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how do i lose weight in my thighs and calves??
You have to work out with your legs. Try a treadmill, if no good... then run.. its the cheapest (well free) excercise there is. And eat things grilled over fried.. just dont get too serious about it. You'll be in big trouble with yourself then.
alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas?
Uhh making out isnt that kind of thing you state. Hes your boyfriend so whats the worst that will happen if you lean in your head and hope for the best... be alone. If he pushes you away... then hes immature but he wont ... trust me.
XoXo-(maybe hes scared that you dont want to! So be the first! Just go ahead and do it theres nothing to loose) and dont do immature things like truth or dare thats gay.. and fake.. you shouldnt have to hide it under something like that... whats going to be your excuse for the next time?
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My boyfriends parents just said he could have the basement as a room to hang out in. He gets minor water leakage in one corner. We are going to move all the storage into the garage. the walls are already painted and in good condition. We are just going to use this room as a hang out. Any ideas or themes? Don't forget its all cement and has cement poles in there. Only 2 windows too.
Thanks!!!!!
hmm. Well he is a guy so maybe you can go with a good theme. Like you can make the wall black and use colors like red, blue, so its not totally dark. I would stay simple. Hes a guy.. he probably doesnt want anything too complicated.. and if hes really looking for a theme, then go with stripes! Stripes are fun and if they're darker colors they're good for a guy. Use different color lights and it will give the room some personality.
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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do?
You told her that you DIDN'T care. Sorry but i think that was your big chance. But what you can do is tell Kevin you still like him over the phone or something. Phylicia is a good friend if she had someone make sure you dont mind... she was looking out for you. So if you have the courage to talk to Kevin, Id definetly say go for it.
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why do i like someone until they like me, and then i stop liking them. then as soon as they stop liking me, i want them back again. am i afraid of commitment or whats up?
It seems like you really do fear commitment. Truthfully you arent prepared for a relationship. Lots of girls get grossed out when guys start liking them back b/c hes not hard to get. Its just a reaction most people tend to have. When its a guy you REALLY like when he likes you back you'll be happy. Theres a difference between little crushes and being head over heels. You sound like you've been having little crushes lol.. the right guys out there. Just stick it out.. some girls WISH guys would like them back.. be happy that they like you it means you have some good qualities..
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Does black really match with anything?
Black matches with EVERYTHING. The only thing is that you shouldnt wear black and black unless your goth or something but as far as fashion goes that will totally just wash out your feature and your figure ... you know? Some really cute things it goes with is Pink.. pink brings out the cutest look whenever its worn with black.
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hey. i have REALLY short legs. &its really annoying. i know this sounds weird, but is there anyway to make them longer? i just hate having such short legs because i can't find pants! if you help me i'll rate you!
unfortunately, i dont think so. Eat your veggies. Lol.. i think the best thing for you would be to stay fit and run/jog here and there.. short legs arent the worst thing you could have. I myself have short legs.. and ive seen many broadway stars who are really short also.. but good luck finding ways to make your legs longer. By the way try and be happy with what you do have, unfortunately some people have no legs ughh gross i know haha.
k my mom let me get my belly pierced in june and shes still hidin it frum my dad bc he sed no....i already hav 4 in each ear and i wanna get my tongue done s0o0 bad!! my mom already sed no more piercings...but i want it reallllll bad...im thinking of goin behind her back and doing it...but HOW SHOULD I HIDE IT?/ any ideas??? does it hurt?? how much does it cost?? does ne 1 no ne where they will pierce it with a parent there??? PLZ HELP!!!
umm you CAN do it but is it really a good idea to be risking loosing all your moms trust? And how will you hide it from your dad? You already have 1 thing to hide from him. My advice is NO dont do it.. your mother said no for a reason... and you are best to stand by that reason.
So tonight I got my first hickey. I always told my boyfriend not to give them to me cause I'll get in trouble but NO! What do I do to get rid of it, I can do makeup but it just wont work covering it up. Any ideas? Thanks!
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ok im a guy and im 15 and i have sum question i have been in a 14 mounth realtionship wit my gurlfriend and for the past 4 mounths we have been breakin up and just fightin becuz the 1st time we broke up she thought i cheated on her but i didnt and the snd time i thought i wasnt gettin any attention cuz she was over her friends house allll the time for like weeks at a time and so we broke up again its been about 6 weeks since we broke up and now she wants me back but we have been findin out alot about eachother lately like she messed around wit a few boys and i messed around wit two gurls but she cheated on me like the last week or so we were together and got fingured by 2 other guys and me i....had sex wit this other gurl that was her "friend" she says but the gurl didnt consider her as a friend and i have a convo were her "friend" says shes not her friend and i made out wit another gurl the day after i was wit my x-gurl (sex). but i really really feel like im in love wit this gurl and she says shes in love wit me but i cant get over the fact that she cheated on me and i dont want to seem like a punk if i do get back wit her u no wat i mean (lol cuz of my friends)and wen we r togther it feels so right and i was her 1st and she was kinda mine cuz i have to tell the truth i believe that u should wait till u find who u want before u have that great 4 sec ya no so i had sex but "I" never finished till me and her made love and so i consider her my 1st but i never told her that. (should I?)but i love this gurl i really do and she said she loves me and i dont see y its not workin out PLZ HELP me!!!!!
