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Does anyone know what foods to eat when you're trying to eat healthy and need to eat stuff that increases your metabolism? I've heard grape fruit and green tea, but what more? (link)
uuhh i think just eat fruit or something im really not that sure uuhh maby bananas and apple??? i dunno... sorry

hope i helped though =)


Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.

Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)

Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)

Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!

But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.

I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.

I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.

Thanks, I rate high! =] (link)
hhhmm this is a tough question! well if your so scared that your crush is gonna ask your friend out why dont you ask your crush out first??? and by the way the look is'nt everything that counts! and yeah i know you dont wanna do that but i really would just tell your friend that you like him A LOT and your friend only KIND OF likes him whatever :-) and maby you can just ask her if maby she could find someone else or something when she's soooo pretty thats not a problem right? and if she's really your friend she'll understand but the best thing is just ask him first and it sounds like he likes you so i dont think he'll say no!!

good luck =)


Well i am a f/13 and i like this boy and i think he likes me too. We nonstop flirt and we always talk. Even one time we both left the classroom just so we can talk. Well i think that it is the cutest thing every time we talk and there are people around us he always wispers in my ear and tells me. He gets so close that my chest and his chest touch and he doesnt move he just stays there with our chests touching. I think it is so cute how he wants to get so close and wispers in my ear. So just to flirt with him and make him enjoy being around me I wisper back into his ear and push my chest up against his and get as close as i can and we just stare into each others eyes. it is so romantic. Doesnt that sound sweet? Then i dont understand why he wont ask my to be his girlfriend? Please dont tell me to ask him out because i never will? Please go it to details, thanks in advance. remeber i rate 5s for good advice,
j. (link)
yeah well if you dont wanna ask then i quess just give him signals but dont ask a friend if she can ask him out for you cause i think guys dont like girls who are to shy to do that! i wouldnt like guys like that eather so yeah maby he is just waiting for you to make the first move cause he's to shy 2! soooo theres nothing to be afraid of anyways cause he's not gonna say no cause he totally likes you!

good luck!


i was in a huge fight with one of my guy friends and we just started talking again and now were good but i used to like him ALOT and i had a dream once a while ago when we were really good friends that i had sex with him. and the day after we started talking after our argument i had another dream that we were going out and we were a couple. im so confused i was sooo mad at him and i still am pretty upset at him were not friends again yet and he called me some pretty horrible things but i think i still have feelings for him even though im mad at him and im so confused, do i like him again? (link)
yeah i think you do like him! cause i'm very angry at a guy to and i know i still like him :-/ but back to you: well yeah as i was saying i think you like him cause when you dream something deep in your heart its a wish... i think... and yeah try to be friends again and see what comes later.. call him or IM him maby textmessage whatever ..

bye

good luck


okok, I told this guy I loved him!! And we used to be friends, and now he's avoiding me!! WHY? and what did I do wrong!? PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL ME NOT TO HIDE MY FEELINGS. How do i make this right? (link)
oh haha sorry i know its not funny but u know once a guy told me he loved me and i also liked him back but i just couldnt stand that he told me that and i dont know i just dont like it! well i do like him and i was mean and everything and i even appologized but he's just totally angry now haha oh well yeah i think that guy really does like you but maby he thought the same thing like me! dont show your feelings like that! not everyone likes you and maby that guy thought you where making a joke or something ( i thought that 2 when that guy told me he loved me) and yeah just uhhh i dont know talk with him again but no offence dude but i think you can just forget this whole thing cause when u told that guy you loved him you kinda ruined everíthing sorry!!!

anyways good luck



Okay my name is Saylor, and I had a boyfriend Nathan, this girl named Whitley liked him recently before we started dating. Well we dated for about 2 1/2 months, then I get a phonecall while he is in Tennessee from his mothers cell phone. I called it back and he answered the phone, this is our conversation.
N-Hey what are you doing?
s- Nothing sittin here playing with this dog (be got me a puppy.
N-Me n Dustin are fixing to go walk around the streets.
(dustin from in the background says "and get some pussy)
well nathan told him to shut up and for me to look over him
N- Hey we need to talk
s-okay
N- I think we need to depart for a little while
S- Thats okay with me
N- you can still call me and maybe later we can have a relationship but right now i dont want to be tied down
S- thinking to myself (ur in tennessee how the hell am i tying you down?)
S- Are you sure you still want me to call you
N- yeh i want you to and im still gonna call you and we can still hang out at school and stuff
S- okay
N- it dont bother you does it?
S- Nah im cool with it
N-so im gonna get off here i will talk to you later
S-okay
n- c ya
s- bye


okay that was our conversation and i was wondering what i can do because i really love him and im soo confused but i think he was just doing that because dustin is there i need so much help right now it isnt funny. Can you please tell me what i can do to get him back? (link)
uuuhh dude why did you act like you dont care in the first place?? and you "have" him you dont need to get him back! he told you that he wants to be alone for a wile or something and if your gonna try everything to get him back that will just annoy him and by the way he told you he wants a relationship later just respect that maby he's a little stressed or something! he likes you he still wants to hang out with you!!! so seriously dont worry so much!

