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anyone know how to get a REALLY firm stomache in 3 weeks??? i need help asap!! i rate good!!!! (link)
exercise..eat healthy..and try doing stuff like crunches or situps! =) good luck!



Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
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well if you wanna try it..i'm not gonna stop you..i've had cigarettes and they aren't the greatest things! in fact they are nasty as heck! i haven't had weed yet..i don't know if i'm gonna try it or not..but i know i'm not gonna get addicted to it. maybe once in my life i might get high..but just be careful with weed! cause people can put all different chemicals and drugs in it! its your choice..just please stay safe and be smart! and please don't try it only because you feel pressured! you are gonna feel pressured to do a lot of things in life and don't give in to them if they are wrong! stay true to yourself and you will be fine! good luck and i'm here if ya need to talk! =)



my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx (link)
um..maybe the best thing to do which i know this will be hard..but think about breaking up for now..and then maybe getting back together in the future. or just try talkin to your parents calmly about him..and see what they have to say..and maybe they will let you have supervised visitations with him and then once they get to know him..hopefully they will like him and trust you guys together! i'm here for you! =)



hey ive just been really confused on how i feel about somebody see i like 2 different people and both really like me and i dont know who to choose i dont want to hurt anyone and i really want to be with either one of them i dont know what to do what should i do (link)
just stay single until you are realli sure which one you want! then break the news easily to the person you don't pick by saying "you never know where we will be in the future" or whatever you wanna say! good luck! =) and make sure you try to pick the best one! personality and respect are important! don't worry about looks! =)



What's with divorce these days? No-one stays together anymore at all! My parents are divorced and it just gets to me how no-one stays together. Come on people, ya'll know what i'm talking about! (link)
i know exactly what your talkin about! i heard that 80% of marrage couples will expierence at least one divorice! ugh! people need to wait for who they really love and can live with for the rest of their life! great question! =)



When waz ur first kiss? (link)
November 18th 2003! lol! it was with my ex b/f who i dated for like 3 days! lol things didn't go that great after that! rumors went around..and then we broke up 2 days later! ugh! it was a mess! lol but we are friends now and everything is good! but the great thing about losing my first kiss to him was i liked him for 2 years and i never thought i could have him..but then one day i did..and so yea it went from there! lol great question! =)



I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ? (link)
NO WAY!

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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!? (link)
no hun! there is nothing wrong with you! i was 13 the first time i madeout with a guy but age is just a number! wait for that special person that you will remember forever as your first kiss! =) so that way it will be special! you didn't go wrong at all! i know people who are 16 and never got their first kiss! things will be fine..just wait for that special person!



Hey I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or tips on puttin on eye shadow. I wear it all the time but I always do it the same way: white eye shadow, black eye liner, and masquara! If you have any ideas lemme know!! (link)
try all different colors! if you are bored one day just get out your shadow and mix it up n beautify yourself! =) try lighter colors..darker colors..try everything and just see what works for you! =)



Why is it that when you eat anything it has a tendency to bloat you and make you look bigger than you are. Is there a way to prevent this? I usually just end up not eating. Help! Thanks! I rate good. (link)
well its okay to get bloated just as long as you exercise it off! um..a way to prevent it is just to not eat a whole bunch..but just make sure you are eating..and eating healthy! =)



do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol (link)
my hair is dirty blonde too! =) people just consider me as a blonde! well everyone except my best friend..she thinks i have brown hair! but dirty blondes are kinda considered both! =) yay! so we're lucky! we're in 2 categories! lol



ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??) (link)
no..thats not possible for a 5 year old to get pregnant! girls have to get their period first before they have a baby..and 5 year olds don't get their periods that early in life. what i'm thinkin is that it was a typo! maybe it was suppose to say 15! that makes more sense! =)



It seems like hoops are going out of style, am I right? (link)
no way! they are adorable! but you shouldn't worry about things going out of style! just have your own style and people will love you for that =)



okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?

