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okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat? (link)
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well crunches only help the upper part of your stomach. keep doin them they are really good for you. if you want to work out your lower stomack then you should do 6 inches (where you lay down completley on your back and you raise your feet above the ground 6 inches and hold them there) that really helps. also drink skim milk or 1 percent, that will help. eat alot of bananas. it helps you lose weight around your stomach. there is also something called 6 second abs you can use and it really works. ( you can get that at modells, dick sporting goods, anything like that) it has a DVD that shows you how to do it step by step. or maybe abb lounge.
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I'm 16/f and one of my best friends is 17/m. We're ridiculously close friends. He understands me so well, and he actually cares. He has been one of the nicest people to me in my entier life. He's always there, and he always listens. He's just the sweetest person in the world.
The only problem is, I like him. A lot. As in more than best friends. But my question is, do I just keep our friendship, so that nothing else can be ruined, or do I try and push for more?
I don't want things to be awkward between us, but I love him. He has been the sweetest person in the world.
I'm confused about what to do. I'm torn between getting closer or staying how we are. Help. (link)
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i think you should tell him how you feel. if you guys did go out then break up just promise each other that you will be best friends again and you will try not to make it feel weird for eachother. but you do think you should tell him how you feel about him, he might feel the same way, you never know until you try. it might work if you really really like him.
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Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell? (link)
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well, its totally normal to think about God. but if you love him you love him. and God does have a plan for everyone. people that are good go to heaven, people who did all the wrong things and broke like all the commandmets more then once or something then they are probally going to hell. then there is this place called "pergitory" thats where the undicided people go. God does not know where to put them there so they wait there until he does.
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well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I?? (link)
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i think you should tell him how you feel about him. he might feel the same way. you never know until you ask. so i would tell him how you feel and then you two can work out something.
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ok im not sure if its my period or like if i am going to die or something!!!! i came back from somewhere and just saw that blood was in my undiwear. it has been for like 3 days now. but every time i go to the bathroom there is blood-A LOT, like i have to change the pad (i gues). idk if this is my period or not. if it is, its the first time thats why im asking like this. but please, im really worried something might be wrong so if you could please explain what it is supposed to look/feel right, and what i just explained sounds normal or whatever! PLEASE ASAP! sorry for the length. bye (link)
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it might be your period but then again to doulble check maybe you should ask your doctor. better safe then sorry. even if you feel wired asking its better then letting it go too far. your doctor will always understand.
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Is there anyway possible that I can lose three pounds to fit in my dress in 10 days. Please help asap (link)
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well if you have a pair of pants that are too tight for you. (say you have jeans that are a size 3 and you wear a size 5) if you work hard enough sooner and sooner you will fit into those pants and you will have gone down two sizes. that goes for your dress too.
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I play field hockey and its preseason and i hurt my musucle under my ribs. first it was only the one but now it is both. what should i do? is it from running 1-4 miles a day? shouldi ask to take the day off of running or what? HELP PLEASEE (link)
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well if you are hurting real bad then you should really ask your coach to run less. you dont want to get too hurt for the games.
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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?
i'll rate high if i get good answers. (link)
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well once you start to grow more your boobs will grow bigger. right now they might not be big, but real soon you will notice them starting to get bigger. some say that eating cheerios make your boobs bigger.
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okay, i use tampons during my period, but im nervous to go swimming with them in. Im afraid the water will soak the string, making the blood travel out trhough the tampon string. Does this happen or am i worrying for nothing? (link)
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well when you wear a tampon in the pool it doesn't come out so dont worry about it. usually when you get in there you usually dont even feel the tampon in there. when your in the water nothing will happen to it.
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my hair is kinda frizzy. I dont usually blow dry my hair and i use herbal esscenses (sp?) shampoo and conditioner. What are some ways to make my hair less frizzy without getting that frizz ease stuff or blow drying (that takes a long time. i have a lot of hair)?????
i'll rate 5's for good answers! (link)
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well you can always straiten your hair. then it wont be fizzy at all. or you can get your hair thinned. maybe you can get a shampoo that calms your hair down. you can find stuff like that where you usually find your shampoos.
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Hey! I am a girl, and a sophmore!
I am taking Geometry this year! today was my frist day, and my Geo. teacher has different teaching styles, and I am finding it very difficult to learn. He is really into using logic, and I am totally a streat smart person.
Do you have any tips or sugestions to help with this? is there anything that I can do with my notes or anything to help?
thanks so much!
-Kels-
I'll rate and leave feedback! :) (link)
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dear kels,
well math is one of my worst subjects. but every teacher has his own ways of teaching learing material. maybe you can just ask him to stay after class and help you out more clearer.
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Hey. My mom doesn't know it yet, but I finally have a boyfriend. We don't really talk about this kind of stuff but I really would like her to know. I just don't know how to tell her. Do you guys have any ideas on how to tell her? Thanks so much. (link)
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i think that you should just go up to her and just say it. once you say it you will be glad you did because you know that she knows. maybe you can say something like:" mom, i just wanted to let you know that i am getting older now and i do have a boyfriend and i really like him and he really likes me." something like that. she is your mom, she will understand, believe me.
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I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?