good luck =)


14/f
I have this headache that is so bad that I end up crying. When I cry, that makes it worse. I know this sounds stubborn but I refuse to take medication. Does anyone have anything they do to get rid of headaches? Or at least make them feel slightly better? (link)
yeah i understand i also really hate medication! so yeah like the person below me said drink a lot of water that really helps! you could also get a towel and make it wet with cold water and then put it on your head! that really helps put dont go to the computer or watch TV cause that only makes the headache worse seriously! just lay down and close ur eyes and think of something cool what you always wanted like becoming a rockstar (yeah thats my dream :-D) okay dont worry you can do this

loads of luck =)


I lovee my current girlfriend soo much! SHe has been gone for 10 days on vacation with her parents to Canada. Last night I had two friends over. One is an ex who I am still good friends with. The history on us? It was a short 1 month thing. The classic friends giving the 'somethin more than friends' thing a try that didnt go well.
Well me and her were laying on my bed and my friend was next to us. Her body was not close to mine..but i was resting my head close to her and my hand was on her shoulder. I was extremely tired about to fall asleep. Is this cheating in some way to you? I mean i have other friends that are girls who will rest their head on my stomach while playing video games..and it is absolultey nothin romantic about it because we are strictly friends and both have different love interests and 'types.'
My ex thinks it was nothin..but should i tell my gf about this? If she ever found out she would flip out because she is extremely sensitive on the topic of me and my ex. She finds it odd we hang out because we are exes. *keep in mind its not like i hang out alonnne with this girl* I have a big group of friends kind of and we hang out together kind of thing.

well..do i have anything to feel guilty about? (link)
no i dont think u have to feel quilty! i mean it was just friendshiply right? well yeah but i wouldnt tell your gf about that whole situation i think she would be jealous so just act like it never happend!

good luck =)


So I posted a couple recent posts about what happend. And I think it's best if he and I go our seperate ways. I mean I love him and want to stay with him. But we are two different. We have different views on religion, and kids and hes younger, so we're really not on the same maturity level. Mom read some of our conversations and shes like Britt he's crazy. You need out of this. So I'm going to post some stuff and I want to know if he is.

[22:30] My Baby: k but i just got in a fight with grandma
[22:30] x_withoutu_x: what over?
[22:31] My Baby: religion
[22:31] My Baby: and i told her i would prolly kill myself before i turned 18
[22:32] x_withoutu_x: what did she say?
[22:32] My Baby: she thinks im kidding ill show her
[22:33] My Baby: im an athiast
[22:34] My Baby: there is no god
[22:35] My Baby: the bible is just a book nothing more than Harry Potter
[22:35] My Baby: are you reading this
[22:36] My Baby:
[22:36] x_withoutu_x: yes
[22:37] My Baby: what do you think
[22:37] My Baby: whats your opinon
[22:38] x_withoutu_x: I don't want to talk about it because we disagree and that would just cause an argument.
[22:38] My Baby: well id rather you stand up and talk instead sit there and let it go on
[22:39] My Baby: i think your leaving me
[22:39] My Baby: i know your trying to
[22:10] My Baby: im considering suicide
[22:12] x_withoutu_x: im back im gonna eat..trae stop it i love you
[22:13] x_withoutu_x: brb
[22:15] My Baby: i love you and im serious
[22:15] My Baby: i was about to stab myself last night
[22:28] My Baby: back yet

theirs some. If you need more just tell me. (link)
well yeah i would seriously leave him! but well yould you send me some more conversations cause maby then i can judge him better and maby i can help you :-D


ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one? (link)
well i'll try to answer this question :-)

well yeah you dont have to join a club or something thats true! lame :-O but uhh if you see a guy who u think is nice or whatever just go talk to him and try to become friends first! by the way you really dont need a boy to be happy cause then sometimes you get a little stressed and everything! i also dont have a boyfriend and i'm really happy :-D cause i just like to flirt with guys but uh the good thing is you CAN flirt with guys without your boyfriend getting jealous when you dont have one duuhh! you're better in school and get better grades cause you dont think of him so much and you dont "belong" to some1! just feel free and i think when the right one comes you'll know! and trust me you'll find him cause its better to be with some1 who loves you than with some1 just because you really need one!

i hope i helped !!!


