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Could I please get some good suggestions on what to do to get over someone? I just want to move on, but I can't seem to. Any ideas? Thanks so much. ps: i'm 22 and female :) (link)
Getting over somebody is really hard.
What I did was put his photograhs/clothes/notes/etc into a shoebox and taped it shut.
Block them out of your life.
Delete their number.
Try to think about something other than him.
Try to find somebody new.


A change wouldn't hurt, too.

I hope you do.


I need a girlfriend and I am shy around girls. Can someone give me advice on how to meet someone. (link)
Walk up to a pretty girl,
or whoever catches your eye.
First, compliment her.
Then start small talk/a conversation.
Be funny and confident.
Girls dig that.


Ok, does anyone know the name of that song in the Car commercialfor I think Yaris and the have a bunny symbol. The commercial starts with a black car and a white car driving around like they're flirting and then all of a sudden there are like a bagillion black and white cars they came about like rabbits breeding ya know? Well, if you know the song please help me out.

-Andrew(the best) (link)
are you talking about the song that goes

"I love you, I love you, I love you.."

??


well, theres this girl. she is in my piano class, i think that by having small talk every class i could get closer and closer to the point where we're friends

am i doing the right thing? if not tell up please =D

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That's a good idea.
But there's only so much small talk you can have before it gets awkward.

If I was you,
I'd bring some fruits or chocolates and ask her if she'd like some.
Then ask what her favorite foods are,
and get to know her a lot better.


Why do cats like themselves? I mean it doesn't actually clean them...or does it? (link)
That's their way of taking a shower/getting clean.


My girlfriend's birthday is comming up. I'd like to get her a book that she would like, she reads a lot. She likes to read novels, the mushy love story kind. Does anyone recommend any that they have actually read? I'm not too great when it comes to this. Or should I just ask her which one she would like? I did want it to be a surprise, but if that's the best way to go about it, I'll try it. (link)
I don't know what type of books she likes.
But there is a book called 'Flipped' by wendelin van draanen.
and it's about a cute, cliche, type of love.

and The Notebook.
I'm sure she'd love that.


ok... i have like really bad acne and i need to know what products would help that. do you know any really good products? 13/f (link)
aw, okay.
Proactive works.
St. Ives Aprocot Scrub.
drink a lot of water.
buy some stuff called rice paper.
and wipe it on your face.
it helps get rid of oils on your face and it is really cheap.


ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks (link)
ah, I hate that.
I have that problem sometimes.
freeze spoons (I use butter knives, haha) and place them under your eyes.
I heard some types of teas work also.
and of coarse, you can try make up.
works for me, but I hate it.


ok well im going to try the no carbohydrates diet, i no its not healthy but i need to loose weight fast. but what i need to no is what food it out there with no carbohydrates in it? because i cant seem to find any food without carbohydrates. and if i stick to this diet. when will i begin to see results?
thatnks so much you dont no how much i will appreciate it if you answer me.
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Eat a lot of apples.
They make you skinny:)
Go swimming, you lose weight fast.
Eat a lot of fruits, but not bananas.
exercise 30 minutes a day.
NO BREAD.

be safe with your diet.


what are some really good exercising for the stomach so i can lose all the fat there.. or maybe even ab workouts that you know would work, thanks! (link)
+sit ups (20)
+right side sit ups (20)
+left side sit ups(20)
+lay on your back, lift your legs in the air and reach for your feet 20 times

two sets of each.

you'll lose it all in no time,
trust me.


I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to. (link)
you're actually very mature.
stealing rode signs and getting high isn't responsible.
you're in a tough spot because you're surrounded by a lot of people who act like that.
But if I was you,
I'd continue doing my own thing.
You don't have to impress anyone.
Continue being "good."
:)


14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice ! (link)
I wouldn't drink if I was you.
Let them get drunk and impress eachother.
Be different and just don't do it.
You can have fun without getting drunk and acting foolish.


Is there any substance I can put on/in my food/drinks to speed up my metabolism? (link)
APPLES.
APPLES.
APPLES.

they do the trick


ok here's my problem i cant stop applying chapstick/ lipblam whatever you want to call it. if i go more than an hour without it i feel like im going crazy. so is chapstick actually addictive or am i just obssesed with the cherry goodness? (link)
I have the same problem, haha.

But I heard that you shouldn't wear chap stick if your lips aren't chapped.


Lately, I have been having really bad food cravings. Im not fat, 110 pounds, but I think that if I keep eating, I will be fat. I was wondering if there is a good way to kick the cravings. Thanks! (link)
drink cold water/suck on ice.


I'm a 14F going into highschool and I'm BARELY 5'1"!! Are there any special foods/excercises that could make me grow?

--Short Freshman. (link)
ahaha, me too!
My mom makes me drink milk!


how long can sperm live even when it hits the air .. can u get pregant by gettign fignered? (link)
no, you can't get pregnant by getting fingered.


ok so theres this boy that i really like...and suposedly he likes me too...which would be a good thing...we were talking on line the other day and i asked him when we were gonna hang out we set up a date and i asked him what we were gonna do..he said first hed give me a hug,we would hang out and then he said that he would like to kiss me...(weird i know) so i said i would like that too... well thats all good..i couldnt go out with him that day because of a family problem and were planning to hang out soon..now heres the problem......my best friend, who is ok with this boy said that he has a girl friend...i dont want to believe it, and i dont want him cheating on her , but i really like him and i want to go out with him....what should i do? (link)
Ask him yourself if he has a girlfriend.
Friends aren't always great sources.
If he says no, then go out with him.
But if you know he has a girlfriend,
don't get involved with him.


i dated this guy for about a month and i liked him alot. He was so sweet in person and jus seemed perfect. But, we would plan to do something and he wouldnt show up and make up wierd excuses. It made me suspicious. so later he told me it was over for summer but he loved me and would never stop lovin me. me and one of his friends are friends also. he told me about all the lies my ex told me and how he even tried to cheat on me. but later i found out that his friend telling me the info liked me.. so im not sure who to believe cuz his friend could hav jus lied to make me like him.. but he and my ex decided not to take a break for summer.. i didnt kno what to do.. i decided to believe the friend.. and now im not sure if i made the right decision. i asked my ex and he denied everythin and said he would never do that to me and that he loved me (link)
I would believe the friend.

Your ex probably did love you.
But if he didn't bother to show up to see you,
then it's not even worth it.

I guess it all comes down to who you trust more.


Ok, so I have been best friends with this boy since kindergarten. I recently switched schools and asked him out. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt about him. He ended up saying no, and I was crushed. I haven't talked to him since. What should I do? (link)
ah, I know exactly how you feel right now. But don't worry about it. If he said no, then it wasn't meant to be. Try to find somebody else but stay friends with him. He might come around later.




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