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I this freind and we have been friends 4 years and just this past summer she has been always hanging with her other friend and just leaving me behind.

Tell her that you feel left out and ask her why she is doing that to you. Good luck!!







-xXoBrianna



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Okay so i admit, i've never had a boyfriend. im 14 years old and going into 8th grade. ive been told by guys that im really pretty and have a great personality. im not overweight, im not unpopular or stuck up. what keeps me from being something guys like? i have guy friends, but whenever i like a guy, they never like me back as much. i dont think highly of myself when im around people. i actually tend to be more shy then anything around guys. but, what can i do? i know every guy is different but... ugh im so stumped!! please help, if you answer my question good ill give you a rewarding 5! =) thanks!
ps: im not just trying to get a boyfriend because of people around me having them, its whenever i find someone i like, they dont feel the same...

Yeah, I know what you mean. I only had a few boyfriends. Eventually, you'll find the right guy. Just act normal!! And, are you positive that they don't like you?? Good luck!!






-xXoBrianna



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I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do?

do what feels right and follow your heart







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me and my sister fight all the time. shes a teenager. and i am three years younger than her. will she grow out of it? how should i act towards her? beacause right now i feel like i really need a sister, not an enemy :.(

eventually you guys will get along.. dont worry about it ;) talk to her and tell her how you feel.. hope ive helped




-xXoBrianna

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yea umm im 14 and a girl
Ok this is gonna be long. I went out with this kid joe for like 4 months. the whole time we were going out this girl Amy was always flirting with him even around me. I would tell her to stop but she never listened and always denied liking him. Well when me and joe broke up I asked him if he liked Amy cuz it kinda seemed like he did but he said she would be the last person he would ever go out with. So then like two weeks later he goes out with amy. I was over him completely but it still made me mad that he had lied to me. They'e been going out for like 4 months now and theyve gone all the way. Two months ago my best friend andrew asked me out. I'm sooo in love with him but guess what's happening. Amy likes him even though shes going out with joe. She always tells me online how andrew always flirts with other girls when im not around. when i ask my friend nichole whos around him a lot she says thats not true.I know andrew would never hurt me or like anyone else. Hes liked me more than anyone else from the moment he met me. One time andrew had to sleep over amys house because her mom is friends with his mom and he couldnt get a ride back home.
Amy: Did andrew tell you what he did on sunday?
Me: No. Why?
Amy: Oh he wouldn't have.
Me: What did he do?
Amy: He slept over my house.
Me: ((theres nothing i could do about it anyway)) thats cool
Amy: OMG!!! Why dont you ever care what he does!! He flirts with like everyone and you dont even care!!
Me: I do care but i trust him so i dont worry too much.
Amy: w/e
I know she is lying but idk what to do. Please help me out. I hate her and i dont know how to handle it without like telling her i hate her cuz she kinda thinks we're friends. I cant be mean to people and i really dont wanna lose my boyfriend cuz i love him more than anything. Please help me!!!!! ((sorry this is so long))

1 word- bitch! i say tell her off and then if she still continues to bother with your boyfriends, kick her ass ;) (well thats what i would do)





-xXoBrianna


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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!!

take the movie opportunity.. you can go to school up until you are 21.. you may only get one movie opportunity and you could become rich and even famous!! i say take the opportunity and get a tutor or something! tell me your choice!! good luck





-xXoBrianna

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(I'm a girl and I'm 15!) Alright...I usually don't ask for advice but I really need some right now! I started talking to this guy and at the begining it was great. We were friends first and did everything together with the rest of our friends then we started talking and we hung out every single night and all the stuff! It was so great. I loved every second of it but then its been a month or so and now I'm lucky if I see him once a week! I never talk to him he doesnt call and When i call him hes not home or something! I hate it! Its pretty sad when his best friend calls me more than he does and I'm with him more than he is! All his friends point it out to him too! Finally the other night i got fed up with it! I called him and we got into a fight cuz i told him i never get to see him and its gets old n i dont think he wants to be with me and he said i was just being a drama queen. so then i went drove over to his house and there was like 7 of us over there and he didnt say a word to me! so we all went out to the car to leave again and one of my girlfriends called him over the car and told him that me and him should talk! he wouldnt talk to me and he doenst think hes doing anything wrong and says im just making a big deal outta nothing! Maybe I am maybe im not but i need to know what someone else thinks! So basically what im asking is what (in your opinion) i should do! and if u personally think im making a big deal outta it! tnkx

of course its gonna be all hunky dory in the beginning.. people change. ive learned that with my ex boyfreind he was the sweetest guy that turned into the biggest ass hole.. you just gotta accept that.. i dont think your making a big deal about it because i understand where your coming from.. the guy used to hang out iwth you now he doesnt even wanna talk with you.. dump his ass if hes gonna be like that!





