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Question Posted Monday July 26 2004, 9:47 am

Well I'm going withtwo guys at the same time!!I love both of them and they don't know bout each others presence.But the thing is that I don't want any of them to come to know!!Could u plez advice me on how I can go out with both of them at the same time??

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BaBii_xO_aBbii answered Thursday July 29 2004, 7:49 pm:
Women if you loved them you wouldnt do this to them this is NOT a thing to be doign and to be happi about like put urself in their position would u want a guy to be cheating on u when he says hes loves you NOOO so maybi u needa break up w both or stick w one because cheating on someone is sooo not love!
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TucanFullOfHoles answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:42 pm:
don't go out with either of them. a girl doesn't need a guy to be happy.

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xOx_AdElA_xOx answered Monday July 26 2004, 11:24 pm:
dont go out with them at the same time!! thats not fair to either of them becaus they only love you and they think that you love them two with all you heart and you dont ur heart beats for two so you need to think rly rly hard and figure out which one you love more and stick with him nd dump the other one..good luck..<3

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:13 pm:
Dont trust me i know from my past.. you only get hurt in the end and its twice as much

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xmissybootsx answered Monday July 26 2004, 9:00 pm:
I did that once.. it doesn't ever work. I know it can be hard to break it off with them because you don't want either of them to be hurt but they'll be even more hurt if they find out what you're doing.. Either pick the one you love most, or end it with both of them..

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IxAmxCrying answered Monday July 26 2004, 3:07 pm:
Trust me you can play both of them.

Guys are stupid.

Look at me! I'm a classic example.

Just don't mention anything you do with any of them to either of them.

Don't be like "I was hanging out with James yesterday. Blah blah blah."

They'll catch on.

Just designate certains days of the week each.

Don't hang out with one and then make plans for the next day, because the other guy may wanna make plans that day.

Just keep a very open schedule to accomadate your needs.

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angita answered Monday July 26 2004, 2:30 pm:
well my advice is to drop 1 of them.. its not fair to them.. n if they find out then ur gonna b stuck soo act now b4 either or both of them find out.. gud luk xoxo angie

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xOchErrytWistOx answered Monday July 26 2004, 1:00 pm:
Living a double life is not good at all. Sooner or later they're going to find out. So you really need to think about which one you care for more, and tell him whats been going on. You should definately tell both of them though. I don't know if they'll still want to be with you, but its better than living a lie. Good luck!
xoxo
ali

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Monday July 26 2004, 12:09 pm:
im sorry 2 burst ur bubble, but sooner or later... they're goin to find out. which choice would u rather pick..

a. losing both of them when they find out about eachother.
or
b. choose the one who u think is right and gently dump the other one.

i would choose b becuz then i would have one rather than none.

flirty :)

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Sara8047 answered Monday July 26 2004, 12:08 pm:
Im sorry but i really dont think you should go out with both of them...if you dont want them to get hurt then u shouln't be doing this because if one finds out about the other he will get hurt..think about takin a break from them and see what one you miss more..cuz going out with both of them is hurting you..and them

hope i helped...Sara

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Kali7890 answered Monday July 26 2004, 11:12 am:
Hey, I'm srry, but you may not like what I tell you very much. If you love both of them then you wouldn't want them to be hurt, right? If one of them finds out about the other then it'll be over with you and him (maybe even with both of them). So I have to say that you need to pick out of the guys who's better for you and then let the other one go so he can find a girl that will love him just like you loved him. I know you might not of liked my advice very much, but I did my best to try to help you. I hope everything works out. ~*~KaLi~*~

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Hello180 answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:50 am:
I found out the girl I was dating was doing something similar. It really made me mad. I told her I couldn't see her until she made up her mind and in the few days in between I ended up hooking up with another girl. If you don't make up your mind as soon as possible, in the next ten minutes, you could lose both of them. Just remember, if you love them, then some other girl thats not seeing another guy could too.

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Just_Being_True answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:19 am:
don't go out with both of them at the same time. It's not fair to either one of them. I think that you should take a break from both of them and see who you miss more.

Hope I helped......Alina

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Mercy_x_Me answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:16 am:
You cant go out with both of them!! Do you want people to think your some big player? NO... so either give them up both or choose the one whos going to be there for you and who you love better.... you better break up with one of them .. you'd be a bitch not to. And please. Stop this two guys nonsense... your being unfair to them you wouldnt like it if they were cheating on you...

-XoXo-
blue eyes

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Monday July 26 2004, 10:01 am:
u cant keep playin these guys! cuz these guys think that you are devoted to them and only them! u need to choose one of these guys before they find out..which may be sooner than you think! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

[RaTe Me PlEaSe AnD iF yOu NeEd Ne ThInG eLsE jUsT dROp oNe In My InBoX]

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