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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it

Dont compaire your self lots of models have loads of stylists and make up and plastic surgery your a natural girl. Im unhappy with the way i look not everyone is perfect just be who you are and people will love you for you and not how you look. Think to your self that there is alot of people who arnt as nice as me there all different shapes and sizes and different hair colours just love you for you!

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well my friends suck, theyre always rude to me and get on my nerves. i try to help with their problems but they just act like im an idiot. anyway, i try to meet new people and talk and get together but no one wants to..and they already have best friends. what do i do?

Talk to you friends tell them that you dont like the way they treat you and that when every you try and help them they act like you an idiot which your not. Mabe you could move into another class and make more friends just try be more out going and try getting in with other girls and then you will have loads of friends invite a couple over from your school for some time and watch a film or listen to music.

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hey. alright, im kind of nervous about shaving below my belt. does it itch growing back? how do i prevent razorburn? should i just use shaving cream? what about nair? if anyone could give me some tips or adivce on doing it, that'd be great.

You can use shaving cream or soap make sure you use walm water use alot of soap or shaving cream some times you cant avoid razorburn. shave down! dont shave up because it will probely rip some of your skin! you can still shave even if you are sexually active that has nothing to do with it.

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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it?

Why dont you try calling him tell him that you want this relationship to work but the fact is that your very shy. To help him dont let the relationship go to fast because once everything happened it all gets a bit boring after a while!

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okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.

And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying.

Tell her that shes upsetting you and that you do have friend and that when ever you tell her a secret she shouldnt tell other people. Tell her that you dont no if you can carry on been friends if shes gonna be like that.

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I've been making clothes for myself for a while and Its so much fun...but I can't think of anything to make. So I was wondering, does anyone have any good do it yourself clothes ideas?
domo arigato to all!

why dont you buy some plain tops and get some paint or fabric pens and write all over them you could add sequneces and ribbons. That will be fun

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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings.

I think the guy from the party, but was a bit supprised when your brother came over and that caused his reaction why dont you invite him over and see if he sends you any mixed messages then if there all posative go for it if not back of a bit just be friends. If you really like that other guy go out with him! good luck

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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

Just talk to your friend about it tell her that you dont feel comfortable around her brother.
And when hes there try avoiding him or if she invites you over to hers why dont you say i cant come over but you can come to mine for a bit instead.

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I have this "friend"that talks behind my back!!! she even said she hated me, to my other friend!!!I don't know what i did?!! When i try to talk to her all she does is say "i don't need advise I'm not rude so shutup!!!" I think she is also a show off to impress me and my best friend!! How can i solve this?!!!

I think that if she talks behind your back shes not a right good friend sounds like shes two-faced and she need to stop before she has no friends left. Tell her that if she was a friend she would be there and help you but shes not doing that at all shes just making some things even worse than they already are.

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Me and my girlfriend just broke up and i was kinda glad that we broke up at first but noe i miss her really bad and i am not sure if she likes me so what should i do?

Why dont you talk to her about it tell her that it was a mistake to brake up with her because you really like her. if she doesnt want to get together just find someone else

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Hey how do you to get people to stop calling you rich...like my dad is the president of a hotels all over the world and my mom is a lawyer...like sometimes when my mom and dad are bizzy i go to school in our limo and people wont shut up about it it aggervates me...and we hav a 2 story house on the beach in cali...and they both drive range rovers...it gets on my nerves sooo bad how do u get it to stop...?

Hiya i dont think that if you keep driving to school in a limo it wont stop.there probally just jealous of you!theres nothing you can really do.just wait people will get bored and will find someone else to aggravate.

good luk
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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

There is this cream called coco butter. Its fades them but they dont go away completly. You get stretch marks if you put weight on once you lose that weight the stretch marks should fade silver. but the cream will help it faster!

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..........theres this girl in my class who is really hot,has a great personality,smart.and athletic. she just recently had a boyfriend but she dumped him.i like her alot and she sot of likes me.....im not absolutely sure,but she talks to me alot and i think she likes me. i need advice on how to figure out how much she likes me without snitches snooping and telling everyone i like her. please help

If a girl likes you sometimes they smile at you and keep looking at you and get inbarrased or go red when they talk to you. Just act normal around her and it will work out.

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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME

I think that the most important thing at the moment is the friendship between you and our friend and tell her that hes been doing the same stuff to you as he has her and that you dont want the friendship of you to to end up in tears because she means more to you than just someone who is there for you.

