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Friend truobe
Once one of my friend told me she cuts herself.
I was very worried so i told my bets frined. Now we arnt bf anymreo and she told everyoen saying "Alex told me Danielle cuts" not daniele is mad at me and evryone is clalign me a gossiper What do i do
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Why dont you sit your best frien and danielle down and talk about it dont shout because that will proberly just make the situtation even worse ask her why she told everyone and that you trusted her to keep the secret tell danielle that you need help to help you deal with what ever shes going through. Tell the ur best friend that you thought she was a best friend and that they dont tell everyone your secrets
luv roxie
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Well as of now you will just have to deal with all of the pain and suffering. That is your fault for telling Danielle's business,but as a lesson learned, you really should'nt tell other people things that you would'nt want told. Right now I'm sure Danielle is really hurt because she truted you with something and you broke your sheild of trust that you had with her. Hopefully she will come around and forgive you, but I'm not promising you that you guys will be as close as you used to be . HOPE I COULD HELP AND GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIP!!!
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Did you learn your lesson yet. Next time when some one tells you something like that dont tell anyone else. Even though you should dont. Talk to that person and help them stop and get through it. Be there for her and be a good friend. If that doesnt work and she still cuts then defenetly tell some one. If they get mad then that sux but you did the right thing. Dont tell none of your friends her buisness until you or someone else helpes! Talk to the girl who cuts and apologize to her for telling. Who ever calls you a gossiper ignore them because they are ignorant! x0
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wow you really need to learn to spell maybe itll help if you took grammar lessons maybe that will help them get the story straight if they actually know what your saying
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life is about trying to solve the problem in front of you. so, solve the biggest issue first. not the rumors and talking, but try and get your friend to stop cutting. tell her things arent as bad as she may think, and if she puts all her faith into God, everything will be fine. about the rumors and people talking about you, just let it go and the people will find something (or someone) else to talk about real quick.
♥ cali rae
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i think you should forget about everyone else, and apologize to the girl that cuts. become friends with her again and try to help her. cutting ain't fun. trust me!
hope i helped!!
xoxo
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sounds to me that your ex-b.f suchs big booty! just try to ignore it and like try talking to your friend.. maybe she will understand.. but you also have to understand thats a big thing you told...
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Sounds like your ex-best friend is the gossiper, and perhaps you should point that out. And Danielle shouldn't be mad. The reason she told you is because she wants help. She may tell you she doesn't, but people who cut themselves don't tell others unless they want help. Give her help.
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Well if you know for sure she does tell her mom, not another friend.She needs help.Yeah, she'll be mad for awhile but she will get over it when she is better.At least she will know you cared enough to help.
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cut yourself to relieve the pain.
-hitler
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keep friends problems to yourself and help as an indivudual instead of telling everybody else. if youre very woried talk to the friend that told you.
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