about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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how do you get a music code ?? Like with no video, i know how to get one, i just want it to play the song , not give the video ..

Any links that give JUST the song and not the video ??.. Thanks ..

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source

*~stephanie~*

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I was wondering how you a burn a CD i dont believe i got any sort of program but can you burn it if yuo got windows mdeia player?

window media player is the cd you need to burn the cd. for you download all the songs you want on the cd. then put them in your library and left click it and put it on your bun list. and of course you need to have a blank cd to do this.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i hav just started developing boobs im at the stage where i cant wear a shirt with out like a sports bra but there uncomfortable. Is there a really small cup bra that i could try out?

yes there is AA or A. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it true that lice is attracted to clean heads?

thanks

yes it is true. it can go on clean or dirty it doenst matter. all you got to do is bwe careful and stay away from anything that has lice on it or anything that is other peoples who have lice. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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When my boyfriend & I started dating, naturally things were a bit weird at first. Then we became more comfortable around eachother & it started to seem like it was more about touching then talking. Now we talk on the phone more since we're back at school & don't get to go out as much. The day before yesterday, everything was fine & we were having a great time on the phone but yesterday he didn't call me. I texted him & we had fun texting back & fourth but then when I signed on he didn't IM me. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting (please don't be mean if I am, it's my first relationship). I'm hoping he's just overwhelmed by school because I really care about him & I would hate to think that I felt stronger about him then he does about me. What should I do?

xox kelly

i dont see anything wrong with your guys realtionship.. maybe he was just busy yesterday and ddint call you. talk to him about it if it is botherin you so much.. about the IM thing maybe he was doing some school work and didnt IM you. dont worry so much about this. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i had no idea wut category to put this under but o well.....i just want to kno wut is masturbating?? i hear the word all the time and i never kno wut it means...i rate high (unless u give a snotty remark or say something like "i dont kno")

masturbating is basicaly pleasuring yourself down there. weather your a boy or a girl it is basically the same thing.. all you do is play with yourself. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,


i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?!

i think you should move on and leave this guy alone.. he isnt worth it.. and dont cry over him because ** no guy is worth your tears and the ones that are wont make you cry** some guys are werid and we girls can never figure out what they try telling us all the time.. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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When I start up I get the message "This computer is in use and has been locked" "Only pc-01/(my name) or an administrator can unlock the computer" Then get a screen with user name ( mine filled in) and below password (is blank)
If I click on ok it all opens up but am unable to open existing files in word etc. They are all marked "unavailable"
Do not know how I have done this but need to get thus sorted. Any help appreciated

what you can do is restore your computer to a time when you didnt have that problem.. (if u dont know how to drop it in my inbox and i will explain it to you) restore your computer and see if it works. if not then idk what you did. hope this helps a lil if not i am sry.

*~Stephanie~*

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i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?

try telling him how you feel about him if that doesnt work then *** ACTIONS SPEACK LOUDER THEN WORDS*** sometimes you cant explain to someone how much you love them.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and this guy were really good friends. i really liked him a lot and in a way him lead me on a little bit. so it really hurt me when he flirted with other girls. and i felt like he didnt care about me. well my best friend liked him too and he liked her, but he hardlyu ever talked to her because he was talking to me. at the end of the school he asked her out and itreally hurt me. so me and her friendship was over because she choose him over me. they broke up like a few days ago, and now i dont like him as more then a friend, and i told him that, and hes getting like upset and mad that i dont ike him anymore. he got mad becasue i called somone hott, and he was like im hotter then them come one, and he said he was goint o ask me out. but i wasnt going to be the rebound girl, but i dont no what to think or, what i should tell him. so he doesnt get so mad at me, because me and him are still good friends. thanks

i think you need to talk to this guy and tell him how you feel. i dont think it is a good idea to go out with this guy because look how much he had hurt you when you werent together. think about how much more it will hurt if you guys got together.hoope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem?

no it shouldnt be a problem.. i can only see my boyfriend a couple times a month but i talk to him all the time on the phone online stuff like that.. if you like her a lot then you will try to make it work between you to and she will do the same. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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whats couture? like juicy couture, dior couture, couture in general

it is just deigner wear name brand and a lot expensavier then the regular stuff..
*~Stephanie~*

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So I turned my computer off and my aim sns got deleted and like my desktop gets deleted..And everything just gets messed up. My friend said it might have to do with my keyboard cause I spilled water on it and now some buttons dont work. Do any of you guys know what could be wrong? And how I fix it?

what you can do is restore your computer. (if you dont know how to do this drop it in my inbox and i will explain to you how)it might be that you got a virus on youur computer after you restore and get ur aim sn back scan your computer for a virus.. idk what else it could be. hope this helps you out..
anything else drop it in my inbox..

*~Stephanie~*

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Ok my cousin and i are really good friends but in the past two years iv e developed a crush for him.. i dotn know what to do should i tell him and is it normal to like your cousin(im a 13 year old girl)

i dont think it is normal but i know that back about 20 years (well for my past) they got married to there cousins and yea it isnt a good thing because if you keep tryin over your cousin then it is bad for you help and then if you have kids it can come out retarded which isnt a good think.. my advice to you dont tell him how you feel and try lookin at different guys that arent related to you. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers

it isnt really wrong to like a guy older then you but if you do decide to go out with (which i hope not i will explan y in a minute) he will expect more then just huging kissing holdin hands and so on.. he will want SEX from you and you got to think is he worth it.. is he worth the risck of gettin pregnant?? then i dotn think it is a good idea for you to go out wit him i mean look what he is doin now he hqas a girlfriend and he keeps hittin on you. what if you where his girl and eh was hittin on another girl at the same time.. this guy sound like a playa and i personally think you should only be friends with him.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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okay. wel i went out w/ this guy (btw. im 14/f) and he dumped me,n we both have new bf's/gf's and yeah well he treats his new gf better than he treated me...im jelous..i love my bf.he treats me like effing gold.but ive just been thinking about it lately..what's the deal w/ that..my ex? thnx ♥

maybe he still has some feeling for you and is tryin to make you jealous by showing off his new girlfriend and treatin her better. play him at his own game. like when you see him be all over your new boyfriend.. .. but that is if you dont like ur ex anymore and it will make him jealous and he will probably give up and stop treatin his new girlfriend the way he has been treatin her. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas

ok what you can do is go to the movies and then get close in then the go to the mall and take pictures at the photo place where you guys can do like funny faces or soemthing.. lol.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, so ... I'm a month and 7 days late for my period, but I'm NOT sexually active, anyone have an idea of what might be going wrong?

one reason might be because you are stressed out a lot and it makes you period late. a second reason could be because when you first start your period for 2 years it will be irregular. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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hello, im a guy. whenever i masturbate this stuff comes out of my dick. its like slimy, i was just wondering, what that was? and do i need to take a shower if it like gets on the very top part of my leg. also, does it mess up your clothes?

it is called cum and it is normal..and i think you should take a shower because soemtimes that stuff has a bad sme3ll to it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is porn a bad thing to do?

no it isnt.
*~Stephanie~*

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