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Ughh.........
Ok im 13 gunna be 14 and i ahve a bf of ova 9 months and my mom doesnt let me do n e thing like evn if his mom iz there or n e thing i mean come on its like she iz tryn amake my life hell i have been goin to his foot-ball practices a lot lately like every night so i called my mom and asked her if i could go tonight and she sed NO!! so surprizing!! u kno cuz we r goin bra shoppin. WOW bundles of flippin fun!!! but n e wayz she was all like o yea when your sisters were your age they only gut to see there bf'z a couple times a week i was like come on man i go and watch him practice then i leave cuz i usually go wid my friend and i leave b 4 he iz dun so i juss watch him iz not like i get to talk to him and chill wid him and stuff like that!!! it makes me so........... MAD!!! i mean when my sista dannielle was 14 she went to her bf'z house when they had only been goin out for a month i mean come on i am almost 14 and i have been goin out wid my bf for ova 9 months so dont u think that when i turn 14 she should definatley let me go ova hiz house i mean hiz mom will be home n stuff man she makes me so mad some times!!!!! do u think she iz doin this on perpose??? and do u think it iz fair????? sry so long
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She is trying to raise you in such a way that she finds suitable..and though you may not find her methods of raising you to be good, sooner or later you'll thank her...
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It sounds like your mother is being overprotective, but the chances are that's really only because she cares and worries that you are growing up too fast. The best way to improve your relationship and get what you want is to talk to her about what's bugging you, and hopefully prove to her that you have the maturity to deal with a boyfriend. It's good to offer some sort of comprimise to show that your willing to negotiate with her - maybe say your willing to go to football practice less if you can do other things with him. Good luck!
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your mom just probably watches too much tv and thinks your gonna be influenced by other people and turn out into a fast ass little whore, like so many 13 and 14 yr olds out there. you cant be mad at her for being over protective. and maybe bra shopping, isnt fun to you, but maybe it is important to her, cuz its some womanly quality time you guys can spend together. i bet you never thought of it that way, but thats okay. and just talk to your mom and let her know, that you are only 14 and you are not gonan go out and do something stupid, that you are not that type of girl. you have respect for yourself.
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If your the youngest you'r mom is just tryin to keep you her babygirl. Sooner or later she will let you go out more often just be cool about it for awhile. If you really want to see him talk to her about it. Be like mom i don't know why you think i'm not able to take care of myself. You'r only 14 so you shouldnt be thinkin about sex yet so it's really no big deal.
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this might make you mad but i think your mom is protecting you. i promise you that your mom always know what is best. my best advice is to obey your mom and talk to her calmly about him coming over to your house for dinner.
i think youll be a lot happier. just take it 1 step at a time.:D
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i think shes just scared because your in a more serious relationship i mean come on it is 9 months.. any ways i think she just feels like your gonna go and do something youll regret, maybe a mistake she made when she was your age.. she just cares about you maybe shes being a little to protective but you gotta talk to her and tell her how she makes you feel!! good luck!
ps- mention the sister thing!
-xXoBrianna
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