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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 1/2 months and on sunday im going to his house for a couple of hours... ok well we kiss all the time and i want to be able to kiss him in other places. please give me ideas of where guys like to be kissed nothing like head or anything cuz we've both said were not ready for that. thanks bunches

okay my ex LOVED me kissing his neck!

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okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!

hey hun. heres one i wrote myself.



THE GREATEST FRIEND

You are the greatest friend I could need

Without you around I'd be lost indeed

Thanks for the chats on those warm summer nights

And thanks for never starting massive fights

You've been there for me when I'm happy or sad

You keep persisting to make sure I'm fine-even when I get mad

When I need advice your there for me

And I never want to lose you, you see

Your a wonderful friend and in my mind

I know that I never will find

A friend as good as you are

And I know you are never too far

All those inside jokes keep us together

I know we can handle any kind of weather

You are my best friend and this is true

I want you to know that I love you!

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see i really like two guys...one was my ex boyfriend but i never stopped liking me and he likes me. Then theres another guy who i went on a date w/ but it never went farther but i like him a lot and he told me cared about me. He proved it to wen he asked about me wen talkin to my sister. i talk to them both about the same and idk which one i like more...And im not for sure about the one that talked to my sister cuz i keep getting mixed signals...does he like me? what should i do about both of them?

JUST REMEMBER: your ex is an ex for a reason. dont go back to him.

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I think I'm kind of short.. I'm 13 and just a little over 5 feet.. are there any ways that can help me grow taller?

Oyeah theres one way... there was this thing back in the old days that streched people... it was a form of torture. it is currently being tested for growth stunt problems. it just might work! you never know... one day you could be 6foot!!!


NOT!

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ok well i like this guy and i think that he might kinda like me a little bit but he has a girl freind and she used to be muh good freind but now we dont talk like at all and she already thinks that we fool around so .......muh ? is do u think that it would be bad to do shit with him behind her back?

savannah
x0x0x0 write back please

its never good to do things behind someones back... especially with a girls boyfriend! just coz you dont like her doesn't mean you should cheat with her man!!!

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I love my bpyfriend but then there are these 2 other guys. This is the problem..

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months and I love him a lot. Before I ever went out with him I always likes this other guy! Lets call him Mike. Well Mike and one of my best friends went out off and on for about 5 times. I never told anyone that I liked him and no one knew. Now Mike told me he liked me and he wants to go out with me! I dont know what to do because I like Mike also and I like my boyfriend. There is this new guy who came to school and I think I'm starting to like him to. I already feel jelous when someone flirts with him. We talked a couple of times tho and I like him. My boyfriend is very complicated at times! We have had some issues but we all worked it out! I dont know what to do!!! I like all 3 of these guys! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend because I love him and I also want to go out with Mike and I like this new guy! Please help! I`l rate good I promise! Thank you.

well it seems to me that you DONT ove your boyfriend. you may think you do but you dont actually love him. like him maybe but not love. if you loved him you would have eyes for him only. if you feel you can learn to love him and forget about the other guys then stay with him. if not... pick one.

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I have a friend. I met her in September and she was really nice for about a month and then she started hitting me for no apparent reason. Supposedly her dad "abuses her" but no physically, and whenever she hits me she blames it on that and her insomnia. Her insomnia is cured, and if she's smart enough to blame her problems on her dad, I think she's smart enough not to do it. So it's been months now, and she's bruised me a lot, in the face once. She threatens people and blames it on me when I get beaten and whenever I get a bruise she says "It prolly just something stupid you did to yourself to blame on me." So she started talking about killing people, one of them happens to be my major crush who I would do anything for, but I can't tell her or she'll kill me. (different problem) So I went to my principal because she'll end up killing someone, and we got into a fight. The principal said she's not worth it and to stop talking to her. She said she's sorry but I don't believe it, but I'm scared she's going the beat me if I tell her. I can't ignore her forever. What should I do?

you gotta stop being her friend. if she beats you for not being her friend how does that differ from when she beats you FOR being her friend? and warn your crush. she may be female but a bad temper can make you alot stronger than a guy. so he needs to know. good luck!

