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Ok I was just wondering how do you get a guy to notice and look at you like when you pass them in the hallway? like to make them notice you and wanna talk. Cuz there is there are some really cute guys at my school but I only see them in the hallway so yeah! please help!!(: Thanks!! (link)
This is tough because adolescence is a festival of mutual insecurity. So even if you bump into someone in the hall he may not get the message you like him in a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of way.

The other thing, though, is that you don't really know these guys at all, but are merely reacting to their looks and then projecting some kind of image on to them. This can be a setup for disappointment (the guy night turn out to be a total pig). So just relax and let things develop organically without forcing the issue. If it is meant to be it is meant to be and if it isn't it isn't.


I've realized that I sometimes am attracted to females. Like, I watch lesbian porn sometimes and I have a lot of gay friends. I know neither of those things "make you gay", but lately I've started having feelings for a friend of mine who is female. I'm not quite sure if I just want to hook up with her or if I truly have emotional feelings. What do I do? Is there even anything I should do? (Oh by the way, this friend is a pansexual.) (link)
So hook up with her and see how you feel about it.

These kinds of exploratory phases are very common in people your age. So take the opportunity and see what happens. And if you are a lesbian then that's okay, too. Some of the finest people I have ever met in my life are lesbians. After all, it's more about who you are as a whole persona and not your sexuality.

Don't overthink things and just enjoy who you are as a person first and explore all the options open to you and see where it leads.


iowehkfnsdouwehkjf

i'm so frustrated and mad..

I honestly have no real friends.. all of them backstab me so many times :'( Its gotten so bad to the point where I just want to run away and leave and go somewhere else.

I don't know what to do anymore.. I feel so alone. I could give you endless examples of how my friends treat me. Here are a few. We are getting ready to go out and party, just as we step out the door, one of them goes "oh sorry Lauren I can only fit 6 people in my car" so I was the one who had to find my ride there... out of all the girls, they picked me to find my own ride. Another example- we are talking about going out to eat lunch and they are trying to figure out which restaurant to go to. They ask me and I suggest Noodles and they said "ew no" then 3 seconds later someone else says Noodles and they go "ya!"... uhhhh what??? i just said that...

there's just been so many times when they backstab me and talk about me and just treat me so badly.. but then other times they are nice and say hi and what not.

I'm just so fed up being treated this way. I cry all the time because I feel so bad about myself. I don't feel pretty at all, I feel like a complete loser because I don't have any real friends.

Ugh what should I do?? I've tried making new friends but with my busy schedule and HUGE school (my high school has 4,000 kids) it takes such a long time to find good friends with someone. There's like 5 weeks left of school. I really just want to get it over with and graduate already (i'm a senior) but at the same time I don't want to end on a bad note.. I'm just so frustrated and confused and I dont know what to do anymore.. I'm so sick of being treated this way. I've tried to stand up for myself but they laugh at me and ignore me.

Oh and I don't have anyone to go to for help.. My mom doesn't live with me and its very hard to communicate with her. My dad wouldn't care at all and doesn't want to get involved. I don't have any siblings. All of my close family is vey very far away and hard to contact them. I don't have any best friends or mentors or counselors to talk to.. :( (link)
When you get older, you are going to find that high school ultimately doesn't matter. Stop seeing the abusers that you call friends and get yourself ready for college, where you will find a much better class of people.

Decide what you want to do with your life, make a plan to ensure it happens and then go for it hammer and tongs. Take control of your life so that you don't end up feeling needy from the teenage emotional trauma and remember that if you always act ethically and kindly you are a good person. Be rational and don't overthink. Good luck.


i have a tiny bump around my vagina. you can't see it. but i could feel it. it feels like a really tough not. i shave down there so could it be an ingrown hair? it hasnt really itched it. (link)
This is something a gynecologist needs to address and not a bunch of people who don't know you on this website. Good luck, though. It's probably nothing, but a doctor will be able to give you a more definite diagnosis.


A couple of months ago I got back into contact with a guy I went to school with. I had always had a thing for him and as soon as we started talking again all the old feelings came back. We are both from the same city but at different universities which are at least 6 hours apart.

