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Do I Like Him?
i was in a huge fight with one of my guy friends and we just started talking again and now were good but i used to like him ALOT and i had a dream once a while ago when we were really good friends that i had sex with him. and the day after we started talking after our argument i had another dream that we were going out and we were a couple. im so confused i was sooo mad at him and i still am pretty upset at him were not friends again yet and he called me some pretty horrible things but i think i still have feelings for him even though im mad at him and im so confused, do i like him again?
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Well i suppose you have to ask yourself that question. I think you need to sort out your fight with him first, because if you keep fighting with him, your going to hurt more, and feel upset. Why are you fighting with him? Do u think he may like u also? Make up with him and try to make the friendship work. If you cant make the friendship work thats not good grounds for a relationship.
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At this point, it'll probably take more than dreams to let yourself know that you like this guy. Dreams are only dreams. We dream about people we love, hate, and our family, but we hardly ever base our lives onto them because they are only dreams.
You have to think about the way he acts toward you just as a friend. You said that he called you some horrible names during an arguement. If that is unacceptable to you to happen in a relationship arguement, then you won't be able to have him as your boyfriend very well. I hope that being called names in a love relationship is unacceptable to you because it shouldn't happen no matter how angry you get.
I think you should focus on getting this friendship back into place before deciding whether you have feelings for him or not. And that could be the root of your arguement. Sometimes friends get jealous and they can argue about really stupid things because that jealousy went out of control. I'm not saying that you were jealous, but it could be.
The truth is that only you know whether you truly like your guy friend or not. Do you find yourself day-dreaming of the both of you as a couple and it makes you feel happy? Day-dreams can be controlled, so if you are having that sign, then that would probably answer your question. Do you feel a little jealous or maybe even akward when you see him with another girl flirting or messing around? If you don't have this sign, it doesn't mean that you don't like him still. Try paying attention to some things that you think about during the day at school or before you go to bed. It's also a pretty positive sign if he's the first person you think of when you wake up.
-TheTeenGirl
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personally, i think you like him. since you have dreams about him, you obviouslly think about it & him. just because your mad at someone doesn't mean you stop liking them neccesarily .. you probably never stopped from when you liked him ALOT. i would wait until things get fixed w/ him and you guys start becoming better friends again and then you'll really realize if you like the real him .. goodluck.
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yeah i think you do like him! cause i'm very angry at a guy to and i know i still like him :-/ but back to you: well yeah as i was saying i think you like him cause when you dream something deep in your heart its a wish... i think... and yeah try to be friends again and see what comes later.. call him or IM him maby textmessage whatever ..
bye
good luck
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