Alrite hun.. first off forget what your buddies will think. Ughh.. she doesnt sound that faithful and niether do you! Your just as bad as her if you had sex with someone while you were going out. But it does sound like you really like her.. so you should give it one more shot... you guys need to make a serious promise to eachother. Tell her you'll go out with her if she PROMISES not to hurt you while your going out and that she has to stay true to you. Then you need to be ABSOLUTELY faithful to her otherwise you'll screw things up, even if she DOESNT find out. So go ahead, try it again. But please dont cheat on her... and hope if she makes a promise she'll keep one.
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Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??
You cant go out with both of them!! Do you want people to think your some big player? NO... so either give them up both or choose the one whos going to be there for you and who you love better.... you better break up with one of them .. you'd be a bitch not to. And please. Stop this two guys nonsense... your being unfair to them you wouldnt like it if they were cheating on you...
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hey i'm 13 in august, and i don't know if it's sad, but i've never had a REAL relationship or anything... i feel like i really want to kiss someone, and have a real relationship, but do you think i'm too young? or what? I mean, school starts soon, and there might be new guys n stuff, and its my last year of middle school, and i dont want to miss out on teh fun of being one of the oldest... advice, please?
.:`Sarah':.
I know it sounds crappy, and maybe you dont want to hear this but hear me out anyway. Relationships come easy.. you dont have to change yourself.. you dont have to anything. Your not too young for a relationship its just a matter of if one will come along for you.. we're the same age and i know what your saying but some things in life we dont understand... and Mr. Right will come at the most unexpected time of your life. When he does.. you'll be so glad you didnt rush into anything...
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Okay lets start with this...we moved down from ohio to florida 2 years ago....okay anyway my moms best friends brother who was my moms first love died on thursday unexpectedly and they were supposed to come down here and now they probably wont and so we were going to go up there but my mom can not figure out a way for us to...my moms car will over heat so we can't take it my grandparents will not let us take their car because they say we trash everything and we do not have enough money to blow on a rental car or airplane ticket and now I will not be able to see them again till like next summer and i have been looking forward to them coming down here for a yearr and now they are not even coming and we can't figure out how we can get somewhere half way or all the way.
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Ouch. Ok there have to be things to do. Im sorry to say that you havent left me with much choice but to say.. your going to need to find the cheapest thing to raise money for, but no matter what you do, you HAVE to raise money for something. Babysit nonstop, get a steady job, and by the end of the summer there you have it. Find a way to make a fund with your mom and you can ask people to donate lol this way you can fix the car so it wont overheat or buy plane tickets or whatever you need to raise for. Record all your money in a notebook.. and even if it takes a LONG time to raise you will be there eventually...
unfortunately in life, some things require working our butts off 4 :-(... gr!
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School is about to start and I know homecoming dance comes soon after that. I'm going into my second year of high school and I skipped the dance last year. I don't have any trouble getting dates or anything like that, I just feel really uncomfortable on the dance floor. My friends have seen me dance and say I'm not bad for a white guy, but I still feel really uncomfortable. Any suggestions?
Joke around.. dance bad on purpose.. get people to laugh. Laughing is good... lol and ask some guys who now how to dance for tips. Or you dont HAVE to dance its not mandatory...
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There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away?
BACK AWAY. 16 compared to 21 is unhealthy!! Hes why too old for you and your parents should come first in this scenario.. listen to me and it will be to your advantage...
please.. believe me.. ive seen this way too many times older guys take advantage
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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.
i am all the way against online dating. Despite who anyone says they are you never know. You have NO proof and I wouldnt go risking my life just for some guy i THINK i know. But if you really do insist on going, bring some friends so nothing terrible can happen and tell your parents, if your still living with them. And i would say if your under 14 definetly dont do it... but best wishes
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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out?
why dont you try starting up cheer leading? but not b/c of pressure, but to be with your friends. If no good, bring up your own topics, make them hear you out, talk about what you do, talk about what you guys ALL like and hear out different opinions. If they talk over you anyway, tell them you feel left out... express the truth, b/c the truth is the best way to go.
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im really confused about alot of things right now. I have been getting to know this 21 year old really well and we have become really good friends, but it seems like more than friends. I am only 15, and he always tells me that he wants a relationship with me but i dont want to take the chance of his getting in trouble. but the problem is he likes just about every girl that he meets..but he also has been hurt alot in life with girls, there have been girls that left him and went and slept with guys for drugs, so its not always easy for him either. My moms says if he ever touches me she will shoot him and im jus so confused because weve already done stuff she just dosnt know please tell me what i should do:(
Alright, so your mom doesnt approve. DONT upset mom. Plus this guy is 25, Im sure hes real nice on the surface, but listen up if hes the type that likes every girl that he meets and he wants you to go out with him for all you know, for all you REALLY know those stories with the mean girls could all be lies. You dont want to risk him taking control over you. Please, your too young for someone whos 21 and if hes sick enough to try and get some booty out of a 15 year old hes no good for you. Uck, please just dont give into him....
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ok me and my friend have been friends for a while and stuff but anyways. ever since i took her to youth group at my church everybody seems to liek her more now then they do me... they are all her friends instead of mine!!and im really hooked on my bf and whenevr i talk about him she gets mad but i dont get mad when she talks about guys thats shes not even going out with.. what do i do? do i take a break from her? help!
ok sounds like a mess and I've seen the same thing happen before. Anyway.. you go to youth group for religion, right? So forget the people there! And she doesnt even sound like a sweetie b/c shes taking over all your friends, doesnt want to hear a word about your bf, shes a crazy jerk! So ignore her for a while, she'll call up begging you back and if she doesnt so what! Shes not nice enough to care then!
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