Now I need to know if I'm overreacting. I have such an issue with my boyfriend even looking at other girls. It really bothers me when I see him looking at another girl because I feel like he should be paying attention to me instead of them. It makes me feel like I'm not enough for him if he has to be looking at other girls instead of me. I've talked to him about this, but it does nothing. I've found out about him going to stripclubs with his friends, from his friends. So is there something to it if he didn't tell me himself? Plus he knew at the time full and well how I feel about it. Last night we were laying in bed with the tv on and we were having a romantic time kissing and cuddling when a girl on tv goes" hey look at my boobs..." so his head jerked up and he stared for a good 20 seconds. So i rolled over and went to bed mad and he got mad that I was mad. Am I overreacting??
lucy,
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xxhotsexycutiexx answered Tuesday November 23 2004, 7:24 pm: hi, i read ur problem and i totally understand you..you're not overreacting that much...i mean i'm thinkin bout it...and puttin my self in your position and i would get mad too if something like that happend...the sad thing is that you wont b abel to change that bout him...b/c he's that kinda guy..you kno what i mean...i'm not tryin to make you feel worst or anything but i'm just tellin you the truth and my opinion over this. but hmmm i dunno to make him MAYBE understand is for you to do the same thing to him!...look at other guys, when u makin out and a hot guy comes on tv you do the same thing..and see if that works a lil bit...if he gets mad be like why are you mad for? wuts wrong or bla bla...and then if he starts bitchin tell him that you feel the same way he is feelin when he does that to you..and hopefully he'll change after...well good luck and wish u the best xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
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