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Okay, so theres this boy.
And hes really awesome. And I like him as more than a friend. We are going to the dinner dance together but I was talking to him yesterday and he told me I was his friend, yet whenever my friend talks to him about me he blushes-alot! Hes really nice and is always talking to me- we talked on the fone for 3 hours yesterday! Do you think he likes me too?

I think he likes you but is just to shy to tell you! If you guys keep hanging out and talking, I'm sure he will tell you how he feels about you!

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So I am going to this party tonight and the theme is summer, so naturally you are suppose to wear summer clothes. I have no idea of what to where and what accerories to put with it, all i know is that i dont really want a skirt!
Please help!

If you don't want to wear a skirt you could wear capris and a cute tank top. As far as accessories, wear a bracelet to match your shirt and a necklace too. If you have any, you should wear a puka necklace or a necklace with sea shells on it. Wear your hair up or scrunch it.

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ok. so here's what's goin on..... you see, my boyfriend is having his birthday party at a restaurant tonight and he called me this morning to ask if I wanted to go. The truth is, I'm not feeling very good today but it's just occasional stomach pains and I haven't told anybody. So anyway when he asked me I said no because I just didn't want to go. (I don't really think chinese food is going to help my stomach very much.) He's really upset that I don't want to go. He told his mom who then told my mom. A few minutes ago my mom just came storming in the room to demand why I said no. I told her that I just didn't wanna go and she called me a jerk for being so mean to him and she also called me wishy-washy (whatever that means.)So now I'm grounded for a week for not going to a stupid birthday party!!! any advice to get me ungrounded AND hopefully cheer my boyfriend up?

Wow, why would your mom do that to you? Who cares if you don't want to go to a birthday party. Tell her and your boyfriend that you really don't feel good. There is no reason why you should be grounded. That is such a ridiculous reason. Try to make it up to your boyfriend and do something sweet for him. Apologize to your boyfriend, he will most likely understand. Wishy washy means that you change your mind and/or mood all the time - very unpredictable.

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i straighten my hair every day, so it's pretty dry at the ends especially near the front.i use panteve pro v daily moisture renual conditioner and shampoo but it doesnt help. once my hair dries, its gets frizzy and poofy. i want to get leave in conditioner, but near my scalp gets greasy pretty easily(like if i skip washing my hair for a day or 2) so would leave in conditioner help my hair and not make it greasy?

A lot of hair dressers would tell you that you should only put conditioner in your hair from your ears down since you have greasy hair. You should put in the leave in conditioner in your hair from your ears down.

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Hey is it just me or does sour cream taste sweet?

Yea it does taste sweet.

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My mum told me I'm fat today and I know I am but the way she said it made me feel like I should be anerexic.

She was petit in high school and when she had me she was still relly small. When she had my brother she got ffat but I feel alot of pressure to be thin. This summer I want to go gym like everyday but I don't know how to lay off me...she really bothers me abut my weigh and I will lose it...but in time!!!!!

She makes me feel bad...she actually makes me want to eat!!

A lot of times when people are upset, they will eat to calm down. So next time your mother tells you that you are fat, tell her how much it hurts your feelings and by telling you just makes you want to eat. If she really wants you to lose weight, she should be your supporter. If you want to get back at her, you can remind her that she isn't so skinny either.

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my boyfriend of 4 months confuses me. we've been together for only 4 months, and im normally the slow mover but with him .. i dont know im ready to try stuff that i've never done before, hes the first guy ive 'wanted'. he said he wanted me when we were talking last night, but whenever its the 2 of us hangin out, he never makes any moves .. and i lack the confidence to be the pursuer .. even if hes my boyfriend ..

does anyone have any tips on self confidence? is he just saying that he wants me because he thinks thats what i want to hear? is that why he doesn't make any moves .. boys opinions would be welcome .. and extrmeley helpful as well ...

Well he could be shy and maybe he was trying to give you a hint to make the move. Next time you two are alone, bring what he said to you the other night up. If you want to be the one to make the moves and are too scared, just think of it this way -- he said he wants you, so obviously he won't push you away if you try something. Just ask him if he meant what he said the other night.

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okay well i know that when guys get their cartalige pierced, that one side means they're gay and another side means their straight. well i have 2 questions::
1. which is which?
and 2. does it matter for girls and what side is the 'right" side because i just got my cartalige pierced adn the lady made me pick my own side because she said that it didnt matter..soo yeah 5's for anything that helps. thanks.

If guys get it pierced on the right side, then people usually label them gay. Of course, just because someone has it on their right side, doesn't necessarily mean that they're gay. I don't think it matters for girls but if it does, I am sure the same thing applies.

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I'm so messed up I'm agnostic thinking about turning back into a christian or turn into an athiest.. I'm so scared if I turned into an athiest I'll go to hell If there really is a god... If I turn into a christian I'll be believein in something that may not be real? I cried about this.. Should I just turn into an athiest and if there really is a god go to hell for it.. Or should I turn into a christian and believe and god and maybe go to heaven if god is real?

No one can tell you what to be. You will be believing in something someone told you to. God loves the sinners, he hates the sin. God gives you a choice to follow him. Hell is the eternal seperation from God. The devil chooses all the fire and suffering down there. You should really follow your heart. If you can't think of a choice, just stay agnostic. Don't go atheist if you are uncertain what you believe in.

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In the Bible doesn't it say that we shouldn't pray aloud to show off? That instead we should pray in the privacy of our own room? (not the exact words) If that is so then why do people go to church? I'm christain but I don't believe that going to church makes a difference in how we are seen in God's eyes. Everyone pressures me to go to church saying that it will "lead me in the right direction" but I don't think it matters if I go to church or not.


Does it matter?

