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hooking up
i'm 15 and haven't hooked up with anyone yet. first of all, i mean hooking up as in kissing/making out. i really want to hook up with someone just to get my 1st time over with. dont answer this lectureing me on how i should wait for it to special - just answer my real question. theres some parties coming up.. how do i put myself ina situation where i can hook up with someone? how should i act to show i want to hook up? what shold i wear? etc. any advice is good.
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Wear something that makes you look really amazing, but not tooo slutty. Reveal one thing that you're proud of, but then be more modest with the rest. For example, if youre gonna wear a low cut top, then don't wear a short short skirt too.
Also, flirt with a lot of guys. That way, you won't need to depend on one guy who might not want to. One of those guys will definitely want too hook up with you. Play kinda hard to get, too. Guys like a challenge.
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Yes, making out/kissing is exciting, but don't act so desperate to do it. (For example, changing the way you act & what you should wear.) You need to act yourself & be confident. If there's someone you're interested in, flirt with them. Don't wear less revealing clothes & put yourself in vulnerable situations just because you are so eager to make out with someone. No, I am not saying you need to wait for someone special. If you want it to be fun, then make it fun. But changing yourself & acting differently is not attractive. You want guys to be attracted to YOU, not someone you are trying to be. So like I said, be yourself, maybe push yourself to be a bit more outgoing & flirty. But remain true to yourself & I'm sure guys will notice you.
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Clothes- Tight jeans, or a skirt, with either a cami or any shirt - doesnt matter. As long as its not a turtleneck or anything, haha.
You should go to a guy, and just say "hey". Dance with them if possible for awhile, and say "It is really hot down here, want to go _____(upstairs, basement, or another room). He will most likely say sure, and by then he has one thing in his mind... "HOOK UPPPP!". Once you are in the room where you want to be, sit next to him. If you are in a bedroom, sit on the bed. If you are anywhere else, the floor or couch will do. Hold his hand while you are sitting, and start looking in his eyes. He will start moving closer to you (his face), and move your closer too. After your faces are close, he will start making out with you, or you can start making out with him, it doesnt really matter. Good luck, and hope I helped<3
If you cant dance with him, just go up to him and hold his hand. Then, either go to another room, or go on the floor, and do whatever :]
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