-xXoBrianna



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ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\

wow, you shouldnt of been fake to begin with.. make up some more lies and tell him that your moving like in a month or something.. and if he asks where say like oregon or some place far from where you and him live!! or you can just tell him the truth.. GOOD LUCK! =)






-xXoBrianna


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see well okay at the store my mom had to run in for a few things, well my x b/f came to talk to me ,(with his new gurlfriend!) and I couldnt
talk i was speachless!, But he broke up with her right there and then , and in front of her he asked me back out and I couldn't say anything to answer!!should I or shouldn't i?? and he said i was hott in front of her.!!!!
PLZ Help!!!
AS SOON AS U CAN!!!

wow how do you know that he wont go and do that to you? hmm maybe give him another chance ;)






-xXoBrianna


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I'm a freshmen and during my first three weeks 3 guys have showed interest in me. I really like the personalities of all 3 but theyre all so different! Okay..guy #1...he is also a freshmen, he's hot, and hes a good christian and everything, but ive never seen him get really crazy and i do that sometimes and i like to not be the only one ya know lol....guy #2 hes a sophmore...hes funny and really nice to me..he doesnt make good grades though...he is susposed to be a junior..or maybe even a senior im not 100% sure, he rides my bus and hes not the hottest guy but hes DEFINATELY not ugly...hes kinda like eminem..he doesnt look ANYTHING like him but hes on the same level of hotness...guy #3...hes a senior..it would be really cool to go out w/ an upperclassmen..i could probably meet new upperclassmen that way as well..well, neways, i REALLY REALLY REALLY like his personality...hes a good guy..but he isnt very good looking...i know that sounds shallow and i dont mean it to be im just trying to give pros and cons here...hes not incredibly bad but hes got dark brown hair and glasses..hes not very "built" and he doesnt really have the same style as most of the people i hang out with...so if you were in my position what guy would you choose? can you give me your reasoning too? also, i was wondering if you all could put them in order like "this guy 1st, this 2nd, and this 3rd"...sorry this is so long!! you deserve a 5 just for reading this!! lol so i will definately rate you good!

Hmm this is tough.. id go with 1 or 2.. id go with 1 first because you most likely wont get into any trouble with him.. like you said number 2 smokes pot and stuff.. but anyways, and im sure that number 1 and you would have a good time together.. then number 2.. he seems fun and outgoing but, if hes not your type like with drugs and stuff i wouldnt get all caught up in that.. lol and number 3 is just outta the question! but there ya go and good luck, follow your heart

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Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????


~Cheer grl~

have a bake sale or whatever or gather old junk and have a yard sale! FUN FUN! lol.. good luck







-xXoBrianna



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Ok im 13 gunna be 14 and i ahve a bf of ova 9 months and my mom doesnt let me do n e thing like evn if his mom iz there or n e thing i mean come on its like she iz tryn amake my life hell i have been goin to his foot-ball practices a lot lately like every night so i called my mom and asked her if i could go tonight and she sed NO!! so surprizing!! u kno cuz we r goin bra shoppin. WOW bundles of flippin fun!!! but n e wayz she was all like o yea when your sisters were your age they only gut to see there bf'z a couple times a week i was like come on man i go and watch him practice then i leave cuz i usually go wid my friend and i leave b 4 he iz dun so i juss watch him iz not like i get to talk to him and chill wid him and stuff like that!!! it makes me so........... MAD!!! i mean when my sista dannielle was 14 she went to her bf'z house when they had only been goin out for a month i mean come on i am almost 14 and i have been goin out wid my bf for ova 9 months so dont u think that when i turn 14 she should definatley let me go ova hiz house i mean hiz mom will be home n stuff man she makes me so mad some times!!!!! do u think she iz doin this on perpose??? and do u think it iz fair????? sry so long

i think shes just scared because your in a more serious relationship i mean come on it is 9 months.. any ways i think she just feels like your gonna go and do something youll regret, maybe a mistake she made when she was your age.. she just cares about you maybe shes being a little to protective but you gotta talk to her and tell her how she makes you feel!! good luck!




ps- mention the sister thing!




