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name's chelsey.
i'm 16,i'll be 17 in a little over 3 months.
i've been through a lot,and i have a lot of wisdom in different areas.
i'll try my best to help you in any way i can.
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Many religions believe that the world is going to end soon, and we are living our last days because of all the crime, hate, and everyone being open about their sexuality, what are your opinions on this?

The reason why the the different religions believe that is because the bible tells that Jesus will return, and he gives a general time. Nobody but God REALLY knows when the end of the world is going to be, but people assume that it is coming soon, because of what the bible says about the time period.
Hope I helped!
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What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more?

God should always be your first priority. More than likely, he would not convert to Christianity just for you, so you shouldn't give up your Christian background and morals for him. God has a plan for you, and he has a great Christian guy out there waiting for you. It says in the bible not to be associated with non-believers, so, even though you're attracted to him, you should follow the beliefs you have been taught as a Christian.
I hope I helped!Good luck & God Bless!
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my father abuses me what should i do

Tell somebody you trust, like your mom, siblings,the councelor at your school,etc. You have to tell somebody! Good Luck and may God bless you.
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OK ive been on a diet for about 5 days and i have been really goo about eating no junk. I even lost 2 pounds when i went on the scale today...roblem is..im a typical overweight american : I love my junkfood..Its getting so0o hard to turn down the junk..im afraid im going to give in and ruin my diet. My weight has been fluctuating..i might be 2 lbs lighter, then maybe 1, then back to my beginning weight.
How can i keep my weight from fluctuating and how can i deal with my cravings for food?? please dont say just tough it out..because its way to hard. :/
Any other losing weight tips most appreciated...5's for helpful answers.

It has been proven that most diets don't work, because the person will eventually go back to their old habits. So, what you have to do so that you're not so tempted to go back to old ways is, make a plan. Say that you're going to have a bag of m&m's(or whatever kinda candy is your favorite)and it's gonna last you the whole week. Eat a few each day. Or, you could plan a certain day of each week that is your pig-out day,where you can eat whatever you want to on that day, as long as you eat healthy for the rest of the week. Anywayz, I hope that all makes since and helps! Good Luck on your diet!
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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point

thanx ill rate high

Leave, get out-JoJo, Fighter-Christina Aguilera,
Survivor-Destiny's Child, Since U Been Gone-Kelly Clarkson... Hope that helps!

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Wht if u have a friend and yall have been friends longer thatn her other freind but your friend talks to u in till her other friend sighns on? Wht should i do?

You need to talk to your friend, and tell him/her how you feel. Let them know that it is hurting your feelings when they ignore you. If they are a true friend, then they will try to make a compromise, so that you don't feel left out.
I Hope that makes sense and helps!Good Luck and God Bless!
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Ok there is the guy i like alot and he seems to like me back and he has also told me that he likes me. I have told a couple of my friends that i like him and if they could talk to him so that he would ask me out. (I'm kinda the old fashion girl that waits for the guys to ask her out instead of the girl askin the guy out.) But this has been goin on for about 3 months and he still hasnt asked me out. so here is my question wut should i do?
Signed,
~*~Very Confused~*~
P.S 14/F

Nothing is ever going to happen if you don't take a chance and see how he really feels about you.If you are too shy to ask him in person, then maybe you could get his screenname and talk to him on the internet,if he has one.Otherwise, I don't know know what else to say, besides, just talk to him more and become friends. It's always better to be friends before you go out. Hope I helped!
Good Luck and God Bless!
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How come everyone thinks im mean? all i do is tell the truth. I gues they just cant handle the truth. Do you guys appreciate it when people tell you the truth or stupid lies? I would rather know the truth not stupid lies people tell me to feel better gosh.

Whats your opinion
Ya_gots_to_luv_me :)

It's great that your not afraid to be honest! Just be sure to let people down easy. For example, if someone's makeup looks bad, don't say "Oh my gosh! Your makeup looks horrible!" Just be like " Hey, you have a makeup smudge on your face, just to let you know." Doesn't that give off a better impression than the other? Anyway, I hope I helped and good luck!

