Member Since: June 8, 2006
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Last Update: June 8, 2006
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my boyfriend of 4 months confuses me. we've been together for only 4 months, and im normally the slow mover but with him .. i dont know im ready to try stuff that i've never done before, hes the first guy ive 'wanted'. he said he wanted me when we were talking last night, but whenever its the 2 of us hangin out, he never makes any moves .. and i lack the confidence to be the pursuer .. even if hes my boyfriend ..
does anyone have any tips on self confidence? is he just saying that he wants me because he thinks thats what i want to hear? is that why he doesn't make any moves .. boys opinions would be welcome .. and extrmeley helpful as well ... (link)
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First if all, i would make for certain that you are ready to try new things. But if you are sure that you are, then here's what i think. From my personal experience, guys lack confidence also. He may be afraid to make the first move for fear that he wont be good enough for you. Now, even though you know thats not true, he doesn't and he may just need a little motivation. Try making the first move, but subtley. Dont move too fast, but do what you think you are ready to do.
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