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Okay.. I'm in love with my best friend whom i've known since kindergarten..but my best friend is also in love with him and she doesnt know i love him too. and he's been giving me these signals..but i have no idea wut to do..i dont wanna tell my friend b/c she'll get all mad at me and stuff..but i dont wanna ruin my relationshop w/ the guy..wut should i do? (link)
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ay ay ay that's a tough one...i dunno what to tell you...but you can try off by tellin your best friend how you feel about the situation and everything...if she understands and everything go for it with no problem...if she doesnt and you relly love him hmmm well if you go for him i'm more then sure that you'll lose your friend...but may b wit time she'll understand the way you felt and everything...but she might not...i dunno just do what you feel inside xoxox effy good luck
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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?
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hi, well hmmm tell your mom how you feel...and tell her that all yr friends do it...and you dont want your eyebrows to look like a bush and then ur friends ending up makin fun of you and everything...tell her that you relly wanna do dis and you'll appriciate it if she supporst you doing it ;)...xoxo effy
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There's this guy that both me and my friend have gone out with. Recently me and him have been fooling around. He's banged me 2 times and i gave him a hand job and we make out. We aren't goin out but it kinda seems like it. He dosen't really get over most of the girls he goes out with so he has been talking to my best friend and sayin that he still likes her to and no she likes him again too.
She now tells me that when they went out it was her first love (but she never said that before so she's lyin). The other day he evidently told her that I gave him a blow job which i didn't. She believes him and he told some of his other friends so its starting to get around. I dont want this to be getting around because next year i will be goin to High School and i dont need rumors floating around. I asked him if he has said anything about telling his friends and he just denies it.
So i dont know what to do. My friend is really mad at me and people think i did something that I didn't. I tell everyone I didn't but they dont believe me. I dont know what to do. So some advice A.S.A.P would be helpful. Thanks bunches!
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hi, best you could do is not get involved wit a guy like that...that if you do something with him he'll spread it around and he'll make stuff up...just look at your way...and by ignoring him and w/e you'll show that w/e he's sayin is not true...just dont hook up wit him anymore and just forget that he even exists...if ppl ask you you say the truth wich is denying what he tells ppl bout u giving him a blow job...or when ppl ask you is it true..did you...you be like "well, yah, in his dreams" and start loughin...just forget bout wut he says and that he even exist when you go to highschool new life is gonna start for you ;) xoxo effy
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Hello,
I think that I am unusual: I need you to help me understand why I love sex so much. I always enjoy sex, especially with strangers. I like to be watched and to watch. I stay wet all the time, and it takes very little for me to get aroused. I want more, more, more! Is this unusual, or am I normal?
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hmmm, well i dunno what to tell you...i think you should go to the doctor and see wwussuh...but since you enjoy that then no offence but you can go do porn sites and stuff...
i mean you like to be watched you like to watch...you r wet all the time...want to do strangers...why not join that shit and b a porn star...you get paid 2 ;) xoxo effy
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My husband keeps making humorous allusions to wanting to try tying me up or spanking me. The ideas turn me off, but I'm afraid if I don't do these things he'll try to find another outlet for them. What should I do?
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:-/ dats a harsh decision..hmmm i dunno tell him how you feel about this...if he loves you enough he wont do anything bout it...or dont just think about it may b u should try em u might like it, you never know...never suggest something till you actually try it...it might turn out for u to like it ;) xoxo effy
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what would u do if you found out ur boyfriend didnt hit puberty?
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i dunno, dump him ?!? lmao xoxo effy
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WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST ? i need help for my project. (link)
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Hi,Love and Lust are really different and really the same. Lust is generally defined as being sexual attraction to a person. Love is a connection that you share with someone.
Take for example, if you see a really hot girl (or boy for my case ^^) walking down the street and all you can think about is:
'God, she must be so damn sexy when she's naked and even sexier when she's in my bed.'
That, my friend, is lust.
Love, on the other hand, is when you really know someone well and you would seriously consider having a good relationship with them.
