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my family
i cannot keep it inside of me no longer... i dont know who to tell please help.
neither of my parents are even there for me.. my dad is either home at his LA office working b/c hes the partner or in China working.. He comes home eats dinner, watches tv, goes to sleep. My mom is a DA, so she works a lot too. I walk home from school every day its a 2 mile walk..
well heres the important part.. my parents fight constantly and live on different sides of the house. they have been living on different sides of the house for about 4 months now. they fight in front of us and one day i heard my dad tell my mom that she didnt care about her looks and needed to brush herself up. ever since my mom has become anerxic. she doesnt eat anything but clams that she is much happier now then she was before. she also got a chemical peal. My mom is as skinny as a stick and still says that she is fat.. she puts on tons of make up which doesnt look right.. i know that my mom is getting really weak now and she will be in the hospital sick from anerxia.
meanwhile my dad has a cold and ended up in the emergency room over night for overdosing on chinese sleeping pills. he works at his work for many hours at a time.. sometimes is there over night.. i feel like my dad is getting sick again, but not as sick as my mom. he is also going back to china this friday for who knows how long (he came home last week)
i really want my parents to divorce b/c i cannot take it any long. i have 3 younger siblings (im the oldest) and they always come to me for homework help or emotional help.. im really scared that my mom is gonna end up in the hospitial and die while my dad is in china and stuff.. i dont wanna be an orphan.. what should i do?
Thank you,
Adella
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hi, i'm very very sorry about whats happening to you.. i'm not gonna say "i feel your pain" b/c i dont and i dont relly know what your feeling rite now...i'm tryin to put my self in your shoes...and what i'm imagining its horrible...hmmm i dunno what to tell you except that you need to stay as close as possible to your mom and tell the doctor what happend...your mom needs help...and she needs to start eating...have a lil talk wit her and tell her that she doesnt need to stop eating to look beautiful and she doesnt need make up to look beautiful either...she's perfect the way she is and that you love her very much and that you want her to try to help her self by going to somekind of therapy..mean while take care of your siblings and help them b/c they need you rite now...
about your dad...talk to him to and tell him that what he is doing is not rite...he needs to pay a lil more attention to the family and not to say those mean things to your mom...tell him that you love him very much and that for that you want him to stop over dosing or w/e he does and try to relax and not work so much...
i dunno i seriously dont kno what to tell you except i'm very sorry bout whats going on...i hope everything goes better...and my advice to you is to talk to some adult that is close to you and tell em your problem and see what they could do for you...i wish you the best and good luck...sorry if my answer was no help...xoxo effy
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