If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop?? (link)
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Pretty much nothing. Some people crave attention and your friend sounds like one of those people. You may tell her that you feel she's being onoxious,but that's no guarantee her behavior will stop. She must feel insecure about something and that's why she shows off. She feels she needs to prove herself.
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wats dry sex n i how do i preform it? (link)
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Dry sex is really just humping someone with clothes on. I kind of explained how to perform in the definition. It serves no real purpose to me.
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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys? (link)
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Girls may say they want the sweet guy,but if they did,wouldn't you and I already have a girl? The answer to this question is simple:I don't know. Girls are a perpetual mystery that will never be solved. That's why I'd kill to be Mel Gibson in What Women Want.
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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...
I rate!
Did I say I rate?!?!
I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!! (link)
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It doesn't matter. You shouldn't have to take that. A lot of abuse isn't reported because women feel they're powerless. They're not,the police will protect you. If he's beating you,then he'll probably beat your children too. Do you want to put yourself and your kids(if you have any)in that kind of danger? Tell the cops and don't let him keep doing this to you. Stay with somebody you trust if you have to,divorce this guy,and find someone who will love and respect you.
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okay i wonna know, how to have a nice ass? WHAT should i do?/ RUN?? or something? (link)
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No,running will lose your ass. Do squats and essentially just let yourself grow up. Women naturally have a nice ass and they lose it when they try too hard.
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~*Hey I have this problem with my cuzin. She is now 14. She thinks she is better than every1 else...she even told me that once. She dresses like a slutt...most ppl call her 1. She wears skirts that don't cover her a**, and shirts that go just bellow her breasts. Every where I go wit her guys r always starring. She always brings me down, and told me that she was ready to have sex!!! She is turning anirexic(food disorder). I wish I could help her. All she does is tell me how much she thinks I wanna be like her. I just don't understand I love and care for her and she treats me like this. I've tried asking her whats wrong, and she just calls me a loser and walks away. Pls help wit my problem*~ (link)
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Your cousin is going through a stage where she thinks being slutty will impress the guys. Although,they'd be interested in having sex with her,they won't respect her if she acts like that. You can't respect a slut,and if you can't respect someone,you can't love them. Tell your cousin this and if she still dresses like it's midnight on 45th,then she apparently feels ok just being used for sex. Her eating disorder tells me that she's desperately trying to lose weight to impress guys and she thinks this is the way to do it. It's not. Once she gets some self-respect,she'll quit dressing like that. Then she'll eventually realize that eating healthy is better than being anorexic.
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ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ? (link)
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Yeah,god damn right you should.Your best friend should be your boyfriend or girlfriend for the guys. If you have a friend stronger than them,the relationship is in trouble right there. Yeah you knew it,but he didn't know you knew it and therefore has officially tried to keep something from you. I have an idea though. Why does everybody feel like they have to do one guy-one girl at 14,15,and 16? Why can't he just go out with both of you? I mean dating is essentially an experiment with the opposite sex(the same sex for some). Right now,just have fun,and enjoy it. You'll have married life to be tied down.
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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
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You may not want to hear this,but I am also a guy of 18 and I know how we think,and he probably just wants to have sex with you. He approaches you because he knows you are young,and he thinks he may be able to take advantage. His expressing that he wants you to tell no one makes sense to me:Sex would be illegal with you. If he didn't bother to talk to you for two months,he obviously didn't miss you THAT much. You don't really like him,you only think you like him. I'd say don't get involved with the guy. Plus YOU had to sneak out to see HIM? What? That is the guy's job entirely. Haven't you ever heard of Romeo and Juliet? You think Romeo would've impressed the girl if she went to his place? I think not.
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Theres one guy who changes mood's rapidly. He used to always be happy, now he's always mad, yet today he was happy. We used to like eachother, but never said anything. Point being, I still like the guy. I don't know if he likes me. I'm 19 he's 16. Sucks, yeah. But I love the guy. He's all I think about during the day. Even now..haha. Help? If I tell him, I know he'd laugh it off and act as if I'm joking. I don't really feel like talking about lovey shit, either. (link)
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Well,how do you know he'd laugh you off? If you don't feel like "lovey shit",just say something like "So and so,I really care about you a lot and I'd be interested in dating you...blah blah blah." If he actually laughs at you,then he's kind of a jerk and he's not worth your time. Be confident.
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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!
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Well,the obvious answer is to cut down on the bad food. Eat more protein and less carbs. Start running and you should drop the weight in a couple of months. In addition to looking thinner,you'll feel better. Don't cut out the bad food entirely,but just cut back.
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theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet? (link)
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No,because hes putting on a face. He's just being nice so you'll like him and give him some. The real him is the asshole you describe to me in the daytime. But if you're interested in the guy,simply ask him why hes different at different times of he day.
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ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...
The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet
Nothing
The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear
Nothing
The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red
Nothing
The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain
Nothing
The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful
You find no God
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Kinda dark huh? But very descriptive,vivid. I can see the girl looking at herself in the mirror. No make up on,depressed,cutting herself and watching her blood drip into the sink.
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What happens if the person who made you cry is the only person who can make you stop? (link)
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Well it's not true. Once you find another guy,he'll make you stop and you'll forget about the first loser.
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i really like this song but its kinda old and i dont kno the name of it or who sings it but i kno the lyrics:
im a bitch, im a lover, im a child, im a mother, im a sinner, im a saint, i dont not feel ashamed im your health im your dream im nothing in between you kno u wouldnt want it any other way
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It's Meredith Brooks with bitch.
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what does the song echo by trapt talking about it? what is the story behind it? like what is the point of it what does it mean.... (link)
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This guy loves this girl,but for some reason he can't be around her anymore. She dumped him,she died,some bullshit like that and he's trying to get her out of his head. Good song.
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I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
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Yeah,you need to shave it. There's nothing hotter than a bald pussy. But don't worry if hes disgusted,shave if you want to. If he doesn't like it,hell with him.
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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
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No,if your parents find out and are pissed they can press full charges. Plus,if you have sex with him and something goes wrong,next Mother's day you'll be celebrating. I don't care if HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,don't do it.
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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend (link)
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Well,did you make it clear to your boyfriend that you both were dating each other exclusively? If not,then I gotta side with him and your friend. If, on the other hand,your friend knew this would piss you off and did it intentionally,then ditch her and,if you feel like it,him too.
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Hey if you have ever seen 16 candles( ahh, jake ryan is so hot) anyway... do you think that samantha does lose her virginity to jake? (link)
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Of course. Jake Ryan is the coolest guy. He's a jock,but he likes her for her. I'd say they definitely get it on girlfriend.
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Hey. You seem like an awesome person, who gives great advice! Don't be so hard on yourself, you seem really cool! You don't see too many guys in the advice column who gives great advice, only a couple guys do and you're one of them. So don't be so hard on youself kid! lol
xoxo Kourtney (BlueEyedBlondie725 (link)
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I'm not really hard on myself,I just don't lie to myself. I like helping people out and I may seem like an awesome person,but I'm really not. You wouldn't be able to pick me out of a crowd. I appreciate that you like my advice. I just do the best I can. Thanks again.
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