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Why is she doing this to me?
yea umm im 14 and a girl
Ok this is gonna be long. I went out with this kid joe for like 4 months. the whole time we were going out this girl Amy was always flirting with him even around me. I would tell her to stop but she never listened and always denied liking him. Well when me and joe broke up I asked him if he liked Amy cuz it kinda seemed like he did but he said she would be the last person he would ever go out with. So then like two weeks later he goes out with amy. I was over him completely but it still made me mad that he had lied to me. They'e been going out for like 4 months now and theyve gone all the way. Two months ago my best friend andrew asked me out. I'm sooo in love with him but guess what's happening. Amy likes him even though shes going out with joe. She always tells me online how andrew always flirts with other girls when im not around. when i ask my friend nichole whos around him a lot she says thats not true.I know andrew would never hurt me or like anyone else. Hes liked me more than anyone else from the moment he met me. One time andrew had to sleep over amys house because her mom is friends with his mom and he couldnt get a ride back home.
Amy: Did andrew tell you what he did on sunday?
Me: No. Why?
Amy: Oh he wouldn't have.
Me: What did he do?
Amy: He slept over my house.
Me: ((theres nothing i could do about it anyway)) thats cool
Amy: OMG!!! Why dont you ever care what he does!! He flirts with like everyone and you dont even care!!
Me: I do care but i trust him so i dont worry too much.
Amy: w/e
I know she is lying but idk what to do. Please help me out. I hate her and i dont know how to handle it without like telling her i hate her cuz she kinda thinks we're friends. I cant be mean to people and i really dont wanna lose my boyfriend cuz i love him more than anything. Please help me!!!!! ((sorry this is so long))
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okay well dont worry about this gilr. if you know thsi guy is good and shes nothing but a lying whore then you have nothing to worry about. i dont know why she is after evry guy you like, maybe she is jealus of you or soemthing. but dont pay her too much mind, but like her only like it when they can piss someone off, dont give her the satifaction.
P.S. if you want you can give me her sn and i'll tell her off for you... if you havent seen my coulmn i am always in a telling off mood. :)
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i think yu shuld jus be like listen shut the fuck up andrews wid me nd he loves me he doesnt wanna be anything more wid yu... he is jus yu`r friend... nd wha goes on bewtween me nd him is between us so stay out of it... dun believe a w0rd she says... yu need to jus be straight up wid her... nd if she d0esnt stop jus fuckin knock her out lol -haley
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1 word- bitch! i say tell her off and then if she still continues to bother with your boyfriends, kick her ass ;) (well thats what i would do)
-xXoBrianna
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she seems liek a slutty bitch talk to andrew about it and tell him wut shes been telling u otherwise unless u hear it from otha people trust him if he loves u he wont flirt!
XoXo`-bRyTt
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okey i am just like you..i hate being meen to people or at least i used to be like that..i will absolutely hate someone and want to kick their ass but whenever they cry or sey sry i luv u i jsut forget about it and forgive them i am soooo forgiving like that..but you cant live your life like that sometimes because everyone needs to be mean at some points to some people this girl is going to make your life miserable if you dont tell ehr off..tell her that she needs to back off and she has joe she got him ( ur sloppy seconds but still) and now your happy with andrew and u trust him and hes happy with you nothing she can do can change that and make sure she understands that no matter what yell scream do whatever you need to do so she can understand that and talk to andrew tell him what she did with joe and how she goes out wit him and u kno thats their friends and u repeect that you even trust him but it only takes one person to turn around and kiss someone..and tell him you dont want to loose your relationship cuz u luv him so much..and for joe..fuck him he dun deserve you..hope i helped . . KaT *
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Amy just doesn't wanna see you happy. Tell her that you dont like the way she acts around your boyfriend. She doesn't seem like a grest friend or anything so maybe you just shouldn't be friends with her.. All you can do for him is just trust him.
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tell her to shut up and stop being jealous that you've got a good man who doesn't want her. trust your man, if he says that he won't hurt you then you've got to give him the benefit of the doubt. good luck
*~*shan*~*
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dump her, tell her off, ignore her, SLAP HER. or you could really be mean and tell joe that she likes your BF and tell him to dump her. what an embarrassment.
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