnotherapy.net/12se.shtml
Hope I helped, and good luck.
Please can you explain this joke to me.
http://www.stripcreator.com/comics/jd_10/392075
Thanks:)
They are discussing the song, then the thing with the axe asks if he knows what a lollypop is in the song (guys' privates). Then, the one with the axe threatens the other one to lick his lollypop.
I read the lemon juice makes your skin lighter. does that really work?
Um it said that you can put it in a spray bottle, spray it on your skin and go out in the sun. Wouldn't you be sticky?
would it stain your clothes?
http://www.wikihow.com/Use-a-Lemon-to-Lighten-Your-Skin
It doesnt stain clothes, and it would be a little sticky, but you take a shower :}
Hey!
I'm not sure if I like the RalphLauren Spring collection What do you think about them?
I think it is somewhere in the middle. I dont hate it , nor do I love it. Some of the things I like and make me say "Wow!", but others i raise my eyebrow to. Haha.
Im not fat or skinny but i am not fit to fun track next year i am really fast but i just can run that fast right now can some1 help me?
Practice= perfection. Try running for about 15 minutes each day. Make sure you stretch a lot too. You can also go on a treadmill. Just keep running, and keep trying to do it for 15 minutes :]
what is the artist and title of this song? i only know a little bit...
- you wanna be a little bit taller and baller...
http://www.lyricsondemand.com/onehitwonders/iwishlyrics.html
what is a vagina? pussy?
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&defl=en&q=define:Vagina&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title
AND...
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&defl=en&q=define:Pussy&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title
Ok so I got my ears peirced on April 13th and I know the lady said I should wait 4-6 weeks to take the earrings out but I can't waaaitttt. Lol. I want to try all these earrings, you know? I've cleaned them the first 2 weeks twice a day like I was supposed to and now I've had them for 3 weeks. So yeah.
What would happen if I just switched earrings for a few days? Eh. I'm afraid of them getting infected then I'd have to get them re-peirced and it'd take even longer. Reh. xD Help.
When I got my second hole, and my first hole, I took them out after 3 weeks, and played basketball for an hour or two, and they were fine. If I were you though, I would keep them in for 1 more week, you would be better off :].
It will be worth it.
My sister on the other hand, she had hers pierced, took them out on the 3rd week too, and hers ended up closing after a few hours. She tried to get the earring through, and forced it through. Then, it became infected.