I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental? (link)
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well i think that love is whatever you make it. love only exists if you make it exist. if you just like someone inside but you jusy "say" u love them then its not love, when you love someone on the inside and out and you have a feeling of compasion for then then thats love and you want to be with them always. some people judje love in right and wrong ways but the only way you can make it right is if you "try" to make it right. i dont think you are being too judgemental because everybody has their own opinion in the game of love, but love is what you make it.
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Ok. I just had minor surgery on my left big toe. To be more specific, the surgeon ripped off half of my toenail and now it is wrapped up in a big toe turban. But the problem is, because the toe turban is so huge, it won't fit comfortably in a shoe! And I'll be having that toe turban on for a long time until my toenail grows back! And I'm going to school next week! What can I do? I really hate (and don't have any) sandals! (link)
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maybe u can go out and get bigger shoes. i know it might be too big for your other foot but too lose is better then too tight. you know?
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There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers. (link)
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i think you should just go up to him and maybe say "hey nice shirt you got on" or " that hair cut makes u look sexy" or " hey so what did u do this week end?" or "can you help me with this math problem?" somethings like that. just dont be shy and dont be afraid to do it. if you dont do it then you will never know if he likes you. so if i were you i would go for it!!
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ok well my feet are shped very "dis-formed" lets say. they have webbs between them just like a duck and when i wear flip flops with all my friend i feel left out. they really make fun of me. what should i do??
signed,
duckie (link)
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well, thats the way you were born and nobody can change that. be proud of who you are and dont let anybody put you down. stand tall and be proud!!
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My birthdays coming up in about a month and i always have a party with a theme whether it be tinker bell or something cute like that but i'm turning 15 and i still want a theme but not like a lil girlish one because i'm going to be 15 and my friends mom is going to make my cake and she wants to put something on it that has to do with the theme...the party's going to be at my house...any ideas on themes thanx in advance!♥ (link)
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the theme can be " dress like a paris hilton or james bond" who ever comes best dressed like them will win a prize or something. (or whoever u want to dress like)or like you can have a dance off at your party. who ever can dance the best or something. it sounds like fun!!
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i have a really nice friend but ever since my one b-day party she had met my other friend and then they started to get together and hang out ALL the time now my friend never talks to me and at school when i pass her in the hall she never says hi and she never comes over anymore too she is always with my other friend. i am not really friends anymore with the one girl my friend always hangs out with so i cant talk to her about anything. but my friend also used to sit at my table andn talk to me and my other friends but now all she does is sit with the other girl and never talks to me anymore what should i do?? thanks!:) (link)
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i had a problem similar like this. talk to your friend about it. tell her you feel like you are losing her and u miss her and you want her back. tell her how you feel about this.
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I do not shave yet... but i want to... what is a creative way i can ask my mom i want to shave? (link)
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well i think that the best way to ask your mom would be, "mom, well i am getting older now and i really think its time i shaved my legs. most of my friends are shaving and i really think i should" just tell her something like that and you will be fine!'
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-My mother's a whore who doesn't care to sleep wit several guys within days, married or not
-My father used to serial cheat on her, ever since the first 3 days of their marriage, and now she's gettin revenge
-No one could give a shit about me, so their shipping me off to another country
-Their pretendin to care, and sayin they want me to stay, though i'm not stupid, they both want to make me suffer(if i live wit my mom, i live wit her 2 BF's, and if i live wit my dad, i live wit his GF
-I don't know anyone in the Dominican Republic, what the hell am i supposed to do there, where the hell am i supposed to go to high school, and where the hell am i supposed to live, my own family members can't decide were to put me, since none of them want me there
-There's SOOO much more pain in my life write now, there wouldn't be any space to write it
-I have a serious addiction to cutting myself, and i think i may even be developing an addiction to pills, i mean, why wouldn't i be depressed
-And i know it's not a sex question, but it's a popular topic, and i just want to know, is there anyone who cares, anyone who can help me, anyone who can tell me, why haven't i killed myself, what the hell do i have left to care for, and what in the world am i supposed to do with my piece-of-crap-for-a-life
-I've tried proffesional help and advice, it seriously doesn't work
P.S.:plz, no wiseasses, i really don't want to deal wit that right now, cuz ur not gonna get a pleasant reaction
Sincerely,
Life Falling Apart(13/f) (link)
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dear falling apart,
killing yourself, cutting yourself or hurting yourself is not the anwser. you will regret it for the rest of your life believe me. its not wroth it. you cant control your parents life. they are adults, they have the right do to anything they want and it may hurt you and it may make you happy. your first reaction to what i am going to say is prebally a no but jusst try it, talk to your parents. maybe they will listen to you. u never know and trying will never hurt. if u cant tell a parent then tell a brother, sister, aunt uncle, friend, teacher, anyone close to you. i know you dont want help from strangers who just tell you, oh it will be ok, i know that never helps and i dont wanna give you that kind of advice. i am going to tell you what i would try to do in this problem, i would try talking to my parents or some1 close to me. i would read them what you just wrote up there. it will help alot im sure of it. just try it, its better then hurting yourself. please dont do anything like that its not worth it. no matter how hard your life will get, hurting yourself for life is never the anwser.
so please think about this.
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