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

Get over him hes not worth you take some you time and spend it with your friend pigging out on the couch and watch some films go bowling or swimming just keep your self busy and then u'll realise that hes not worth it and you could do better.

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When you go to the doctor just to get meds. for the flu or something...do they still weigh you? I know they do when you go in for a physical or a check-up but what if you just have the flu?

Yes you have to be weighted when you got to the doctors. You can take a couple of days of school and just relax at home until you feel better. But some times flu can be really bad if the doctor surgests the flu jab that might be worth thinking about.

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Once one of my friend told me she cuts herself.
I was very worried so i told my bets frined. Now we arnt bf anymreo and she told everyoen saying "Alex told me Danielle cuts" not daniele is mad at me and evryone is clalign me a gossiper What do i do

Why dont you sit your best frien and danielle down and talk about it dont shout because that will proberly just make the situtation even worse ask her why she told everyone and that you trusted her to keep the secret tell danielle that you need help to help you deal with what ever shes going through. Tell the ur best friend that you thought she was a best friend and that they dont tell everyone your secrets

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yesterday, after school, was the beginning of my spring break and when i came home, i decided to play around because it was the first day of spring break and i was happy! so when my mom got home and saw me talking on the phone, chatting, and listening to my ipod, she got all mad, screaming why i wasn't doing my project! well i have 2 really important history projects to do over spring break, but the thing is both of them are due like 5 weeks after spring break! she forced me to work on it all night and i was workng and working and she kept on screaming and screamign! i wanted so badly to tell her to SHUT THE HELL UP I'M WORKING!!! but she has a bad temper and i do too (i inherited it from her) and i don't want to start one of our horrible fights. so i kept calm and did my work. so after like 2 hours i decided to take a break and play minesweeper, and then my mom came in and totally freaked out, saying i was wasting my time! i told her i was just taking a break and she won't believe me!!! she started screaming about how i just wasted her entire night because the lazy, worthless child i am (she didn't exactly say that but she was SO thinking that!). then my grandma came and asked if she should wake me up again (because once she didn't and i woke up at 12 and i got mad, long story) and then i was like sure. my grandma said "ok how about i wake you up at 10:30?" and i was going to say NO WAY and then my mom cried "10:30!? she should be woken up at 8:30!!" I CAN'T STAND MY MOM!! HOW CAN I STOP HER!! SHE'S FORCING ME TO FINISH THE ROUGH DRAFT OF BOTH MY PROJECTS TODAY AND DOES SHE KNOW HOW MUCH WORK AND TIME THAT IS GOING TO TAKE!? AND SHE'S ALWAYS SAYING THAT WHEN SHE WAS A CHILD, HER MOTHER WOULDN'T HAVE TO DO THIS TO HER BECAUSE SHE WAS THE PERFECT STUDENT AND DID ALL HER WORK!! AND YES I BELIEVE HER BECAUSE SHE ENDED UP GOING TO MIT AND BECAME A DOCTOR AND ALL. BUT PLEASE HOW CAN I CONTROL HER! SHE'S OVERWELMING ME! JUST BECAUSE SHE COULD STAND TO DO ALL THIS WORK WHEN SHE WAS MY AGE, DOESN'T MEAN I CAN!!! HELP ME PLEASE THIS IS SERIOUSLY AN EMERGENCY!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hiya just tell your mum how you feel!just say you have lots of homework and that you can do it all in one night. say you think she wants you to be perfect like she was. Why dont you stay with ur gran for a bit untill your mum gets help mabe if she went to the doctors and got the problem sorted out then you and her would be alot better of. What she is making you do is totally wrong and she should understand that making you work all night and all day because she was once a girl her self and had much homework and she shouldnt forcing you to stay at home and just do all ur course work. Good luck

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tomorrow night im going somwhere and there is going be some lads there. how do i get a guy 2 notice me? and if they ask me out shall we ask loads of questions to each other?
please help xxx

Just be loud and tell jokes and make you self noticed talk to some guys and have a laught just go with it

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I dunno how to put this but here we go.
So for spring break I went up to steamboat to go skiing and in the hotel room I would always call my bff's Ana and Tess! Then They were always together when I called they were together every day when I was gone. And I always get jelious when people hang out with out me like I dont care if their friends but I just get soo jelious. I dont know what to do to solve my problem. PLEASE HELP ME!

its alright to feel jelious because you feel like your friend are more closer why not talk to them about it tell them that you feel like your been left out and that you want all of you to be together most of the time.

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