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hmmm ... what he says? and what he does ..
my boyfriend of 4 months confuses me. we've been together for only 4 months, and im normally the slow mover but with him .. i dont know im ready to try stuff that i've never done before, hes the first guy ive 'wanted'. he said he wanted me when we were talking last night, but whenever its the 2 of us hangin out, he never makes any moves .. and i lack the confidence to be the pursuer .. even if hes my boyfriend ..
does anyone have any tips on self confidence? is he just saying that he wants me because he thinks thats what i want to hear? is that why he doesn't make any moves .. boys opinions would be welcome .. and extrmeley helpful as well ...
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trust me im a guy but see guys r stupid if you want him to kiss you or something tell him to kiss you and if he doesnt ask him if he heard you then say it again lol but really i mean tell him wat you want and he should give it to you
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Hi, it sounds to me as though he wants you to know that he likes you, but feels uncertain deep down. Some boys seem to want to impress girls, and put that much energy into doing that, that they eventually get nervouse when it comes down to the one on one thing. This does'nt nessacerally mean that he's a coward but more shy and nervouse. Maybe you could open this subject with him. Proper relationships involve being open and honest with each other. Ask him. He might just tell you whats up. Daniel.
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First if all, i would make for certain that you are ready to try new things. But if you are sure that you are, then here's what i think. From my personal experience, guys lack confidence also. He may be afraid to make the first move for fear that he wont be good enough for you. Now, even though you know thats not true, he doesn't and he may just need a little motivation. Try making the first move, but subtley. Dont move too fast, but do what you think you are ready to do.
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this is a good Question... Personally I think he is thinking all about you and he is scared...I know Im scared to make a move on girls...Do you guys make out... If so take it a step further...like start to lift up his shirt... or go down on him if thats how far you wanna go...But yeah tell him he's hot tell him how you feel and when he replies kiss her and start makin out... Then take it as far as you want...
Once you get him to the makeout point he will be game for all...Thanx and Keep the fires buring!!!
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If you are ready to try stuff with him, tell him that. Tell him you want to take the relationship to the next level. And I know it can be hard to make the first move, but once you do, the rest will all come natural. It's not that bad. Personally, I think he's just nervous & self-consious. When you do stuff, be sure to "praise" him. Tell him what a good kisser is, and boost his ego a little. Then next time, maybe he will want to be the one to get things started. Just take it slow, because he may not be as ready to do things as you are. Take it step-by-step, & have fun!.
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Well he could be shy and maybe he was trying to give you a hint to make the move. Next time you two are alone, bring what he said to you the other night up. If you want to be the one to make the moves and are too scared, just think of it this way -- he said he wants you, so obviously he won't push you away if you try something. Just ask him if he meant what he said the other night.
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my friend and her boifriend are kinda the same but he flirts with other gurls and says he loves her when its not true but anywayz....mabey he is scared on what you will do when you do it or when he does it....and your probably scared because youve never done it be 4...see me and my boi friend are sexually active..we have both gone far with others..but i also want to do things with him because i dont no..i dont want to feel gudged....because he has already had sex but me and you and him are probably just scared....u need to talk to him 1 day and move it slow but faster..but not to fast...hope it helps i dont no if it will but i hope:)
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