I totally agree with you. It really pisses me off when someone says I am an atheist because I don't go to church. I think church is boring and pointless. I love God and could learn about him and pray to him in the privacy of my own home. I don't think it matters if you go to church or not, as long as you follow the word of God.

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okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today?

I know this answer is a little late but.. the original 6/6/6 was 2,000 years ago and nothing bad was recorded on that day. If you want to really break it down, two days ago it was 6/6/2006. So it really wasn't 6/6/6. Also, God decides when the world ends, not the devil. He wouldn't have the world end on a day that has the number of the devil.

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i am really scared. (no this isnt anything to do ith 6/6/6 its just that 666 got me thinking of this) when the world ends, how exactly is it going to end? i do not have very good knowledge of the bible. i know that no one knows, but everyone says all this horrible ways like it will go up in flames. but why would god torture us like that? why can't he just make everything dissappear in a split second? why would god want to make the world end in a horrible way, and why would he even want the world to end. please explain this is a clear way cause im not good with this stuff. and pleaaaaaaaaseplease don't say "don't worry about it wont happen/it wont happen in your lifetime"

If you ever read the bible, or read passages from it online, you will come to find out that the devil was an angel who was jealous of God's power and wanted to over rule God. God let the devil have his own kingdom but was forever seperated from God. The devil has powers just as God does.

Here is the end of the world.. starting with the Tribulation-- There are 4 seals in the Tribulation.

First seal-There is going to be a man riding on a white horse. He is going to be a very handsome, strong political figure that everyone will love. He is going to end all wars and suffering. However, he is the anti-christ.

Second seal- The second rider, on a red horse symbolizes war. There will be a war over the Holy Lands. The fighters are going to try to take out God's chosen people of Israel.

Third Seal- Famine. A rider on a black horse will come. He is the symbol for famine. Millions of people world wide will die of starvation.

Fourth seal- The rider will be coming on a pale colored horse. This symbolizes plagues and death.

Then comes the seven years of peace around the world.

Then is the second coming of Christ. He will come down to earth to begin judgement. All of his followers are going to just dissapear in midday and go up to heaven to forever live up there. The rest have the choice to become born again christians and Christ will come down again for a second judgement. The rest are left with the anti-christ which they will spend eternity in hell.

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It is pretty much impossible for me to empathize/understand people who believe in God and religion. I am fully against both of them, for a long list of reasons that I don't need to go in to. The deal is, people tell me I'm being sacreligous/a heretic/going to hell, but I can't understand where they're coming from AT ALL. To me evangelists and deeply religous people just seem like pitiful, misguided puppets of a nonexistent power. It tends to screw up my relationships with people.... Any advice?

When a friend of yours now or someone new you meet brings up religion tell them that you don't feel comfortable talking about religion and that it has messed up your past relationships getting into all that stuff. Remind them that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and to stop being so narrow minded.

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Well how to make a long story short? OK first.. Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday, all his friends including me and my best friend went out for drinks to celebrate with him. When my best friend (it’s a girl) left for a different club, I went after her, because she was a bit tipsy and I didn’t want her to be on her own.
Then when my boyfriend arrived, he came up to me and just told me that I picked my friend over him and that it is over (he stated it MUCH worse). Yeah I know it was his Birthday, but he was busy with his friends. Should I just let it go? I mean how insecure can someone be if they are jealous of you friend???

I don't think he dumped you just because of that. Maybe he has been building up anger towards you and that was just a time when he could vent it out. Was he even sober when he said those things to you? He could've been talking out of his ass if he was drunk and might not have meant it. If you want to still be with him just try to apologize and tell him that you just wanted to make sure your friend was safe. It was his birthday, but leaving your friend drunk by herself could have been very bad. You could mention how he was with his friends the whole time and wasn't even paying attention to you. If he doesn't understand, in my opinion, he isn't worth it. That's definitely not something you should get dumped over.

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say i want to get tan. does tanning oil or baby oil work? like will they make me look darker? and also which one works better. and do any of them make you look orange?

Tanning oil works if you are going in a salon tanning. If you use baby oil in a salon, it will like seriously cook your skin. You should only use a little bit of baby oil if you are tanning outside. I think they both work good. I would use the tanning oil just because its easier to wash off.

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you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend

I think it's nice, sweet, and to the point.

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Hey all. I was wondering if you guys thought I made a smart choice. Here it is: for freshman year, I am not continuing Spanish and going to Spanish 2 Honors, but instead I'm taking Italian 1 because I think it's different and a beutiful language. Please tell me if you think I made a smart choice. Thanks!

It's a great choice if you really would rather take Italian!

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female 16

Im barely a size B and am not very happy with that.

How do I know if my boobs have stopped growing and will stay this size forever?
How do I know if they are still growing?
Any way to get implants at this age?
Any way to make them appear bigger (No stuffing please :)
Please and Thank You.

Your boobs will continue to grow until you are about 18. Look at your family. Do they have big boobs? If they do, that might be passed onto you. But, in some cases, you don't inheret them. You won't know if they are growing unless you start growing out of your bra. I think you can get implants at this age but you need parental confirmation. I don't know why you would want them. There are so many things that can go wrong. Take a look at all the pros and cons to implants. Try wearing a push up bra to make them appear bigger. Remember, looks aren't everything. Be happy with what God gave you.

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ok i have a friend from school that have lied to me and she told me the truth like yesterday and shes my best friend i don't want to loose her if she keeps lying to me. What should i do?

Tell her that if she keeps lying to you, you aren't going to put up with it. Make it clear to her that you won't be friends with a liar.

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Every time I get my boyfriend to have a boner he covers it up, what does that mean? It doesn't bother me that he has one but what is he trying to like hide?

Maybe he is just embarrassed. Or, maybe it's small and he doesn't want you to see it. Ask him why next time he tries covering it up.

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