-xXoBrianna


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theres this guy that has liked me for quite some time now, i even got in a fight with him b/c he liked me during the time he had a g/f and i told his girlfriend to ler her know and he denied it. Now theyve been broken up for quite a few months now and he lieks me, and im starting to liek him. him and i ahve said some hurtful things to eachother but now we're over it, we've matured and nwo we tslk to eachother again. my best friend still cant believe that i would even be friends with him after some thigns that he's said. she tells me that i shouldnt give him a chance. but i want to. what do i do? my best friend practically hates him. please help..i rate good!!!

hoes before bros.. maybe you should listen to your friend.. i mean how do you know that ass holes not gonna say some of the stuff he has said in the past? i think you should maybe just be friends with him.. or do whatever, follow your heart!





-xXoBrianna


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Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long

thats how it is with me and my best friends boyfriend.. hes an ass to me and she obviously doesnt see it or doesnt care.. i think you should sit them both down and talk to them and ask what they have agaisnt each other and tell them you feel very uncomfortable in the position you are in and that you love them both and dont wanna take sides.. they should understand and tell them if they loved you, they would get along for your sake! but serioulsly hun, hoes before bros!!





-xXoBrianna


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ok there is this boy i like his name is justin. and we go to highschool together, and im kinda new and dont know anyone. but ok, so i like him, like i cant say yahhh im so madly inlove with him but i like him. and we are both freshmen, yesterday we were in this room and it was his class and my class and i was in there and he whispered something in his friends ear and then he pointed at my feet and goes them are some sweet shoes i like ur shoes, and i smiled and said thank u and then he walkd round the corner and so did i then after that he just like glanced at me like a few times. and then yesterday night my friend calld him and he said heyy did u see that girl with the pink n black on and he goes yeah and he goes well she likes u a lil, and he goes well i got a girl friend, and then my friend goes oh..and then he goes well mayb u should talk to her and then he goes yeah ill talk to her. and then today at lunch he has my 2nd lunch i seen him and he saw me, and he usually sits at a table with all his friends but for some odd reason his friends and him were all standin where i was standing and i was like..ok..and me n my friend were talkn and she knows i like him, and her friend overheard and went up to him and goes heyy and he goes hey and she goes can i talk to u then she pulled him aside and asked him if he had a girlfriend and he sai yeah and she goes how long have yall been going out and he said a year and a month, and she goes ohhh ok..and then he lookd at me n smiled and i smiled back...and so i was wondering how do iknow he likes me, and does he even like me, and if so what should i do...cuz i have his number and i have no clue what to do..or what to say! cuz im like really quite at school cuz i dont know anyone, but goosh how do i know...please help!

thankx for reading your eyes out!

maybe he does like you and hes making up about the girl friend or maybe theyve only been going out for like a couple weeks or something.. call him and tell him himself that you like him because chances are if he is always smiling at your and stuff that must be a sign that he likes you or maybe hes just a flirty person.. i think he likes you tho! go for it and good luck ;)





-xXoBrianna


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whats the biggest difference between high school and middle school?

lol i wouldnt know? in my school elementary goes up to 6th grade.. then 7th-12th is high school and its pretty much the same but i guess the work gets harder? lol






-xXoBrianna

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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help!

what a bitch.. theres nothing really you can do!






-xXoBrianna

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My birthday is coming up in november and i really want to have a party..does anyone have any ideas of what kinds of parties i could have? I would want a lot of my friends to be able to come!

have a giant sleep over.. always fun =P






-xXoBrianna

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I am in a long distance relationship with this guy I really love. The problem is.. i feel like he's going to cheat on me. When he lived here, he cheated on me once cause he got drunk and stoned. I just afraid he will do it again and I will find out about it. I really want to trust him but its hard.

Is there any way to convince myself that he's not cheating on me.. or that he won't cheat on me?

**I know it sounds kind of stupid, but it really bothers me**

sweetheart, long distance relationships never work.. he may or may not cheating on you.. if hes crunke.. hell most likely cheat on you again. but if you like him soo much like you say you should trust him and know that hes not cheating on you and he would never when hes sober..





-xXoBrianna

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ok when im with my friends i always say tha tlike the jocks & stuff r hot.. which they r and alot of the times ill like them.. but when it comes to actually likin sumone and being in relationships i choose the guys that my friends think r not hot.. like i go for personality not looks... a good body is just a plus.. and my friends r always like y r u with him, hes ugly, u could do so much better., but i dont want to do better i like the guys that im with... how can i make my friends see that id rather have a guy with a soso body & a great personality than a guy with a great body but cant even make me laugh...???

average people liker......

tell them that you dont want better and that you dont like people for only there looks.. also state why you like him soo much and theyll most likely understand.. if they dont, the hell with them!!






-xXoBrianna




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