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did I scare him?
okok, I told this guy I loved him!! And we used to be friends, and now he's avoiding me!! WHY? and what did I do wrong!? PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL ME NOT TO HIDE MY FEELINGS. How do i make this right?
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I did exactly the same thing, I told a friend of mine that fell for her and after that we couldn't look at each ather for a few days and all I had to do was to call her and after that we desided to meat and talk face to face, I think that is what you should do, call hin send him an sms or an e-mail, remember: no metter what you should talk and you have to let hin know that what you told him is what you really feel, and for the part he's avoiding you it could be a few things or he likes you to and he is afreid of hus feelings or it wasn't a really good time tell him that, maybe he is going through a lot now and this just made things worse.
And everything cames back to this: you have to talk to him.
hope I helped
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I think he feels the same way but he is to afraid to tell you. I know i am afraid to tell people how i feel because i have to guard myself from that type of stuff. I think he is just guarding himself from getting hurt again. To make it rght is to just talk to him. I know it is hard to talk to people when their avoiding you so write him a note or call him send him an email. You wont feel better until you do it.
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oh haha sorry i know its not funny but u know once a guy told me he loved me and i also liked him back but i just couldnt stand that he told me that and i dont know i just dont like it! well i do like him and i was mean and everything and i even appologized but he's just totally angry now haha oh well yeah i think that guy really does like you but maby he thought the same thing like me! dont show your feelings like that! not everyone likes you and maby that guy thought you where making a joke or something ( i thought that 2 when that guy told me he loved me) and yeah just uhhh i dont know talk with him again but no offence dude but i think you can just forget this whole thing cause when u told that guy you loved him you kinda ruined everÃthing sorry!!!
anyways good luck
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You know what you need to do and I understand why you you haven't really went ahead and did it yet. Obviously, you have to approach him about it and tell him that you know that you two are friends. And tell him that you love him as a good friend does. BUT, if it's bigger than that, then I have no idea what to tell you. All I can say is- talk to him and see where his mind may stand on an issue like that. According to his response, then obviously you either should go for it or not. It all depends on his response. HOWEVER, THAT'S IF YOU LOVE LOVE HIM AND IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM. If you don't, tell him that he interpreted your comment in the wrong sense and that there's no need for him to avoid or to feel awkward around you. Assure him and move on. It's a guy thing though, surely you understand this.
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