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Okay. I just got the nerve to try out a tampon. I was all relaxed and read directions and I finally got it. So, I was excited I did cause I wimpped out before. and my mom got all mad at me cause she said i could get toxic shock syndrom and like something in my vagina broke? What the heck is she talking about? Im scared to use another one cause she freaked out. So help me please!!!!!!!! (link)
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Women have been using tampons for years. Every girl i know uses them instead of pads. Toxic shock syndrom is bacteria that can form on the tampon IF left in for a long period of time. Just use 1 with the absorbency needed for your periods. On your heaviest days use a higher 1 on your light days use 1 that is lower. You can wear a tampon for up to 8 hrs. Depending on how heavy your period is, youll have to change it more often.
Your mom is talking about your "hymen". Alot of people think you can break your hymen by using tampons. If you read the instructions, it will tell you that it doesnt affect your virginity: meaning your hymen is large enough for the tampon to slip through. Its nothing to worry about. Tampons are safe if used properly. In my opinion, theyre the only way to go!
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more like i aint care what they say nothing gonna stop us and yes i now a lotta girlz seeing older men (link)
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what is youre nationality, you dont talk like the girls around where i live. You sound like you are very young and will take any guy that gives you alittle attention. Guys that go out with way younger girls, use them for sex!!!! Because they cant get any from a girl their own age for some reason!!!
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u aint now nothing i woulda only ran away whith him eny way i told mum that and i said whatch how he treats me he treats me good (link)
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how many 21 yr olds do you know of that are dating a 15 yr old?
I bet you dont know any, because no "normal" 21 yr old would even be looking at a little 15 yr old.
You both are in 2 different stages of your lives.
Plus hes in jail.(doesnt matter that he took the fall for his friend) hes still there> and your moms fine with that?
Do your parents even care about you?
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i rated you 1 cause other people gave me better advice and eny way 2years left of scool my mom loves him like a son (link)
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if your mom is ok with u dating an adult, then sorry girl i think your family is messed up!!!!!
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i got a lot things in coman whith him and hes been my longest realaship ever and i cant tell no one i love them only him i cant evan say it 2 my family ;and i aint wont duump him cause im in love whith him but no one understands i cry 4 him and i aint cry 4 no one sep him (link)
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your just being immature by rating a 1 on my comment.
exactly how do your parents feel about you dating a 21 yr old? My folks would flip!!! Longest relationship? Hun your only 15,
you have alot of yrs ahead of you. The situation would be so different if you were 18 and out of high school. Hes been out for 3 yrs and u still have 3 more yrs!!
im sorry, but you seem very young. im checking out youre spelling and its not good!
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kay..well i hve a boyfriend that im COMPLETELY in love with...we've been together for half a year...and i couldnt be happier...except..i cant stop thinking about my ex. my ex broke my heart so many times...and i was so in lov with him...i didnt get over him for two and a half years..and i gues im still not over him...he flirts w/ me alot..and talks about our pass and says he misses me..and i miss him too. i dont kno what to do...i absolutely cannot make myself stop thinking about him...i cant beleeve i miss him so much..i think i still love him..after all, he was my first love..and i kno its normal to never forget your first love..but this is different...i think i still love him..and i HATE it..i feel so horrible..please help..
signed..allison (link)
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how do you think your in love with both?
put your bfs name on 1 side of a sheet of paper, then put your ex on the other side. on each of their sides put likes, and dislikes. See who comes out on top!!
1st loves are hard to get over, but it sounds like you really love this guy youre with!
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im a younge girl turning 16 in march the 1 and i been going out whith this guy for 9months now but the only diffrence is hes 21 a five year gape i dont see nothing wronge whith it but some people do im really in love whith him and he says he loves me and wants me 2 be hes 4 a enternity hes in jail at a moment but 4 somthing his friend done and i dont want eny one else to be his girl sep me can i hear what yous got to say plz (link)
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ok what kind of english do you speak?
thats a really big gap considering your only 15. He could get himself in ALOT of trouble being with you! nothing personal, but why a 15 yrl old. cant he get any1 closer to his age?
i mean you have like 3 more yrs of high school left yet. What do you possibly have in common with him?
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well i'm goin out with this one girl. i love her to death. but she cheated on me awhile back. so i forgave her and we started goin out again.well the past few days she has acted like she don't want nothin to do with me, and she seems more "interested in this other dude". so wat do i do? should i break up with her? or wat. HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!!! (link)
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If things seem different to you lately, then what your saying must be true.
Have you asked her about this other "dude"?
Go with what youre feeling, because chances are its probably true.
I mean, she cheated on you 1ce, whats stopping her from doing it again??
Move on, there are alot of "NICE" girls out there!
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soo ive been with this guy and he likes me and i really like him. but he broke up with me on monday because he didnt want a girlfriend right now he wasnt over his x. i was pissed but he said he still liked me and ive been trying hard to play hard to get. but its hard i want to be with him and i dont know what to do. He calls me everynight and told me to wait for him but im not going to wait forever I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!
i feel like im a rebound girl. (link)
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You dont want to be with a guy who still has feelings for his ex. He wants his ex, and if he cant have her, he wants you. Simple as that.
Its your choice if you want to be a guys #2 choice, or his #1!!!