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i cannot keep it inside of me no longer... i dont know who to tell please help.
neither of my parents are even there for me.. my dad is either home at his LA office working b/c hes the partner or in China working.. He comes home eats dinner, watches tv, goes to sleep. My mom is a DA, so she works a lot too. I walk home from school every day its a 2 mile walk..
well heres the important part.. my parents fight constantly and live on different sides of the house. they have been living on different sides of the house for about 4 months now. they fight in front of us and one day i heard my dad tell my mom that she didnt care about her looks and needed to brush herself up. ever since my mom has become anerxic. she doesnt eat anything but clams that she is much happier now then she was before. she also got a chemical peal. My mom is as skinny as a stick and still says that she is fat.. she puts on tons of make up which doesnt look right.. i know that my mom is getting really weak now and she will be in the hospital sick from anerxia.
meanwhile my dad has a cold and ended up in the emergency room over night for overdosing on chinese sleeping pills. he works at his work for many hours at a time.. sometimes is there over night.. i feel like my dad is getting sick again, but not as sick as my mom. he is also going back to china this friday for who knows how long (he came home last week)
i really want my parents to divorce b/c i cannot take it any long. i have 3 younger siblings (im the oldest) and they always come to me for homework help or emotional help.. im really scared that my mom is gonna end up in the hospitial and die while my dad is in china and stuff.. i dont wanna be an orphan.. what should i do?
Thank you,
Adella
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hi, i'm very very sorry about whats happening to you.. i'm not gonna say "i feel your pain" b/c i dont and i dont relly know what your feeling rite now...i'm tryin to put my self in your shoes...and what i'm imagining its horrible...hmmm i dunno what to tell you except that you need to stay as close as possible to your mom and tell the doctor what happend...your mom needs help...and she needs to start eating...have a lil talk wit her and tell her that she doesnt need to stop eating to look beautiful and she doesnt need make up to look beautiful either...she's perfect the way she is and that you love her very much and that you want her to try to help her self by going to somekind of therapy..mean while take care of your siblings and help them b/c they need you rite now...
about your dad...talk to him to and tell him that what he is doing is not rite...he needs to pay a lil more attention to the family and not to say those mean things to your mom...tell him that you love him very much and that for that you want him to stop over dosing or w/e he does and try to relax and not work so much...
i dunno i seriously dont kno what to tell you except i'm very sorry bout whats going on...i hope everything goes better...and my advice to you is to talk to some adult that is close to you and tell em your problem and see what they could do for you...i wish you the best and good luck...sorry if my answer was no help...xoxo effy
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my parents want me to wait till i am married.... but i dont want to- i have grown up thins way, but i am changing, i am 16, i want to experience sex with more than one guy! what do i do?
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hi, everysingel parent will tell you "oh honey its better if you wait until marrige" i desagree wit that b/c i dont think anyone waits until marrige there's a low persantage that actually waits until marrige...i'm not sayin go ahead run off and have sex wit who ever gets in front of you...no thats not what i'm saying...what i'm sayin is that if you get to meet a guy that you really like and you really fall in love wit and he feels the same then go ahead and experience sex...but having sex wit random ppl...and a lot of them its no good...there are planty of reason for that...
1. guys blab
2. very soon if you do dat you'll b called names
3. there are deseases runnin rounds
4. you might end up pregnant if ur not careful
and etc. so carfull on the decisions you make :) xoxo effy
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What is your opinion on parents smacking children? (link)
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hmm i dunno, i think talkin is better b/c when you talk to them and make them feel like they grown ups they understand better and they try not to do it b/c they think bout it twice...but when you hit em and w/e they think you dont love em and w/e w/e...and that could lead to other problems...like them runnin away from home..so my opinion towards parnts smackin children its a no no! xoxo effy
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This is something that I really need help on... I want to get on the pill but I am only 15. I'm not sexually active and don't plan on being either until I am Legal age of consent which will be in approximently a year. What if I am with my boyfriend and we just make a sudden decision, he doesnt want to use a condom and neither do I because I am sure it would brake. Anyways getting to the part that I need help on is how do I tell my mom that I want to be on the pill without telling her i am sexually active. (link)
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hi, well hmmm you can tell her that "oh mom i hurd that if you drink birth control pills it helps you through ur period and u dont get much cramps and stuff..so i wanna try it and see how it works out" and hmmm one more thing...use condoms even if you think it will break...just incase! xoxo effy
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HOW OFTEN DO OU SHAVE?? (weird question i know....)
