I think my boyfriend is psychotic. I'm scared of him.
Question Posted Tuesday April 18 2006, 11:49 am
So I posted a couple recent posts about what happend. And I think it's best if he and I go our seperate ways. I mean I love him and want to stay with him. But we are two different. We have different views on religion, and kids and hes younger, so we're really not on the same maturity level. Mom read some of our conversations and shes like Britt he's crazy. You need out of this. So I'm going to post some stuff and I want to know if he is.
[22:30] My Baby: k but i just got in a fight with grandma
[22:30] x_withoutu_x: what over?
[22:31] My Baby: religion
[22:31] My Baby: and i told her i would prolly kill myself before i turned 18
[22:32] x_withoutu_x: what did she say?
[22:32] My Baby: she thinks im kidding ill show her
[22:33] My Baby: im an athiast
[22:34] My Baby: there is no god
[22:35] My Baby: the bible is just a book nothing more than Harry Potter
[22:35] My Baby: are you reading this
[22:36] My Baby: <ding>
[22:36] x_withoutu_x: yes
[22:37] My Baby: what do you think
[22:37] My Baby: whats your opinon
[22:38] x_withoutu_x: I don't want to talk about it because we disagree and that would just cause an argument.
[22:38] My Baby: well id rather you stand up and talk instead sit there and let it go on
[22:39] My Baby: i think your leaving me
[22:39] My Baby: i know your trying to
[22:10] My Baby: im considering suicide
[22:12] x_withoutu_x: im back im gonna eat..trae stop it i love you
[22:13] x_withoutu_x: brb
[22:15] My Baby: i love you and im serious
[22:15] My Baby: i was about to stab myself last night
[22:28] My Baby: back yet
Additional info, added Tuesday April 18 2006, 4:48 pm: He said he wanted me to get a historectomy so it would be okay for us to have sex and i wouldn't be on my period? Is that not crazy? I'm 18 years old, and want a family someday. . Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? orphans answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 6:08 pm: i think you should tell him that you need time apart. you think he is getting way to controlive and you think you are better off at being friends for a little while. tell him that maybe in a couple of years , after he has settled down, you can try it again, that is if you want to and then go ur seperate ways he might say shit about you but dont let it get to you have all your numbers changed and dont answer the door for him or no one seen with him. i know this, it has happened to me
sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 5:20 pm: I don't think he's necessarily crazy. It sounds to me like he's just searching for attention. He pushes buttons and pokes and prods searching for a certain kind of reaction. I seriously doubt he realy wants you to get a historectomy, he likely just wanted to see your reaction. I know people like this "reaction seekers" I call them. They pretend they're mad or they'll say crazy things because it makes them feel power over other people to be able to make them react in a certain way. He only threatened to commit suicide after he decided that you were trying to leave him and it seems he used it as a scare tactic so you wouldn't break up with him. He seems like a very manipulative person that is very confused about life. That makes him the type of guy you would not want to have a relationship with so I think that it would be a good choice to break up with him. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Samantha09 answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 4:06 pm: okay i have a brilliant answer...lol....before you completely leave him you and him need to sit down by each other and talk....by your selves alone and ask him why he wants to do it ...you never know...i mean the internet is scarry and it might get all mixed up....(probably not) but you never know...that would be my advise first and make no regret don't even threat'n him....just say right there i think we should break up....and tell him you are sorry and you love him but he scares you...just tell him that but only break up with you if he says he is serisious about that...really hope i helped ...
x0xPREPx0x answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 3:15 pm: ew this guy is so weird... im sorry but it even scares me! haha.
at least he cares about you?...
but yeah i would totally leave the guy. just say that he has some issues he needs to straighten out before you guys go back out again. and tell him you will be his friend and you will be there for anything he needs!
if the suicide thing goes on i would tell someone...i mean how would you feel if he killed himself because of you? God i would feel terrible =/ [ x0xPREPx0x's advice column | Ask x0xPREPx0x A Question ]
itsz_JESS answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 3:00 pm: uhmmm. this is kinda scary i mean .. hes gonna commit suicide! your mom is right, hes like crazy. tell him that you two are better off being friends and that you dont feel like being in a relationship right now.. like what if he wants to hang out withyou but you cant, he'll like flip ! hope he'll understand and be careful! good luck! [ itsz_JESS's advice column | Ask itsz_JESS A Question ]
evil-devil12 answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 2:59 pm: well yeah i would seriously leave him! but well yould you send me some more conversations cause maby then i can judge him better and maby i can help you :-D [ evil-devil12's advice column | Ask evil-devil12 A Question ]
BrandonsGirl answered Tuesday April 18 2006, 2:13 pm: you need to leave him. he seems like he dosent even care if you die..and you should be with someone who DOES care about him hes practically ignoring you..LEAVE HIM!before u get hurt even more then you are!
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