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Boyfriend's House
I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house.
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if you reallie trust him and all then you shouldnt be nervous...i mean as you pointed out you both are onlie 13!! i dunt think hell be doing anything thah makes you feel uncomfy and if he does then just go on and tell him so...theres nothin reallie rong with thah is there?? the onlie thing i think you should reallie be concerned about is your parents...if they find out about this without you telling them then you mite be in a lot more trouble than you asked for..hehe buh thahs the anser to a diff question so i wont get into thah...just be yourself..ya noe?
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New experiences are nervewracking, so I fully sympathise. All I can say is just relax and enjoy yourself. It's likely he's nervous too, so just start gently with what you are both comfortable with, such as hugging together watching a film. If you are comfortable with it, let things progress to kissing from there. It might also help to do things you are familiar with beforehand (such as going to a place you've been to before on a date, like the mall or movies) so you feel chilled and relaxed before you go. Good luck!
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okay well its great and so cute that he wants you to be his first eevrything cuz you are his first girl friend. but just remember that you are only 13 so you shouldnt be doing too much stuff, especially having sex. but as far as you being nervous, yeah thats normal, once you are sitting down and make your self comfortable that nervousness will go away.
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I go over to my boyfriends house all the time! Its not big deal and theres nothing to me nurvus about. Just think...His parents will probley be around so if he dose anything it can't be THAT bad!
xoxo chels
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well you really dont have anything to be nervous about if you dont think he is going to try to make you do something you dont want to. and even if that happened just tell how you feel and that your not ready to do stuff like that yet! just relax and walk into his house like you own the place!!! lol
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Don't be nervous. If your his first girlfriend, he's probably just as nervous as you! Just act like yourself and don't do anything you don't want to. Good Luck and tell me how it goes ;)
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casey
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I've been over to a lot of guys house's the past coupld of years, and it's really nothin special. Usually you just watch t.v or do whatever you usually do at your girl friends house. If you do plan on kissing or whatever make sure no one is around or can walk in on you too cause that will break the vibe, and he will be emberassed around you. Just play it cool like you've done this a million times.
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there is nothing to be nervous about - as long as hes not pushing you to do anything just be yourself and dont be nervous because nothing bad will happen to you
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i know you're nervous, but try to calm down a little bit. especially since you know hes not gonna try anything you won't wanna do. but if he does, just make sure you dont do anything you're not ready for. I wish I could tell you how to be less nervous, but there really isn't a way. Once you go to his house once, it'll be alot easier going over again if you do. Hope I helped =)! <33 Jordyn
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