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Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 21
Member Since: July 26, 2004
Answers: 7
Last Update: September 3, 2004
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i dont have a boyfriend for my prom and i dont have any friends that are guys (or girls) to go with either ... I know its early but Im not gonna get a b/f cause i dont really want one but i want ot go to prom but nor alone!! help (link)
i went alone. it was depressing. but all of my friends were coupled off. i think it would be a TON of fun if you went with a group of people that werent couples, but it sucks to be the only one without a date. regardless of the reasons, you still feel like a loser when everyone is slowdancing, and youre sitting by the wall alone. i cried. i wish i had just not gone. i could've spent all that money on something that i enjoyed, rather than a poofy dress.


i really like emo music and i wanna know some more bands & awesome songs. does anyone know any good emo bands? (link)
a lot of the bands listed here aren't emo. emo makes you want to kill yourself. these bands are tame. except saves the day. they are emo. they make me suicidal. dashboard is moderate emo. the rest are not.


I like to eat the crumbs, and small ones first, even if I have to dig deep in the bag. Sometimes, I dump them out to get to the small ones. People think I'm weird. Am I? (link)
When i was in highschool and we got a little bag of chips with lunch i used to crush them up in the bag and eat the crumbs with a spoon. you're not alone.


This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me. (link)
don't tell her. she doesnt need to know as long as you aren't trying to start a more serious relationship with her. boy meets girl, boy sleeps with girl, boy and girl go separate ways. its not the most romantic scenario in existence but its exceedingly common. you'll probably be obsessive about her for a while just because the first person you have sex with sticks with you regardless of the relationship (or lack thereof) behind it. should you tell her, she's just going to freak out because what in her mind was a casual hook up is in your world a giant first. she'll most likely feel guilty and really awkward around you.


why do i like someone until they like me, and then i stop liking them. then as soon as they stop liking me, i want them back again. am i afraid of commitment or whats up? (link)
cuz youre a PUSSY:)


Does black really match with anything? (link)
no, ie black and navy blue, black and cream, etc. black can only go w light colors that are not earthtones or dark colors that are earthtones, or bold colors.


Is it good or bad to be sensitive? (link)
nothing is bad in moderation. its only bad if you're overly sensitive.




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