14/f (link)
age is just a number..just make sure he's a sweet guy and thats all that matters! age means nothing! =)



im not in any of my friends classes and i feel depressed ive had such a bad day.. and im really starting too get back at the "im ugly" stage

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that really stinks..but the best thing to do is try to find some new friends! =) just be nice to everyone ya come across and hopefully they will be nice back! and since you got seperated from your friends..try to spend as much time as you can with them on the weekends and stuff so that way you guys still stay close! =) and your not ugly! looks don't matter! its whats on the inside..and your beautiful on the inside and thats all that matters! and i know this cause it seems you realli care about your friends! =) well good luck and i'm here anytime you need someone to talk to!



Ok so me and this guy dated for a year and a half, my first love, first guy i had sex with everything. I screwed up our relationship by taking him for granted and i cheated on him. Well he forgave me but we broke up and now he has a new gf and i had a new bf and its been about 5 months. School started and i have 3 classes with him and i cant get him off my mind and i want him back soooo bad but i really doubt he will dump his gf for me...wat should i do? please help (link)
the best thing to do is just to talk to him and see how he feels! first try being friends with him..and if it was meant to be..things will go your way! =) i'm here anytime you need someone to talk too! good luck!



This weekend me and the gurls went to the movies. There was this guy there that i think is really cute. I dont plan on hooking up with him because i have a boyfriend and we are very much in love. Well, at the movies this guy just happened to be sitting next to me. My friends got up to go to the bathroom and i didnt which meant me and the guy we're sitting there all alone. I turned over and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. I was kinda shocked he would do that since he knew how much i really liked my bf. Then, the night went on and i wasnt even thinking about the whole kissing thing becuz after all he did kiss me i didnt kiss him... well after the movie ended i walked out of the theater and then i had to go back cuz i realized i 4got something. the guy was still there. i got my stuff then he put his arms around me and hugged me and kissed me on the cheek again. This time without even thinking i kissed him on the cheek back.. I wasnt even thinking about my boyfriend!! i am such a bad person!! i know most of u dont think of kissing some1 on the cheek a big deal but to me it is cuz i kno if my guy was kissing some gurl on the cheek i would be mad it him.. now i dont know what to do! I want to tell him but i know its going to hurt him and hes been hurt alot b4 this. But still think he should know. I have this guilt on my shoulders. If been avioding him since the whole incident... Should i tell him or not? (link)
hey hun! yea..i know exactly how you feel! well the best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend and just tell him that you didn't go farther then a kiss on the cheek and that he kissed you..and if he realli is a good boyfriend..then he will understand! =) and if not..then he's not worth your time! a relationship should be based on trust! well good luck and i'm here for you if you need to talk too!



There's this guy I like, He's my best friend but i don't know what to do about it, he also has a girlfriend, he's thinking of breaking up with her though. What should I do? signed hopeless romantic (link)
you should talk to him first about the two you you "dating" to see how that feels..and i'm guessing that it is gonna seem weird at first dating your best friend..but just follow your heart and everything will go fine! i wish the both of you luck! =) rate me please!



well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??

i rate rele good!! (link)
=) yes you definitly have a crush..but i do have to agree with you..guys can be jerks! lol..but there is also another theory that goes around and that is that when a guy picks on you or teases you..that means he likes you! =) so maybe this guy is just playing hard to get! just keep on being nice to him..and don't be too shy to speak up! he may like girls who talk a lot! well i'm here if ya need any help! =) good luck!



ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated (link)
hey hun! well right now the choice is all up to you..not to put you on any pressure or anything..but before you make any decision..make sure you are readi and that you can live with your decision for the rest of your life. because when you are scared to have sex..that means you aren't ready. so please make sure you are so you don't regret doing this. your heart will tell you when the right time is. so just follow your heart and all will be good! =) good luck and i'm here if you need anymore advice!





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