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lol...whenever i need to...lol never noticed it :-P xoxo effy
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Now I need to know if I'm overreacting. I have such an issue with my boyfriend even looking at other girls. It really bothers me when I see him looking at another girl because I feel like he should be paying attention to me instead of them. It makes me feel like I'm not enough for him if he has to be looking at other girls instead of me. I've talked to him about this, but it does nothing. I've found out about him going to stripclubs with his friends, from his friends. So is there something to it if he didn't tell me himself? Plus he knew at the time full and well how I feel about it. Last night we were laying in bed with the tv on and we were having a romantic time kissing and cuddling when a girl on tv goes" hey look at my boobs..." so his head jerked up and he stared for a good 20 seconds. So i rolled over and went to bed mad and he got mad that I was mad. Am I overreacting??
lucy,
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hi, i read ur problem and i totally understand you..you're not overreacting that much...i mean i'm thinkin bout it...and puttin my self in your position and i would get mad too if something like that happend...the sad thing is that you wont b abel to change that bout him...b/c he's that kinda guy..you kno what i mean...i'm not tryin to make you feel worst or anything but i'm just tellin you the truth and my opinion over this. but hmmm i dunno to make him MAYBE understand is for you to do the same thing to him!...look at other guys, when u makin out and a hot guy comes on tv you do the same thing..and see if that works a lil bit...if he gets mad be like why are you mad for? wuts wrong or bla bla...and then if he starts bitchin tell him that you feel the same way he is feelin when he does that to you..and hopefully he'll change after...well good luck and wish u the best xoxo effy
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The girl i aws telling you about that cheated on me. Anyways these past few days she tol everyone in school that I was the one that got her pregnet and it's my baby when i never did anything with her. Then she had the nerve to go up to my new girl friend and tell her that its my baby. Me and my gf have been going ut for 2 weeks now. She had her best friend go up to me to talk and ask me if that was true and i told her no but she doesnt believe me. So she might end up breaking up with me. Do you know what i could do to convince her that it's not true? (link)
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i think you should go with her at some place private where its u and her only and talk to her...and tell her the whole truth...after your done explaning tell her that "everything i'm tellin you right now its true, you can choose to trust me or not is your choice...i just want you to kno that i relly like you and i dont want to loose you over something that its not even true...but like i said thats gonna b your choice.." give her some time ;) tell her that you can wait for a while for her to think bout it b4 she makes a decision...;) and i think that will work out fine :) xoxo effy
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how hard is to get pregnate at the age of 37? ia there any helpful method to make pregnancy happen? my husband and I want to have a baby and we are afraid because , as i said, I am 37 and he is 41. Thanks, ceci (link)
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hmm i dont think there's a problem...i think you can get pregnant if you still have ur periods going on...you wont get pregnant if you dont have ur period...the age in the guy doesnt relly matter even a 70 yrs old can get a girl pregnant ;) hmmm so i dont think there's a problem xoxo effy
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My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him. (link)
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lol what i do is put my hands around his waste 2 or slide my hand in to his back pocket and feel his butt ;) lol hope i helped xoxo effy
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whats being Molested (or however you spell it)??????? Please answer!!!! (link)
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being sexually used...botherd or w/e xoxo effy
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ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)
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lol if you think your name is weird lol ur so wrong...you should try my name lmao...its eftiola...its weird but in the other hand is unique and no one has it thats y i love it so much...and i make ppl pronounce it if they cant...rite now most of them call me effy...not cuz they cant prounounce it but cuz of one of mah teachers...he started callin me effy and as a joke they started to and now everyone calls me effy for short instead of eftiola...(prounounced F-T-ola) lol weird but cool (i think) so what i'm tryin to say its look at the bright side...how many ppl wit that name do you know? ur name is not so hard i dunno why they cant prounounce it but if they cant make them ;) lol or insted of sayin liana say lee ;) and they'll remember...hope i helped a lil xoxo effy
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I went out with this girl for about two months. Then we broke up. SO then we went back out and then my best friend told me she was cheating on me with this black dude. SO i asked her and she told me no. i called up the guy and he said yes. Then i found out that the guy went to her house and the had sex. So i broke up with her and told her that she fucked up and messed with the wrong person. About a week later she told me she got pregnet by him. Then I told her to leave me alone and never talk to me again. These past few days shes been trying to go back out with me. I told her to fuck off. Do you think I did the right thing? Or should i tell her nicely no? (link)
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shit i dunno bout you but if i was in yr position i would do the same thing...yah ok it was a lil harsh i agree but she deserved it...i mean first she cheded on you then she lied to you about it...and then she had sex wit him...and she gets pregnant by him i mean...i think you did the right thing...but if she tryes to talk to you again just ignore n dont pick up the phone...i mean i understand ur attitude b/c you kno of whatever happend...so i think you did the right thing...get a girl that deserves you and treats you right! xoxo effy
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I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal? (link)
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no its not illegel dont worry bout it and knock ur self out ;) have fun and get ur freak on ;) lmao xoxo effy
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