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honesty?
i kind of like my friends ex boyfriend. i would never ever do anything wiht him but i felt that becasue she was my friend i shoudl eb honest wiht ehr and let her know how i feel. She freaked out adn started yelling at me adn even when i tried ot explain that i didnt want to liek him its jsut somehting oyu cant help and that i would even block him off my buddy list if she wanted me to she still was really amd or something. was she right to be mad? and should i have jsut kept it to myself and not told her? also is there anyhtign i cna do?
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No, it wasn't right for her to be mad at you.If he's her ex-boyfriend, then she shouldn't care if you like him or not.She should be over him.It's only showing you that she still has some feelings for him.'N no, I don't think you should have just kept it to yourself.You were just being honest with her, and there is NOTHING wrong with that.Just keep trying to talk to her 'n try to explain to her that there's really nothing wrong with liking him 'cause he's her ex-boyfriend.If she doesn't try to listen to you...then she's not being a very good friend.Good luck 'n hope I helped!*rate~!*
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You did the right thing by telling her and the reason she flipped out is because you are probably close to her and she is still in love with this boy..i think you should try talking to her again and tell her that you are not goin to do anything and u can't help you're feelings xox Hope i helped
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Your friend deff. shouldnt have blown up like she did. You can like who ever you want it just happend to be him. You cant just say oh i want to like you and never like you. Its something that just happens. You friend should be able to calmly understand that and if she really dint want yo9u to hook up with him just simple have told you that. But she should let you do what you want. But you even sayd you dint wanna be with him so theres another reason y she shouldnt have gotten mad. If i were you id probly be confused to but u need to relize yu were trying to be nice and let her know how you felt and theres noting wrong with how you feel so if you like him dont block him..get to know him.
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I think you did the right thing byy telling her. If i were your friend i would not have yelled because you tried to explain.when you like someone you don't like them to hurt your friend you like them because you have no control over it.so i think you did what was right if your friend thinks it was wrong then she needs to get over herself.yea it was her boyfriend but now he is free to do what he wants and see who he wants to see.
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It depends, if your friend broke up with him, then she probably doesn't want the guy back in her life for some reason or another. In that case just try to make time for both of them but independently and don't always tell your friend when you are going out with the guy, but make sure that you make plenty of time for your friend so she doesn't get worried or upset. If the guy broke up with her, then she is probably a little upset. In this case you should probably get with him anyways, because if you wait til she's over him and then get with him then it will reignite feelings and make her jealous again. Just explain that you like him and that you don't want your friendship to suffer as a result of it.
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you friend might still be a little bitter from their break-up, but she will be back to normal in no time. all you have you do is sit her down with the problem and talk about exactly why she is mad. mmmkay? hope i helped!
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