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Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long
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just be like listen...... i know you 2 dont like each other but stop putting me in the middle.. its not the easiest place to be so if you two dont mind not talking to me about one another.. because i love him and she's my best friend. so if you 2 cant handle that, well i dont know what im gunna do then. lol i dont know!
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okay well its good that you know that you should still be your friends friend, and you should still be with your bf. if i were you i would just try to talk less about my bf around my friend since i know she isnt particularly crazy about him, and same goes for when you speak about your friend around your bf. and if they start to talk about eachother around you, just simply be like, look shes not you friend, or hes not your bf, so you dont have to like him/her but i do. so stop putting me in the middle, and just leave it alone.
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lol that's ok that it was so long =) you need to talk to your best friend. tell her everything you told me. she needs to know how you feel about this situation and that you're tired of being stuck in the middle. also - you have to balance the time you spend with your friends and with your boyfriend. sometimes you need to be with your bf and i completely know where you're coming from - but then there's only times that you wanna be with your best friend .. just tell her everything. good luck and rate me =)
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well if he d0esn`t liek yu`r friend he styll shuldnt tlk shit to yu about her.. thas not a go0d bf to do that... nd yu`r friend obviously dun like him f0r a reason... maybii she knows suttin about him that yu dont... or maybii she knows hes not good enuff for yu... yu shuld jus flat out tell ur bf not to tlk about yu`r friend in front of yu... nd tha same for yu`r friend -haley
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this is exactly what happenned between my best friend and i. except i was the best friend who didnt like her boyfriend. what i was bothered by was like you said.. she could never get him off her mind... and i sat through hours of her talking about him.. or awkward silences because her mind was distracted to him. and the guy was immature. i remember treating him like crap on purpose. then she told me how she was feeling and i stopped. but because i hated him so very much... i didnt even eat lunch with them. so if you want them to stop... tell them how youre feeling...they can hate each other but still be civil. but dont just throw out the friend...and make her resort to just leaving all together...from experience it makes really big difference in the way she'll percieve you.
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I would say talk to them both. Explain to them that you know they dont like the other one and that you dont like them talking about them infront of you. To try and make them get along i would find out why they dont like eachother and try and fix that. Hope i helped. <3
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There is oviosly a reason why your friend doesnt like your bf. Talk to her about it, get her to tell you the truth. I was in the same position last year, my friend was being mean to my bf. it turnes out that my boyfriend was really a jerk, but i didnt see that at the time cause i was or though i was in love with him. So i guess just talk to her and have her open up to you. Hope this helps
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thats how it is with me and my best friends boyfriend.. hes an ass to me and she obviously doesnt see it or doesnt care.. i think you should sit them both down and talk to them and ask what they have agaisnt each other and tell them you feel very uncomfortable in the position you are in and that you love them both and dont wanna take sides.. they should understand and tell them if they loved you, they would get along for your sake! but serioulsly hun, hoes before bros!!
-xXoBrianna
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