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why do i like someone until they like me, and then i stop liking them. then as soon as they stop liking me, i want them back again. am i afraid of commitment or whats up?
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your probably afraid of it
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Sounds like you like the chase. I had that problem in ninth grade. I'd like a guy, and when he'd start to like me, I'd stop liking him. I have never been afraid of commitment - I just liked the feeling of chasing a guy I liked, not knowing if he liked me, etc...that whole thing.
Don't worry about it - that should stop at some point. It stopped for me when I encountered a guy I didn't have a crush on who kind of got me to fall for him. Lol.
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i think u like the IDEA of having a commitment more than actually having one. maybe ur just not ready..or u dont rly like these ppl as much as u think u do
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You're fickle.
You're constantly looking for something better.
We all are.
No shame in that.
It's the thrill of the hunt.
You obtained what you thought you couldn't obtain, so now you move on to other things.
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You're prolly one of those people who just like the chase. Once that person that you start likeing likes you back, you don't have the thrill of trying to keep impressing them anymore. It's totally normal, prolly just a phase
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haha this is a common one. i think it's because many of us like what we can't have. when he doesn't like you, you can't have him.... so he's more appealing to you. and when he likes u it's the opposite.
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Yes you are afraid of commitment. I used to do that all the time. This just means you scared of the situation or maybe of having a boyfriend. When you least expect it someone will like you that u never thought would and hopefully you'll like them back.
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It seems like you really do fear commitment. Truthfully you arent prepared for a relationship. Lots of girls get grossed out when guys start liking them back b/c hes not hard to get. Its just a reaction most people tend to have. When its a guy you REALLY like when he likes you back you'll be happy. Theres a difference between little crushes and being head over heels. You sound like you've been having little crushes lol.. the right guys out there. Just stick it out.. some girls WISH guys would like them back.. be happy that they like you it means you have some good qualities..
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It sounds like your a non-commital person, but thats alright. There are ways that you can stop this (if u choose). The next time someone likes you, just try going out with them. See how it goes. If you like it, youre going in the right direction. If you don't,see how you like being single. If that doesnt work out to well for you either, there is one last resort. You could try finding someone who is also non-commital. You guys could be friends who are more than friends, if u know wat i mean. I hoped this helped!! -- Questions4KT
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youR just like me..lol..it seems like uRe not Readii foR commitment..neitheR am i.. the idea of having a b/f fReacks you out and thats noRmal..thass why i decided im just gna fliRt and hav fun..you shudnt be limited tu one guy..thas toRture! lol! hope i helped!
.:>mua<:.
-mina
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the thing is... is that u prob. want a bf.. so once u find out tat sum1 lyks u.. u noe theres a possibility to have one.. so u kinda try to find the gud things in them n tell urself tat u lyk them.. but after a while u realize tat its not wat u want.. tat useto always happen to me.. wat i did was just lyk the person i lyked.. if i fould out sum1 lyked me then w.e if at the sec. i lyked them then ok.. but i didnt force maself.. n then u want them bak wen they dont lyk u cuz u noe no1 else lyks u and u just rather have sum1 then no1 at all! n e thing else just ask.. gud luk.. xox angie
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cuz youre a PUSSY:)
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