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14/f
all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice !
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you know if u dont think your not ready then dont drink stay smart! and tell your friends to fuck off (srry had to say it) but even if you did drink its not that bad ive done it.but i didnt get drunk you can just drink a little just dont get drunk and you shouldnt worry.
-angie
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Alcohol affects everyone in different ways, and if you have doubts, my best bet would be to say no, and make your own decisions. Your friends probably aren't trying to harm you, but just involve you a little more, so they should still respect your decision not to drink until you feel ready.
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NEVER, give into peer pressure. You should definately talk to your friends about this. It causes brain damage and especially since your only 14. Do whats right for you, and not for your friends. Hope i helped!! :]
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nooo dont drink. its really bad especially since your only 14. it can make you really sick and can cause brain damage. i saw it in a movie.
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Okay, there not fine. Because they get drunk pass out/go to sleep and wake up in the morning with a killer hang over. And no they're not fun at all.
You're 14 and I leanred if you start drinking at a young age before your body is fully develpoed you will harm your liver. It's pretty bad, it's nothing fun to look foward to. Anyways explain you're standing your ground you're not going to drink because you're better then that, and you don't want to break the law, and get charged with underage [& the long hours of community serivce that come along with that, and all the fines and court dates]. Trust me yes they come, I was charged with it already :].
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You know what? I'm 21 now and I didn't start drinking til I was 18. I actually started drinking my first alcohol on my 18th birthday.
I know peer preassure is tough but you have to stay strong against it because if you give in once, it's easier to give in time and time again.
I've never given in to peer pressure in my life. Yes, it can make you lonely sometimes but I have NO REGRETS about not giving in. I've never done drugs, never even touched a cigarette, I've only ever been hungover once (trust me, it's a HORRIBLE experience and I don't understand why people keep trying to give themselves them!!)and I've never stolen from or tormented people just because the people I was with thought it would be funny.
You only get one shot at life. What do YOU want to do with it?
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I wouldn't drink if I was you.
Let them get drunk and impress eachother.
Be different and just don't do it.
You can have fun without getting drunk and acting foolish.
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Dont drike just because other people tell you to. Stand up and say no. If they cant respect your desecion then there not great friends.
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in my opinion i think youre too young to get drunk and even for adults its not good.tell your freinds to respect your opinion that you dont want to get drunk just like you respect the fact that THEY get drunk. these drinks consist mainly of alcohol wich can cause brain damage and really scary flashbacks and you might even think you see someone and noones actually there...trust me i took it in science this year.Dont ler them force you into doing something you will regret later on,honestly.....if they jumped off a bridge would YOU do it??
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Peer pressure hun. Please dont drink. You will get addicted to drinking and it will end up ruining your future if you do it too much. Just like drugs. I know its hard to say no but if your friends have any respect for you they will listen to you, and if they dont, i think its time you made new friends. xoxo
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Put it this way, the age is 21 for a reason. You would be starting uhh....7 years early? Dont bother. What would you gain from doing it? Nothing, there is no reason to risk it.
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Well, I study this kind of stuff. And to me it is a hard drug. I`ve since people do coke and other hard drugs and they seemed fine. But theyre not really. All drugs are bad for you. They effect you brain! That is who you are is your brain. And by drinking your damaging That and other parts of your body. And by drinking you can do stupid shit. Some of the things i`ve seen while people are drunk is, Have sex with 8 guys at different times in one night. Jump of houses, Beat a best friend up for no reason. Try to rip of her ear. Pee in front of people(it was a girl too)break bones, Woke up to someone they dont know. I`ve almost been raped by a guy then a girl while drunk. Its not that fun of a drug. If its your first high then you`ll love it and dislike a little of other drugs. No good comes out of Booze.
You should do your own reseach. Here...
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And if you look around that site you`ll see there are other plants that wont kill you and get you "high" that might be growing in your backyard or someone who lives close. But you are 14 so i dont reccomen you do drugs. I myself didnt start doing then till i was 16.
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it's not a big deal. don't do anything you don't want to. do it if you really want to for yourself, not for anyone else (and that goes for everything like this). if you want more on this drop one in my inbox telling me who you are & i'll send one to your inbox. <3
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I have tried it. I mean it can cause A LOT of problems. Its basciallyy not even worth it. But, dont do anything youre not ready for
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i have. its nothing speacil. dont try its not wortth it my daddy was an acholic and he died from it so dont every try it alright?
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