When we were both back in our hometown for the Easter break, we met up a couple of times. He was very keen and at first I felt that he liked me more than I liked him. We were also still talking all the time. I thought it was going really well. After our third date, he asked when he could see me again and we arranged that I would go to his house a few days later. After that I suddenly stopped hearing from him and on the day we were supposed to see each other, he cancelled at the last minute. The next day, I asked if I was going to see him before I went to my grandparents' house for a few days and he said I could come over that night. Again, he cancelled at the last minute. After that he went back to university and I didn't hear from him for over a week.

On Friday night, after not hearing from him for so long, he invited me over to his friend's house because he was back in town for a few days. He seemed really pleased to see me and when I asked why I hadn't heard from him he said he didn't know when I was coming back from my grandparents' house, which I thought was a bit of a lame excuse but accepted it because he was being so nice. We ended up having sex that night and at the time I made it really clear that I liked him and didn't want to just not hear from him again. The next day he was texting me telling me how amazing the night had been.

I'm going back to university today so I hinted that I would like to see him before I went. He asked me what time I was leaving but after that he went quiet again.

I'm really confused because before we started 'seeing' each other he told me how he was sick of sleeping around and wanted a girlfriend. He was the one who seemed really keen and told me he really liked me but he keeps going off the radar.

We're both going to be back at university until the end of May now so we won't see each other. Is it worth bothering to try and keep in touch with him or should I just forget about it? I really like him but I'm not prepared to embarrass myself by constantly chasing after him and I don't want to scare him off by asking him straight out what's going on.

I'm 19, he's 21. (link)
You're being played. Move on and find somebody else.


I am a seventeen year old girl and just started fingerin myself after being with my boyfriend for two months. The other day when i was fingering myself, i had popped my own cherry. My mom doesn't know i finger myself let alone that i popped my cherry the other day. I've always been a good girl and its not myself to do there type of things. i think that when i tell her its going to hurt her feeling and she'll be ashame of me. How do i tell her that i popped my cherry and started fingering myself just because of this boyfriend i have now. (link)
Masturbation is completely normal. There is nothing dirty about it, or sex in general nor about your body. Relax, see this as just something that everybody does (because they do even if they try to deny it; hell, your mom probably did it when she was your age) and don't overthink it. I would keep this a private matter, though.

Thus, the takeaways here for you are to just live in the moment, don't feel guilty about sex while you manage it responsibly so that you don't suffer any adverse outcomes and be in control of your life generally.


20/F

Iv'e been told mean things by my family and being told those things has caused me to not think highly of myself & not be motivated also be lazy and think that what i want to achieve isn't worth trying to achieve anymore i feel like giving up completely and think that my life isn't worth living and i'd be better off dead and i will never be good enough for my family also feel like nothing i do is right i'm having a hard time motivating myself i keep remembering all the mean things my famiy has told me & i'm starting to believe that maybe what their saying is true i feel like i'm a failure who's worthless & a nobody how do i motivate myself & how do i stop thinking the things i am? Without letting what's
been said to me get in the way (link)
What is often going on in such emotionally abusive circumstances is that your family members actually feel like failures themselves and, as I have said before, losers like nothing more than to take others down with them. They are engaging in what psychologists call "projection," whereby they accuse you of having the same faults they themselves possess as a way to make themselves feel better.

Ultimately, it is your life and you need to take control of it and not let others gain control over you. So you need to come up with a strategy for getting yourself out of that family situation (going away to college would be a good idea) since you don't want to be sucked into the vortex of their personal self esteem issues.

Use the disparaging words as motivation for being successful. Try to spend as little time at home as possible. Spend time after school doing your homework or reading in the library, being among friends who have a higher opinion of you and exploring hobbies. Get a job and save the money for college. Then when you graduate, go live in a foreign country for a while to expand your horizons and understanding of the world.

Again, remember that you are being mentally and emotionally abused here. Don't let them win. Totally ignore their negative messages (that actually have more to do with their personal neuroses) and make your own path.


Everyday I dress pretty but my crush stays quiet!! help!! = (link)
Your crush is a nice guy who is afraid to bust a move because he is afraid of rejection. Next time you talk to him, give him lots of compliments, smile and touch his arm a lot or, even better, just flat out ask him out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? Guys have to put their egos on the line everyday asking women out, so how about you see how that feels so you can better understand a guy's position?


