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Its all starting to fade!
(I'm a girl and I'm 15!) Alright...I usually don't ask for advice but I really need some right now! I started talking to this guy and at the begining it was great. We were friends first and did everything together with the rest of our friends then we started talking and we hung out every single night and all the stuff! It was so great. I loved every second of it but then its been a month or so and now I'm lucky if I see him once a week! I never talk to him he doesnt call and When i call him hes not home or something! I hate it! Its pretty sad when his best friend calls me more than he does and I'm with him more than he is! All his friends point it out to him too! Finally the other night i got fed up with it! I called him and we got into a fight cuz i told him i never get to see him and its gets old n i dont think he wants to be with me and he said i was just being a drama queen. so then i went drove over to his house and there was like 7 of us over there and he didnt say a word to me! so we all went out to the car to leave again and one of my girlfriends called him over the car and told him that me and him should talk! he wouldnt talk to me and he doenst think hes doing anything wrong and says im just making a big deal outta nothing! Maybe I am maybe im not but i need to know what someone else thinks! So basically what im asking is what (in your opinion) i should do! and if u personally think im making a big deal outta it! tnkx
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well look, if you feel neglected and he doesnt understand that, then maybe you dont need to be together. you need to be with soemone who will understand you and meet your needs. but it was probably a bad idea to go over there with so many people when you knew you were mad at him and had the intentions of talking to him. just explain to him that you miss him and need him around a little more.
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of course its gonna be all hunky dory in the beginning.. people change. ive learned that with my ex boyfreind he was the sweetest guy that turned into the biggest ass hole.. you just gotta accept that.. i dont think your making a big deal about it because i understand where your coming from.. the guy used to hang out iwth you now he doesnt even wanna talk with you.. dump his ass if hes gonna be like that!
-xXoBrianna
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Ok well first of all you have to determine how important he is to you. And also you should think about all of your options. Some options could be to just start hangin out with someone else instead. If his best friend calls you more and you see him more than just get to know him more and maybe somethin good will happen.
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when he stopped coming over everynight, was he acting normally? i think there may be something going on with him that you dont know about... what is he doing instead of coming over? maybe hes scaredof getting close to you.
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here's the deal, tell him straight up that if you two don't have a serious talk then you're friendship is over. or just ignor him wait until he calls you but keep hanging out with his friend, it seems like something can start up with that one. good luck
*~*shan*~*
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