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Alright, I'm letting you all know right now this is going to be lengthy. Over a year ago, I was dating this guy and we broke up after 4 months of dating because of problems and whatnot. I found out after we broke up that he was doing so many things behind my back like smoking pot (I'm disgusted by that) having sex with other girls, touching other girls at school, etc. We broke up, I moved on then came summer and then my first year of highschool. A long lost friend I guess you could say, met up with me and told me she met this GREAT guy and told me his name. I told her that he was an asshole he treats girls like crap don't date him he'll break your heart, yadda yadda yadda. They dated for about 2 months and broke up because shockingly enough, he was cheating on her. She came to me apologized for being a bitch and not listening to me and I forgave her. Now, about a week after they broke up I found out that he was trying to hook up with some girl. She's an innocent girl and a complete sweetheart that should not be dating a guy like him. I told her how he was and she didn't believe me. I have been trying to prove for the longest time to her (they're still dating, it's been 5 months) that he's a lying, cheating, bastard. So I got one of my friends to act as if she had a crush on him and talk to him online and see what his reaction would be. Sure enough, he accepted the offer of getting head from her, making out with her, and even getting sex from her. We saved the conversation and printed it out and showed it to her the next day. She didn't believe a word of it, so she showed it to him and his excuse was that his friend was over and they were just joking around. My friend pulled out her cellphone and read off a number and said "Is this you're boyfriend's cell phone number?" and sure enough, it was. After that day, he IMed her and said this "Baby, why'd you have to start shit today, I didn't want her knowing about that!" Which proves my point that he's a lying, cheating, bastard. I'm fed up with trying to deal with her not believing me. But it bothers me so bad that he's doing all this to her! She hates my guts because she claims I'm trying to break them up and me and a good friend of hers almost got into a fight (fists, hair pulling, slapping.. typical girl fight). I decided not to even bother anymore, but I feel so horrible just sitting here, seeing what he's doing to her and not being able to do ANYTHING about it because she won't belive me! I think that now she's begining to see what he's doing to her but I really don't want to forgive her for what she put me through. Should I keep trying to point out the blaitenly obvious? Or should I let her figure it out on her own? IF she ever figures it out and they break up and she comes crying to me, what should I do? I don't want to forgive her! Please help, this is so confusing for me. Sorry it was so long.

let her figure it out. you tried to help but she didn't listen. she needs to make her own mistakes and learn from them.

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Am I the only one that believes people should type correctly when asking a question? Is there some way to create something that would change words that were "Chatspeak" to English?
For example:

there is dis boi, i relli relli like him! wat do i do?

Would become:

There is this boy, I really, really, like him! What do I do?

I know that is a dumb question to start with, but it's an example. I don't know how to create a program that would change the "fake" words into "real" words.. if you know, and would share, you rock!

i totally agree!!! like one every now and then is okay but all the time... you need to speak another language to understand what people are trying to say!!!

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Okay so I am the one who I like the guy in my drama class and was nervous to talk to him, well today I told my friend who is good friends with him. She called him and his answering machine picked up and I was like "you're hot" like just kidding cuz I thought the phone was still ringing and it wasnt!!! She was like that was.. me (she said my name) I was so mortified!! Well I have to go to 1st period Drama w/ him in it!! I begged my mom not to make me go.. lol of course my mom said I HAD to go! Anyway I am so nervous he'll find out I like him!! What do I say tomorrow? I really don't want to go up like right when he walks in the classroom and be all like oh by the way I was kidding around yesterday. Oh and also he called back but he didn't hear the message and our other friend was like "erase it" and the one who is good friends with him, was like "ya she was playing around with my phone, and she said my name again!!" I'm not mad at her, just sort of.. mortified of what he'll say tomorrow!! Does anyone have a suggestion of what I should say to him if he comes up to me?!? THIS IS URGENT!!!

when you see him just smile and act casual. i know its hard but you gotta. if he walks up to you say hi and ask how he's going. but dont be nervous!!!

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

i think thats the perfect age!!! guys take longer than us to mature. thats why the guy is 'meant' to be older. my sister is 19 and dating a 26yr old. they have a perfect relationship. they are basically the same - maturity wise. :)

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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.

when i was younger i LOVED the angel books. its a series about a young girl who dies and becomes and angel and has to go to school in heaven and on quests an stuff. they are great books. they are just called ANGEL... i think! lol. it was a while ago!!!