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ok what exactly are guys looking for? i go to a private school and theres like 100 people in my grade... its pretty even (guys vs girls) and ive never been asked out. people always tell me im pretty and funny and i dont get it. im thinking that its just that the guys at private schools are retarded because a lot of really pretty popular girls dont get asked out.. but yea... so what are guys looking for? i rate 5s

Confidence and personality

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what is the difference between foundation, concealer, and powder. and are u supposed to use all three at once (i have acne) and i rate 5's

Foundation is the liquid makeup that you put on first.
Concealer is a stick that you can use for covering pimples,bags under eyes, etc.
Powder is just the makeup that comes in the little compact container that you use either over your foundation, for extra coverage, or by itself.

But, since you have bad acne, you should try using cleanser, instead of clogging it up even more. Good Luck!
I hope all that helps!
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Hey! I my classmates make fun of me and talk behind my back cause of my weight limit i mean i am a little over weight and i try to keep in shape. Why is everyone so mean to me? I never do anything mean to them? I dont get it? why do kids have to be so mean.

They have insecurities about themselves, so to make themselves feel better, and look better in front of others, they make fun of other peoples faults. Don't let them get to you, they are just insecure with themselves, it's not your problem. Hope I helped! And Remember- What goes around comes around.*
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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty??

I fyour really uncomfortable with your looks, you can experiment with different kinds of makeup to see what flatters your features the most, but remember-no guy likes a girl who looks like a clown, so don't cake on the makeup. Mostly, though, you have to learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. Guys admire a girl with confidence. Good Luck!
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Hey.. does anyone know if it is possible to transfer pix from my phone to my computer? It's a Samsung SCH-a670. Also.. how much would that cost (if it is possible)?

Thanks a bunch.. I rate 5's

I think there is some kind of wire you can attach to your phone and computer. Call the service provider for your phone and ask how to get one.
Hope I helped!
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im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do?

You should definately get help from someone, because this is very dangerous for your body.Go to someone you can trust (parent, guardian, counselor,etc.)and get them to help you. Good Luck, I hope all goes well!
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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair?

A weenie dog (dachshund)

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Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help!

God is the only way to heaven, and eternal salvation.

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ok well whenever i go to the bathroom, i look at my underwear and theres this like clear slimy gooey discharge and i havent gotten my period yet ... what is this ? im 13/f HELP!

Nothing to worry about, it's just normal discharge. It means your period is on its way.

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hey i'm 13 and i'm a Christian! i would really like to know more bible verses for i'm going through so much (parents are like yea...and my friends are failing me...and i have like 2 major issues of being easily angered and jealous, i'm praying about it too) so if you know any bible verses that might help me with the above or just any good ones tell me!! thanks soooo much *i rate*

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind."- 2nd Timothy 1:7

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened."
- Matthew 7:7-8

[God says], do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
- Isaiah 41:10 (New International Version)


The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
Yes, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil; for you are with me.
You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies;
You anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
- Psalm 23

"For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life."-John 3:16

"For with God nothing shall be impossible."

A quote I also like is: "I'd rather be on fire for God than on fire later!"
I hope these help! Good Luck!
*~*Trust in God!*~*
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Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)

I hate to say it, but you need to tell him the truth,sorry. But, to answer your question, the guys that are worth dating are going to prefer a virgin,because they believe in abstinence. Hope I helped!
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Me and my friends want to see The Ring 2. Well, originally I told my friend Lauren that her, Sarah and I could go. Recently Sarah and I have been hanging out a lot, with another girl, Krystal. I don't know who I want to go with. I would just invite both, but it's not that easy. Lauren is your typical preppy, VERY girly girl. Krystal is more like goth. As much as I hate labels, that's basically the only way to put it. Sometimes I wonder how Lauren and I get along.

Honestly, I'd rather go with Sarah and Krystal. But I just don't know what to say to Lauren, because I think she really wants to go with us. But Sarah and I both kinda get annoyed with her sometimes.

Who should I go with?! Sorry if it's long =(..

Just tell Lauren that you already had plans with some other friends for the same night, and maybe you could hang out another time. Hope I helped!
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