All of a sudden my friends are like desperate for guys and hanging out with these gross guys. Were all 18, and they're like 20-25. They aren't in college. Their like drug dealers and just basically ghetto losers. I'm repulsed by them and I can't stand when they want to go to one of their parties. The whole time I'm worried im going to get shot, they all think I'm the hottest and constantly want to hook up with me, but I refuse too and they don't really like me because I won't drink or smoke. But obviously I'm not going to put anything in my body that they have possession of. My friends are acting like whores and they'll probably end up with stds and it's ruining our friendship because I never want to hang out with them anymore because of this.

What do I do? (link)
First, losers love nothing more than to take others down with them. So you need to tell your loser friends, who are hell bent on sabotaging their lives, to take a hike.

The other thing is that a lot of girls like guys who treat them like crap. Too many high school guys these days are wussies (too many raised by single moms with no male role model in the house to teach them how to be a guy) and so when guys who are assertive and kind of dangerous come along that makes them hot to a lot of women.

Finally, remember this: whatever happens in high school will not matter to you in the big picture. Your brain is still developing, you have along way to go educationally and your friends or you will move away or gravitate to other social circles. Therefore, it is incumbent on you to take control of your own life and stay on a productive path toward success both in your job and in your personal life. And if things get tight for you you will often find your "friends" will suddenly not be there. That is why you have to view high school as just another step in life and not get caught up in stupid bullshit.


I'm 19 years old and currently a highschool senior (no I'm not a super

senior), but the man I'm totally head over heels in love with is 39. I met him
my freshman year because he happened to be my busdriver. Do you think thats weird? And from the
first day I saw him I always thought he was cute but nothing
more than that. There was no actual feelings but by the end of freshman
year I felt something builiding there kinda like a crush. I wanted to
talk to him more than just saying hi and bye everday, but didn't know how
to. That summer I found myself thinking about him a lot. I think i grew to be
infactuated by him. And sophmore year

came around but nothing changed just kept admiring him more wishing
for him to talk to me- and I think that's when I was starting to like him more
than a crush. I'd be thinking of him at home on weekends, when I was out
with my friends, and even in class waiting for the bell to ring just so I can be
on the bus with him. No matter how busy i kept myself he managed to be
on my mind all day and all night long. The summer after sophmore year the
same feelinggs continued but I never told anyone cause I didn't know how
to and was kinda embarrassed. It wasn't until junior year that one day this bus
driver just started talking to me. I remember I got up to throw something away
and he was like nice shot and I

was like thanks! And he was like I think you should go out for the ladys
basketball team and we just started talking from there. THAT DAY WAS
THE BEST EVER AND WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN! WHY? well because
its the guy i was totally in love with that said it..who also likes basketball.
He picked me to talk to out of every girl on that bussss!!! meee! It went from
talking a couple times a week to everyday. And I was starrting to like likee
him moree! LIKE ALOTT :)) He was so sweet and intresting and diffreent
and charming, and kind, and smart even if he didnt go to college, AND
THATS WHEN I WAS SO IN LOVE WITH HIS PERSONALITY I BEGAN
TO THINK HE WAS THE SEXIEST MAN ALIVE AND THATS WHEN I
GAVE HIM THE COMPLIMENTS I DID, AND HE GAVE ME THEM AT TIMES TOO! I HOPE HE BELIEVED THEM PeoPLe
THINK HES NOT CUTE!

then all the other guys I know. I still told nobody bout my feeling and that
summer just because I liked him so much I made a goal to work out even
if I already was skinny just so he“d be impressed by my body when senior
year would start up and he did notice. I thought A LOT about him that
summer even if I kept myself busy with vacations and friends! That summer
was the hardest to go through without seeing him Senior year came and I
got closer with this bus driver I shared by personal life with him and

so did he. WE HAD SO MANY ALIKE INTERESTs (we liked the same sports, movies, tv shows-all ten shows we both watched, values, i dont know we just were really alike. AND HE MADE ME
FEEL SPECIAL IN SOMEWAY> HE WOULD CALL ME SWEETIE AND
SWEETHEART BUT NOBODY ELSE THAT I reallly reallly realllly knew
that this is the man I wanted to be with! But that's when I found out he had
a fiance and so I stopped talking to him but then he started talking to me
and I think