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Hello everyone i have a grandpa ( sorta ) well he doesnt talk to me ever i try calling him to see if he would like help around his house and garden and stuff but he says no ill ask katie to do that. On Forth of July last year i was trying to help clean up and then mii cousin ran in and spilled water all over the gradage on top of me so when she was sitting in there i did it to her and i got "grounded" to my grandpas basement by my grandpa. He has Ryan, Me , Jon , Katie , and Jessica as his grand children but he is always bragging about Ryan mii older brother and my 2 cousins Katie and Jessica its like he doesnt even notice me and my little brother. Please Help Me

he doesn't deserve your love and attention. dont try so hard. he will either realise what he's missing or not. if he does... YAY for you. if he doesn't then he's a stupid bum with no respect for family. so dont stress about it. Dont call him. Dont offer to help. Be civil when your with him but dont go out of your way to accomodate him. find someone deserving to give your attention to. like your little brother. he is in the same situation as you. dont grow apart from you younger sibling. mine passed away and i wish i had one. you never realise how good something is until you lose it.

~ange

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Alright heres the situation. I am in love with my boyfriend call him Brayden, I'm honestly in love with him. We dated for two months over the summer and then broke up. Today is our one month anniversry and I know that I love him. We live a state or two away from each other but we can't deny our love for each other. I just went to a new high school becuase i moved away from my old one and I met my friend, lets call him Josh. Well me and Josh have gotten really close we're not best friends but we know almost everythign about each other. He's the first person I see when I go into school and I find my heart begin to race as I think about seeing him. He's ussually the last thing I think about at night and the first when I awake. He's the only one I really talk to at my school becuase I drifted from my other friends and he jsut got over this one girl he liked. I helped him get through it telling him that if she doesn't see what a great guy he is and how amazing he is then its her loss and he deserves way better. I have been there for him though all his problems and vice versa. During the 4 months I didn't date Brayden I was in deep deep like with Josh then i stopped liking him when Brayden asked me out again becuase I was still in love with Brayden. I know its really confusing but I love Brayden but I deeply like Josh. Brayden's a state or two away and Josh is right there in my school. What should I do? .... ((Josh doens't like me, He goes for the skinny preppy girls and im a bit on the heavy side, but not real big and i'm a bit punkish ... 15/f))

well obviously you haven't got a chance in hell with josh so get over him. brayden deserves better than a punk that thinks of dumping him for another guy. if you think about josh so much that you dont want to be with brayden, dump brayden and when you ask josh out, he will reject you and you will be a loner. i think you get my point. even if i am blunt. stay with brayden and love him with ALL your heart. if you cant do that and you keep getting romantic feelings for other guys, leave him. dont break his heart by stringing him along.

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How do I lose weight fast. What should I watch for in my food like how many calories or you know. How do I lose weight and get a tight stomach at home without buyin things like pills. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!1
I will rate high to any one who answers my question bad or gud thanx

no such thing as losing weight fast. you have to be vigilent and not waver from your diet. excersise lots and eat well. good luck.

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

keep your excitement to yourself. even if she is a bitch if you showed how happy you are... yes. they'd think your a bitch. keep the peace and have her leave on a happy note. thats a nice thing to do.

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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

If you trust them then tell them! it's your secret to tell though so be careful who you tell. you might also wanna check with your b/f if he minds you telling your friends.

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what are some good/recent rap/hip-hop songs? i'm trying to make a mixed cd thanks!

i'm sure its not rap and prolly doesn't fall into the hip hop category either...but my FAV song is thirsty mirc - someday someday. it's such a sweet song!!!

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Theres this guy online that wont leave me alone. He's so perverted and i have no idea who he is. hes not from my town but he always tells me that he sees me and he tells me what im wearing. hes always saying stuff like how much he wants to fuck me and he just says really nasty things. hes really violent too, like if i dont answer him RIGHT away he'll flip out and call me names, so im scared to block him or anything since he knows what i look like and he "sees me all the time" what should i dooo?

call the cops. dont take any risks. there are millions of perverts out there and you dont wanna become a victim. tell the police and your family. say how it was unprovoked and say how scared you are. they will sort him out.

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I am 14 years old, and i like a guy that goes to my school. He is going out with the biggist slut ever.. & I like him alot! Everyone thinks they are wrong for each other. I need a way to win him over. I donno what to do cuz me and the girl hate each other. He won't listen to any of his friends and i know he wont listen to me. We would be the best couple ever! So if you have any advice please feel free to give it!!

argh! so many girls are asking how to gt a guy to notice them. if he hasn't nticed you yet then he aint worth it! his loss. and he obviously aint that great... he's with a slut. so either he is a slut too or he sees the nice girl in her. either way he's dating her for a reason so back of and let him live his life how he wants to.

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