Usually when people talk to me, the first thing I think is more like

"Okay", "That's interesting", or
"That's nice to know."

Not much of an opinion or anything. Bleh... and I don't want to say anything stupid.

What can I do to change that? I don't want people to think I am ignoring them when I don't respond quickly or think I'm stupid if I say something wrong. (link)
oh seriously dont think like that! just be your self! you know.. im popular for always saying what i'm thinking and sometimes i do hurt feelings but i know that and then i appologize! and because i'm always telling the truth people often come to me for advice or tips. but dont be to mean like when i really ugly person ask you how do i look? then just say you look fine , but it would be better if you.....
so you should really say what you think but in a nice way even when your thought is'nt that nice and dont do the same mistake like me , you should still think before you talk! cause i never do and yeah thats not always that good :-/ but uhm as i was saying just be honest with yourself and your friends!
cause my teacher is always saying to homework or whatever : ohh wow thats really nice you did a great job! even if its really bad and then people wount take you serious and you dont want that to happen right? (cause i really dont believe my teacher anymore :-D)
so dont worry things will work out!!

loads of luck


I'm a bit of a slob, and while re-organizing my closet (aka picking my clothes up off the floor), I found a whole lot of mouse poop. I don't really keep food in my room, and when I do eat in my room, it's not in the closet.

So how do I get rid of the mice? I keep my clothes in this area, so I'd rather not use strong chemicals. I also don't want to be picking up dead mice. So what's the most humane, safest way to get rid of them? (link)
oh thats easy! just buy a mouse trap and put some cheese on it or whatever and then the mouse get trapped in there! all you have to do then is free the mouse outside! then the mouse is still alive and you dont have them in your house anymore! trust me it works! i once had about 3 mice and i did it the same way! :-D by the way there really cute :-) well good luck


is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13? (link)
no i dont think it's wrong but still , think before you do something that could get you in trouble!!!


right down to it - do midnight snacks, or eating after 8 o'clock make you fat? If not, then why is it bad? what's the big fuss about? (link)
yeah i think it makes you fat cause you really dont excersise after you eat that you just go do bed or something and than you cant burn the calories i think but im not 100% sure :-D

good luck though!


I'm dating a guy and I'm not shy at telling him when I want him, want to see him, or wanna talk to him, but I can't help but wonder if maybe he'd want me more if I backed off a little and played a lil hard to get. Tips? (link)
NO!!! dont play hard to get i think guys really hate that!!! than maby he will think you dont like him anymore or something! (guys are weird :-) but seriously just be yourself that is the best you can do!

loads of luck

:-D


i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad? (link)
no i get my period every 4 month or something i dont think it's bad! just wait for about another 6 days and if you still dont have your period than take a pregnatecy test but i dont think your pregnate!

loads of luck :-D


can I get pregnant on my period if I'm on birth control? (link)
i'm not that sure but yes i think you can but i'm really only 50% sure :-)
anyways good luck


I'm confused why people come here seeking advice and then when they don't like the advice they send horrible feedback.

Just because you don't like an answer doesn't mean it's wrong or bad. Don't people ask for advice to get all the angles and then make an informed choice?

how do should we handle mean feedback? (link)
well just ignore it i quess! what else could you do? then just dont give that person advice anymore :-)


I like this boy named Luis(as you might know) But I want to know if he likes me. I afraid to ask him to go out with me and stuff so I was wonder if he was ever going to ask me. He is shy around girls and Ishy around some boys. him one of them. He flirts with me and i flirt back. and when the teachers make us sit by each other we'll lean on each other but I'm not sure if that's Liking someone or not. Do you think he likes me? (link)
yeah it could be but maby he also just wants to be friends with you! sooo really the only person who knows 100% is that guy and if you really wanna know that bad just ask him even if it sounds impossible i know you can do it!!

loads of luck :-)


Okay so I used to cut myself, but I've gotten somewhat better now. I have gym tomorrow and the uniform is a t-shirt. I don't want anyone to see the scars/scabs on my arms and make a big deal. Can anyone tell me how to cover my arms in gym, without being really obvious? Please don't tell me to get help for cutting myself, I am in the process of doing so. Thanks so much, I'll rate high. (link)
hehe this maby sounds funny but just put make up on the scars or scrabs :-D




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