he noticed hw I suddenly stopped talking to him after he told me about the
fiance! I think I kinda made it akward but he just started talking to me again
even if i didnt make the effort to talk to him. I dont know if he knew I liked him..I'm
sure he didn't! THERS NOT WEDDING DATE THOUGH HE SAID THERe
JUST GNNA STAY ENGAGED! But I was dying to tell him, I invited him to
cme to my powderpuff football game and watch me play! He said he would
of if I asked earlier! And I wish I did. But a couple months ago my bus driver
got fired for not doing a child check. I'm so sadd! I couldn't stop crying and I still cry and it hurts so so much! He
never even said goodbye to me, thers a lot I still wanted to tell him,
talking to him made me feel so happy when I was having a down day. I
wanna talk to him but I dnt knw what to dooo! - I needa to see his
face and hear his voice. Please dont judge I have feelings for my
busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I
dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no she's not some
model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead
gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm not too young
too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my
life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love
feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss
it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt
know if he got it. What do I dooo?


I needa to see his face and hear his voice. Pls dont judge I have feelings for my busdriver its not a joke your heart desires what it desires! And no I dont have daddy issues nor am I a gold digger! And no he's not some model looking guy everyone thinks he's ugly but I think he's drop dead gorgeous! Thers no man I rather be with than him. I'm
not too young too love so pls dnt say that, I've never gotten this feeling in my life before! I know what a crush feels like and I now knw what love feels like. We were so alike and had a lot of the same intrests I miss it all. I sent him a goodbye card through the bus company but I dnt knw if he got it. What do I dooo? IS IT WEIRD I LIKE HIM? I know hes on ebay should i try and contact him? i miss him and wanna get in touch like crazy. Its been since the superbowl that hes been gone but i still am CRAZY about him. Ive tried going out with other guys to get my mind off him but nothings working. CANT I ATLEAST BE FRIENDS WITH HIM? Or friends with benfits? I wouldnt mind if he were to use me for sex, hes the only guy I would let use me for sex.


I truly do care for this man more than anything in this world. Im willing to give him anything. If he needs money which i know he does Im willing to give him my pay checks-all of them. I wanna take him on vacations hes never been able to afford, i wanna save up all my money to one day be able to surprise him with the sports car hes always wanted, I wanna take him to comedy shows he wanted to go to, i just wanna give him everything hes ever wanted and cant afford. HES MY LIFE HE COMES BEFORE ANYTHING AND ANYONE IN MY LIFEE! AND IM NOT EVEN JOKING!

LIFES NOT THE SAME WITHOUT HIM ITS LIKE PART OF ME AND MY HAPPINESS IS MISSING AND FOREVER GONE! HE NEVER SAID GOODBYE TO ME, I NEED TO TALK ONE LAST TIME!!
I LOVEEE HIM so sos sooos sooo much, i want him to have all the happiness in the world, im not trying to be selfish cause love is not selfish, i just need him to say he doesnt want me in his life and i think itll be a little easier to move on. i dont want to move on from him causee he is my life, and i dnt evn think its possible to love again. i dont want to love anyone but him! i would take care of him so well, even when hes 60 and im 40, he"ll be just as gorgeous as he is today and ill love him more and more until i die. every thing reminds me of him..eveery song and every object-everything



should i contact him ...



signed

IN LOVE (link)
I would leave him alone.

First, you're only 19. Your brain is still developing and by the time you reach mental maturity around age 25, you may feel totally different about things. All you would do by injecting yourself into his life, where he has a fiance, at this point is to create a lot of drama. So you're going to have to move on.

I also think that part of your infatuation with the bus driver may be due to some dissatisfaction with the immature boys around you in high school. You also are at the age at which you want to feel validated as an adult by other adults.

Let me say this, too, and you can make of it what you will: I have dealt with school bus drivers before in a past job and, by and large, they were losers. Not because being a bus driver is inherently the mark of a loser (hey, it's an honest job), but from what I have seen, these people often have personal lives or quirks that lend them an inability to get anywhere beyond where they are.

So after you graduate from high school, go to college and meet lots of different men, date around and see where that leads you. Ultimately, high school really doesn't matter that much in one's life and so you don't want to really get too ensnared in any drama surrounding it. Sometimes rejection can be the best thing that ever happened to you. It sounds screwy, but it is often true.


