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me and my sister fight all the time. shes a teenager. and i am three years younger than her. will she grow out of it? how should i act towards her? beacause right now i feel like i really need a sister, not an enemy :.(
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talk to her about how you feel.....my sister and i do the same thing and yes she will eventually grow out with it. She will see that fighting is just a childish thing and it will sooner or later stop.
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Just tell her exaclty what you what you said in the question,"you really need a sister not an enemy".I am 16 and my sister is 13 so she is just coming into her own and is being probly just as bad as I was when I was her age.But I still get like an angery angst teen sometimes and we fight really bad.To the point where we are rolling on the floor punching each other.She will sooner or later will grow up but just as she is you will be going into it.So cuz her some slack,and hopefully if you just lay it out for her she will be understanding!
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Don't worry its totoally normal. me and my sister and 3 years apart too and we fight all the time. Just tell her how you feel say you don't like fighting and you wanna work it out! Hope I helped!!
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well you just keep being a good sister to her. eventualyl she will appreciate it and see that her being mean to you isnt fair cuz you're not that way to her. she is just going thorugh a stupid phase where she thinks shes the shit and you're just a little kid who doesnt know anything. she probably thinks its cool to be mean to you. i think every teenager acts this way at one poit or another. but dont worry. she will grow out of it. it'll be okay.
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when she becomes a lot older like in her early 20s maybe beacause im 13 and my sister is 4 years older (17) and she still fights with me and she is a bithc to me all the time.
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i know how you feel! im seven years younger than my sister. sisters fight its a way of nature a way of life! all sisters fight. maybe she will grow out of it. i mean me and my sister fight all of the time occasionally but shes still there for me. tell her how you feel and that you dont want to fight but sometimes you cant help it. tell her you love her (in the family sense) and that you dont want to spend your life trashingwhat could be a great sistership
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I'm going to...attempt this. By answering this question, I'm giving you advice from the "teenage" prospective...since my sister is 3 years younger. First off. Don't listen to anyone that says "Just talk her and tell you how you feel." That is shit, and that is a lame excuse for advice. Because it's not realistic. If you do that...she feels really bad. And then she'll try to spend time with you because she feels bad about how she's been acting towards you, and it will be one big facade she's putting up, and it won't last long. Your sister loves you, right? Of course she does. But sometimes she doesn't know how to show it. You bug her. You mock her. You imitate her...and you try to be more like her. And sometimes you try too hard. Good sister relationships take time to build. So don't annoy her, and don't try to spend every waking moment with her. Start slow. For instance...one night when she's watching a television show...just plop down at a safe distance..and during the commercial say something she'll find funny. Get a conversation started. And laugh. Laughing is always great. Try to talk to her (not your 1st conversation) about what's up in her life...and earn her trust. For instance, if you find out something bad she did, or she tells you a secret, don't consider it perfect blackmail. Treasure it. Build on it. And once your sister realizes that you are your own person, she'll be more apt to talk to you about things and do stuff with you. :D Anything else, ask me. -<3- Mere
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Hello =) I fight all the time, except I fight with my older brother. For me, once my brother got to a certain age, he left me alone [most of time] but occasionaly he will make fun of me. In your case, you might might to consider having a serious talk with her and let her know that it's really bothering you, and you need someone there to help you through this tough age. If you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph
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hey! i have a big family.. there are 7 other kids.. i have 3 sisters.. the oldest is two years older than me.. growing up my sister abused me.. :( i never thought things culd get any better.. but yeah she grew out of it and now im 14 shes 16.. we still fight and disagree but thas normal.. she realized how much it scared me.. and basically i avoided her for tha most part.. and ignored tha hurtful things she wuld say to me.. teasing her back or antaginizing her wont help at all so basically just stay outta her way an soon she will realize how much she loves you.. never let her get to you.. in the end things shuld b fine .. just ride it out.. hope i helped.. :) *aSh.. :: p.s. if you ever need someone to talk to contact me on my AIM screenname..
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awwh. Yeah, sisters or siblings will have there fair share of fights. That's just how it is. But if you're really tired of everything and you actually want a sister instead of an enemy in the house... talk to her about it. You obviously love her and care about ya'lls relationship. And really be sincere about it. If she's older then she should understand. Good luck, sweetie.
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tell her that. like go up to her when she is in her room or something, ask to talk to her ad tell her that you know that age difference between you two is far apart but you still love her and want to be more of her friend then her enemy. and just talk to her about how you feel!!!
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Well, she's a teenager and teenage sisters fight. Yeah, she'll grow out of it but you'll grow into it (hate to say!) Don't worry even if she acts like she hates you, she doesn't. She's still your sister and always there for you. Good Luck! =)
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eventually you guys will get along.. dont worry about it ;) talk to her and tell her how you feel.. hope ive helped
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awww omg thats so sad. first thing is first, tell her how you feel and if she just yells or ignores you cry or walk out saying "all i want is my old caring lving sister who cares about me back!!!" thats'll get her, b/c i am that older sister, well not your older sister lol but i ahve a yuogner sibling and i eventualy cam to realizationm dont worry i promise she'll grow out of it. hope i helped!!!
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i had to same problem. tell her you dont like it when you and her fight, see if that works. but whatever you do... do not pick a fight or egg on one either.
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Just try to pretend she is ur best friend or a really good friend so u don't find urself always arguing with her.
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