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birthday.
ok. so here's what's goin on..... you see, my boyfriend is having his birthday party at a restaurant tonight and he called me this morning to ask if I wanted to go. The truth is, I'm not feeling very good today but it's just occasional stomach pains and I haven't told anybody. So anyway when he asked me I said no because I just didn't want to go. (I don't really think chinese food is going to help my stomach very much.) He's really upset that I don't want to go. He told his mom who then told my mom. A few minutes ago my mom just came storming in the room to demand why I said no. I told her that I just didn't wanna go and she called me a jerk for being so mean to him and she also called me wishy-washy (whatever that means.)So now I'm grounded for a week for not going to a stupid birthday party!!! any advice to get me ungrounded AND hopefully cheer my boyfriend up?
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Why don't you tell your mom and your boyfriend the reason that you didn't want to go?
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Hi, remember its not your fault that you were'nt feeling well. Its also not your fault that you are grounded. Just tell both your Mum and Boyfriend that "sometimes things just happen that are out of our control" if he can't accept your side of the story, then hes not proving to be a helpful Boyfriend to you now is he? As for your Mum you should just tell her how this is making you feel and its not your fault you were sick. Ask her "how would you like it if I told you to go somewhere when you were feeling sick?".
Remember that somethings happen that are out of our control and eating Chinese food does'nt nessarserally helps you does it in that sort of situation? Daniel.
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Wow, why would your mom do that to you? Who cares if you don't want to go to a birthday party. Tell her and your boyfriend that you really don't feel good. There is no reason why you should be grounded. That is such a ridiculous reason. Try to make it up to your boyfriend and do something sweet for him. Apologize to your boyfriend, he will most likely understand. Wishy washy means that you change your mind and/or mood all the time - very unpredictable.
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Try and explain to your mom why you said no...its quite understandable reason for saying no. Then to make it up to your boyfreind take him out to dinner once you feel better.
hope this helps!
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