So there is this guy that I recently met, and we have been talking a lot. I mean everyday for hours. I am really interested in him, we get along great and have a lot of similarities which makes me like him more than I could have imagined. And it SEEMS as if he is into me too but he says that he isn't looking for anything. I honestly respect that, but I also wish something would happen between us. So my biggest thing is should I just let it be, or should I try to spend more time with him and see if things go anywhere? As of right now we have plans to hang out a few times with friends, but where should I go from there? (link)
Let's look at the totals:

1. Talk to you for hours without making a move on you.

2. Says he isn't looking for anything.

Here is why this guy is likely gay:

Heterosexual guys are results oriented. They like to cut right to the chase. So they generally don't like to spend time with women they don't intend to get with and therefore usually don't actually like to sit there for hours while a girl yammers on and on about stuff they don't care that much about. But by putting up with it they often hope it will be a basis by which they will be able to get with you. This strategy usually fails and is the hallmark of the nice guy too afraid to get to the heart of the matter and bust a move.

However, gay guys are different. The gay male brain is somewhat more like a female's, according to studies (a demonstration that being gay isn't a choice, but something innate). So this guy likes you as a friend and is engaging in somewhat female behavior through allowing him to become a vessel for your self disclosure (which is how women bond with each other). Consequently, you are wasting your time with this guy if you think this will turn into anything romantic. However, you may get a great friendship out of it. It just depends on what you are willing to settle for here.


I am 25 and 5 months ago I had my second child (20 months apart from my first one). I am breastfeeding, and I have noticed my period has been really off and weird. But I also noticed that I cannot get aroused at all..and even if I try masturbating alone I can never reach a climax...It is very frustrating for both me and my husband.

Is this normal? and is there anything I can do to fix this?? (link)
My fellow geezer is on the money, though what I would add is that your husband needs to start dating you again to revisit those old memories that may help rekindle your sex drive. Some women feel like "a mom" and not so much the sexy thing they were before pregnancy and so the sex drive can get switched off under those circumstances. Engaging in dating behavior again can re-start the engines, as it were.


If you have sex for the first time can you get pregnant. Even if only the tip of the penis went in. And the man DID NOT cum. And it did not last anymore then 2 minutes. (link)
If he secreted precum into you then you could get pregnant because precum has sperm in it. Under the circumstance you described the probability is low, though.


I am 16 and am going to have sex with my boyfriend (protected of course) but do boys like a girl better if her vagina is waxed or does it really matter. I know it sounds weird but I wanted to know before doing anything! Help me please!
(link)
I like the woman to be shaved, but others feel quite the opposite. Do what makes you comfortable and let the chips fall where they may.


okay i was over my friends house and we were watching t.v..... then she asked meh to kiss her so i did......so as we were making out she started sucking my boobs and then i went down and ate her out for like 20 secs. then she fingered me and i did it back....i felt nasty after i came..nd i never wanted to do it again...but she want to do it again should i do it.? ugh this is soooooooo immbarrasing.! (link)
There is nothing nasty or dirty about sex. No need to feel disgusted or embarrassed.

The question then becomes do you write this off as a one time experiment? You could, but you have to explain that to your friend in clear terms. Your life is your own so if you don't want to do anything sexual with her again just say "no more" and tell her you didn't mean to lead her on.


Okay i am almost 15 and i am now just getting into public school. (I was home schooled for most of my life) And my boyfriend of a couple months really wants me to go pretty far. I am ready. But i don't if i should shave down there or not? Or how to? Or risks? etc, etc.
Help! (link)
The only real risks of shaving fore the first time are razor burn and red bumps caused by irritation of the skin, but that's about it.


f/13

i like this guy,adrian and he likes me too. well, he asked me out and i said "no" and he kept on asking me out and i still kept on saying "no". i really wanted to say "yes" but i couldnt because i heard that he is a player and he hurts girls and just plays around with them. so he said that he gave up on asking me out because me didnt want me to get hurt by him.

so then he started dating some other girl named lesly. and she seems nice i really dont know her and shes not my friend. so anyway, before school started i noticed that he was staring at me hile talking with friends. and at break he kept on yelling me name to get my attention, but i turned the other way pretending i didnt hear him. then at lunch he sent one of my friends to tell me that he still likes me and that he was willing to break up with lesly and go out with me. i really wanted to say "yes" but how will lesly take it? i dont want her to get hurt. but neither do i.

-darkangel31 (link)
What the dude is doing is right out of Playa 101. Sounds like you're about to fall for it. Women are so competitive with each other and he knows that deep down you want to take him from Leslie due to that. Dude is smooth.


