mrs_radcliffe's advice column

20/f

This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex?

I think that kissing on a first data is a bit fast but he might just want a relationship. Thats usually all men want is sex so its nothing new.

luv roxie

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well i havnt been on my period in like a month mostly more then a month..ive already skipped once i havnt did nething..soo what could be wrong how many times can you skip your period please i need some advice

you can skip loads but if more than 4 go see doctor

Luv roxie

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As a seventeen year old female who is oober tired of stupid highschool guys and would like to move on to more mature ones... how old is too old for me?

in the 20s i think or late 20s
but if you want an older man go for it

Luv roxie

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I dont have enough friends in school. how do I make more?

Just be more out going and talk to people in the class that you wouldnt normaily talk to

luv roxie

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My BEST friend of 7 years is turning o sweet 16 on march 26. My friends and I are already planning on kidnapping her and taking her to ihop in the morning. But as her Best friend i want to get her something really good! Any suggestions?

Why not get her a photo frame with a picture of you and her in it and decorate it.
Or you could write her a poem and frame it or buy her a poem and frame it.
just think what you could get her im sure something will come to you

Luv roxie

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I am a freshman in high school and i recently lost my virginity and i know to use protection but my question is can you only get pregnant when you are on your period? or only when u are not?

help if you i rate!!!!!!!!

~Blundered blonde~

you can get pregnant when your on your period.

luv roxie

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My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

What i want you to do is totally forget about him hes worth nothing you have a great boyfriend and the best of friends and you dont need to bring it all up again just get over him and get on with life, and your not a bitch.

Luv roxie

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okay there's this new boy in my town and one of my friends like him but she don't come to the same school as me and he's really cute. what should i do, should i go up to himand.... but i don't want to hurt my closet friend please help me!!!!

Why dont you talk to your friend about it and deside weather eather of you get him because to me friends come first and they always will do

Luv roxie

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i have this friend that talks about me to my best friend nd my best friend tells me everything she says..my friend isnt the nicest person and she really hurts me but im afraid to confront her wat should i do? thanx a bunch!

Why should you do anything dont appologise if your were going to because shes in the wrong no you. Leave her to it she isnt really a good friend if she talks about you behind your back!
good luck.

Luv roxie

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well you see i have this problem well i thinh im in love with kid and well lets just say his older but not by much and well yeah we flirt and all but im afraid to persue because well im not aloud to care for him my family will diown me and im not the kind of gurl, who lays out easily so please help me

Well if you like him and you parents dont agree why dont you talk to him or your parents. They might have good reasons for not wanted you to care for him but its not your fault that you like him alot.

Luv roxie

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14/female
A lot of people at school thinks my life is perfect. it is far from it. i wont get into too much detail and make this too long but i have a few good friends that i love but there are so many morons that get mad because i get good grades or whatever. i just wanted to know does this go away in high school? or will people still asume my life is great because i get good grades?

thank you

No bodys life is perfect im sure that it will go away just because you do well in school people think that your life is great it might not be to you but to them it is, it should go away and people will just get bored of tell you that and just leave it from now on.

Luv roxie

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Hey, so heres my problem, theres this girl. We like each other. But we have(more like she has) made the decision not to date until were like 16. So thats fine i'm willing to wait. But theres a lot of other girls that like me. And i do want to date and she said that she doesn't care if i date while i wait. But.....well i really like her. Like almost love her. Cus we've known each other since like the age of 3. But i moved when i was 8. And now at 14 she shows up at my church. So i'm really confused on what to do. So PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Well tell her that your not open to a relationship like what she is surgesting tell her that you would like to go out with her but you cant put your life on hold for her.

Luv roxie

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My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?

Neather tell them that you lov them both the same and that they cant make you choose between your family and doing that is just wrong because you love them all the same.

Luv roxie

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I have been having sever pain around my bladder and that area. I know I have a cyst on both of my overies, and they could be getting bigger. I am scared to go to the doctor, because I don't like getting invaded. Should I go no matter what?

Yes i think you should go because its very important that you get it cheaked out no matter what. Good luck

luv roxie

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I really love this girl i am talking to i mean i lvoe to talk to her and be with her as much as possible, i am 17 and turn 18 in about 4 months we are talkin about movin in together do you think that is a good idea she is already 18

Yes if you love her then i think you should move in together and thats a great idea

luv roxie
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what is a bikini wax. and im a girl. am i supposed to shave the hair off.. down there?
please hellp!

Its your choice you can shave but it leaves rasor bumps and waxing will hurt

luv roxie

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Ever since my best friend started going out with this one guy, she has been starting to be mean to me like not talking to me durring school and stuff like that. She has also gone a lot of places with her boyfriend's friends (her new friends) and haven't even asked me to go.. I'm worried about loosing her as my friend becuase.. well.. we only have 6 girls in our class and to tell you the truth I don't like the other 4 girls in my class. Oh, and she has turned into a MAJOR slut! What do I do? What should I say when I talk to her??

Sorry It's so long

Just tell her that she has a bit of an attitude
And that she need to carm down or shes gonna get a bad attitude and that people will think less of her. Tell her that your worried that you will lose her as a friend and that you need to feel like your not going to lose a best friend

luv roxie

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Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.

~Nokomis~

Dont tell him like you love him he might be a bit freaked if you just come out with it say you like him as more than a friend and mabe invite him out ask him wat he feels like.

luv roxie

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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental?

yes i think thats judgemental but thats your life

luv roxie

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