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I'm in love
Alright, I came to the realization that I love this guy that I have been friends with for nearly 5 years. He lives a couple of hours away from me so we talk on the phone. My question is, should I tell him that I love him? Would it freak him out? Would it make things wierd? Should I tell him why I love him? Im in a biit of a spot right now. All comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much.
~Nokomis~
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I can totally relate to this one. I'm in a very very similar situation. This guy, who I've known my entire life, and is actually my best friend lives in Ohio, where I used to live, but we moved to Florida. He's about 758 miles away and 10-12 hours...And I love him more than anything. I plan on movin back in 2 yrs and 2 months, and I think there is maybe a small chance of somethin happenin between us then, we think that if I had never moved then somethin would have happened between us...But he knows I love him, and we're still as close as we ever were, if not more. Tell him you love him, he won't be freaked out, maybe a little surprised, but in a good way. And if you have a strong friendship, and can tell each other alot without judging one another, then things shouldn't get weird. I read this quote once that said somethin like since you never get to see them, hearing their voice is the closest thing to touching them...It's so true. Tell him how you feel, you might be surprised, for all you know he could feel the exact same way. The guy I love doesn't, but at least he knows...Hope this helps! The best of luck!
XoXo
Jessie
P.S. The guy I love even commented on your question...it's a small world after all...lol
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Well you might think your in love but the hole couple hours away think hurts your chances of gettin to be with him
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O.k. Nokomis,
If you really like your friend call him and tell him how you feal about him. If he freaks,
there's alot guys out there. There's a guy out there for you, and you need to find him. Make sure that the guy you like, likes your personality, if not he's going for your looks. Ask him wat he likes in a girl when you call him. And then tell him everything you like about him.
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Dont tell him like you love him he might be a bit freaked if you just come out with it say you like him as more than a friend and mabe invite him out ask him wat he feels like.
luv roxie
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hum... well.. you should tell him you love b.c... hideing it will amke things..worst.. b.c he might end up..likeing a girl.. and talk to you about her... not knowning the way you feel for him.. + he might feel the same way about you !
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Try to do things with him, and then after a few tiems tell him that you are interested in being more than friends. i'm sure he'll see it the same way!
~mandy
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i think that if you love him and you have been friends with him for a long time that you should tell him. it might make things weird, but give it a try.
hope i helped
luv nicki xxxx ♥
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I know how you feel, Noko. Just talk to him and pay attention to how he responds to what you say. After awhile, just bring up he fact that you have feelings for him. As a good friend he should understand, and if he hasn't been watching some other girl, theres a big chance that he feels the same way about you.
Whatever you do, dont 'wait for the right moment.' That moment could be the very same one he comes out and says 'Guess what, I found someone I can say I really love!' and that would probably break your heart, and he would never even know it, because you didn't tell him.... -poke- so don't hesitate. Just remember, even if he doesn't feel that way, you'll always be friends.
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Well..immagine how you would feel if you kept it bottled up that you love him. It would drive you nuts. You would think to yourself "what if he loves me too?" All the "what ifs" would drive you off the wall. Trust me because i've been in your type of situation before. For years you would drive yourself crazy if you never told him. And what if he calls you to say "hey guess what? i have a new gf!" then a year later he might be calling to say "we're getting married!" Dont let that happen! It doesnt have to be today..but within the next week gather all your courage up and speak from your heart. Wouldnt you rather him tell you "im sorry..i only see us as friedns" than not knowing at all? Everyone fears being turned down..but if he turns you down..at least you tried. Lots of luck with all that..i hope it works out..write to my box if theres anything else i can do....
-meliss-
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