I'm a 32/female. I work as a server and worked til midnight on Thursday. I drank alot of caffeine while working so I thought I would stop on the way home and get a drink and order some food for my boyfriend who i live with. I ended up drinking 3 beers and got some wings for him and talked to this girl who said she had just moved here from LA and had no girl friends here. When i got home it was almost 2:00 in the morning and when I walked in the cushions were gone off the couch, the tv was gone, computer was gone, mattress gone. My phone had been dead so i put it on the charger and called my boyfriend. When he answered he called me a whore and said i had been out whoring around. I said first of all dont ever call me a whore, and that i had gotten him some food and had money for him as he had said he was broke before. He called me a liar and this made me very angry. I have never cheated on him. I have since been able to get him to bring back the tv and computer but have been sleeping on the box spring with no mattress and thinking what should I do? I do love him very much so this has really hurt me. None of my friends or family like him which makes me feel even more sorry for him. I guess I will move out the first of May. He will not take my calls except once to tell me he loved me and hated this sitution yesterday morning. What should I do? ANY ADVICE?!!! (link)
Ah yes, women love guys who treat them like crap. The rational thing to do would be to tell him to take a slow boat to China, you're done, but of course that would be too easy, right? You want to fix him.

Look, by continuing to come back for more you are teaching him that you are so pathetically needy that you will put up with his uber control freak horsecrap. It's your life toots, do what you want, but look at this incident as a preview of coming attractions, so to speak.


18/f

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now. I'm in love with him. He's honestly the best person I have ever known. He's my best friend and I just feel so amazing around him :) We have gotten into many arguments and he is starting to doubt our relationship. He has considered breaking up many times but thank god he decided not to. I really really do love him, with all of my heart. Anyways, I was wondering if anybody had some ideas or advice on some ways I can show or do something to show him how much he means to me? I've done things like bake him a cake, made him a blanket, made him food, bought him some things like clothes and rings. But thats not what i'm looking for.. I want to do something or get something for him that will make him realize that he is everything to me. I want to do something for him that I wouldn't do for anyone else.. something extraordinary.. It can be crazy :) I am the type of girlfriend who loves to do things over-the-top and make his jaw drop and be in a state of awe with surprise and happiness.

If you have seen the movie A Walk to Remember, theres a part when the guy names a star (in the sky) after the girl. It was soo adorable and I want to do something random and extraordinary like that.

Another idea I had was this- I'm going to be spending a month in Europe this summer. Italy specifically. My boyfriend has never left the state.. so it would mean so much to him if he got to travel to a different country. I'm considering maybe buying him a plane ticket to visit me for a few days/week? But this idea is a little tricky because plane tickets are expensive and i'm only 18. Plus my parents are not too fond of him, so it might be a little awkward. But to be honest, I'm doing this for my boyfriend.. not my parents, so they can make it awkward as much as they want, but my boyfriend will still be happy. Do you think this is a good idea? (If i did this, I would obey my parents rules 100% because they would be doing us a huge favor if they allowed him to come with)

Oh and another idea was to buy him tickets to his favorite band's concert, but i'm not sure if this will show him my passion and love for him.

Besides these 3 ideas, does anyone have other ideas? remember- I'm looking for something over-the-top, extraordinary, something he won't expect or see coming. Something to show him how much he means to me and how madly in love I am with him. Thanks!! :) (link)
Think like a guy. Nothing says lovin' for a guy like frequent enthusiastic bj's and you swallow. And no, I'm not saying that just to troll.

Tell him how much you like his body and what it feels like to you when you guys make love.

Do a striptease for him. Give him a lapdance every now and again while wearing something from Victoria's Secret.

When you wake up in the morning, tell him what you're going to do to him that evening. And keep whispering sexy, dirty things to him throughout the day while occasionally rubbing his crotch or kissing him and then just all out attack him after dinner (okay baby, time for dessert! as you spray whipped cream on your body). Tell him how much you've been wanting to feel his manhood inside you all day, too.

Make dinner while wearing nothing but a white apron.

But you know what the best thing is? Just be a low maintenance, rational, laidback and horny girl for him.


Me and my boyfriend try to have a baby, but a lot of my friends have baby's and they tell me if my boyfriend have a low amount of sperms i can not get pregnet.... :-(
how i know if my boyfriend have a good amount of sperm to get me pregnet?????? (link)
Get the sperm count test (and you should also be examined to ensure nothing is going on with you), but wait until you're married before having the kid.




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