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hello im a gurl..me and my bf have been dating for awhile and i was just wondering how do you know if your boyfriend is still into his ex? i mean we broke up once before because he still had feelings for his ex and he still talks to her but not alot now he said they are just friends but i dont like him talking to her and i told him that but im not sure if he has stopped...so how should i know and is there any way to put into words to stop talkin to her without sounding mean and controlling?
thanx! i rate high for good answers! (link)
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Maybe you need to look at the circumstances of why they broke up, and whos the 1 that did it.
If she broke up with him, chances are hes not over her yet.
How soon after his breakup with her did you and him start dating? If he still does have feelings for her, telling him to stop talking to her might make things not so good between you and him.
I guess now you have to put your relationship to the test. That thing called "TRUST".
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okay.. me and my ex b/f(eric) broke up a month ago.. and i have a new b/f(rj) now.. and he has a new g/f(rachel).. me and eric were going out for 3 years till we broke up.. so of course, im not quite over him.. i dunno what to do.. i tried talking to eric.. but it just aint working..he doesnt even wanna be my friend.. and im just going through a really rough time right now.. and imm always depressed.. can you give me some advice on how to get over him.. thanks (link)
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People think that when theres a break up, going out with some1 else soon after will help them get over their ex. The truth is, you have to first deal with your feelings from 1 relationship, before moving on to another, and it doesnt sound like you have, and thats really not fair to your new bf.
Well first of all, if you expect to get over your ex, STOP TRYING TO TALK TO HIM!! Stop looking at him, stop talking about him, and stop thinking about him. It really does help!!
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hey ok so im 16/f and ive been talking to this guy whose about to turn 18 in like a week. and hes really hot right. so one day (before we started talking) my friend told him that i like him and stuff. so the next couple of days hes been hanging out with me and things. he gave me his number and like puts his arm around me and has asked me out on a date. but hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend yet. but then whenever were around other girls he dosent really put his arm around me and stuff and he kind of flirts with my best friend. and the thing is i dont even really like him that much, but i dont know if hes really interested in me, or if i should just kind of forget him. ya know? i dont think i make too much sense. but basically im asking does it sound like he likes me or not so i know if i should keep him around. thanks i'll rate high! (link)
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Sure he likes you, just like he likes every other girl. Hes probably given every other girl his phone number too.
move on hun!
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Can you guys give me some tips or ideas to become closer with my ex boyfriend again? We broke up 3 weeks ago, and we've only talked once since and that was on Friday. But what're some casual things to say to him to get us close again? We just completely stopped talking after we broke up, until he said a few words to me the other day.
Eventually, I want to ask him if he would like to go to this concert that is on Saturday with me. I don't know if will though because there is a dance on the same night at my school, and maybe he wants to ask this other girl to it, and maybe would rather hang out with her. I know he wanted to go to the concert though because when we were going out I told him I'd give him the extra ticket if my friend couldn't go so we could go together and he said he'd love to, and would rather go to the concert than that dance because he loves that band... but that was when we were going out. But yeah, I'm not going to ask him if we aren't talking that much, so tips? Ideas? He's always around this other girl + talking to her, so keep that in mind that it might be harder to start a conversation with him if he's always talking to her. I know he may or may not still have feelings for me, but I'd rather be friends with him that it be all silent between us. It'll be hard though because I still like him.
I have 2 classes with him, and they're both on seperate days, so I see him for one block each day, and the only one where we could really talk in is PE, and that's when he started talking a little bit to me again a few days ago. But... that girl is in that class too, along with the other, so they're always around each other. (link)
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What did you want to hear?? I have an ex bf too that i still care about deeply, and he has a gf. Do you really expect to be friends after youve been lovers? Its usually 1-sided depending on who did the breaking up! Hes interested in another girl. If he wanted you back in his life, he would go out of his way to talk to you, and hang out!!
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My boyfriend just told me that he would rather be friends. I was so hurt today. And To Make it Worse he Likes Someone Else!!!! We still talk. But it feels weird. What can I do to pick up our friendship again? Thanks. And smart remarks will be reported! (link)
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When you say "pick up your friendship", do you mean being his gf again? It sounds like he broke up with you because he liked some1 else. Sometimes people like people for a short time. Its not anything they can really help. Theres really nothing you can do to change his mind. Just keep talking to him, and being nice to him. Thats about all you can do!
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i got my period for the first time on auguest 15 (this past auguest). i didnt have it last month, but now i got it again on the 15th, and still have it. is this normal? (link)
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When you get your period for the first time, its never consistent for the first year. It wont come the same time every month. It may go 3 days 1 month, or 1 day another month. As the months go by, it should get more and more predictable, where you can at least figure out when its going to come! Dont get too discouraged, just be patient.
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Ok. Sp there is this guy I ave liked for four years. When we went to camp together for church. Me, my friend, and him all hung out together. We flirted and had the best time. When I asked him if he liked he said yes and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with me. Time passed and nothing happended except us becoming really good friends. I didnt want to say anything about it but i just let it go. We went to homecoming and prom twice together we had a blast. He always talks to me when he sees me and he will sit on my lap and pretend and like say hey baby or say how you doing in a way that is hilarious. Does he like me and is to afradi to date. I think about him all the time. By the way i am 18 and he is 17. We have never had a fight before either. (link)
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You didnt mention if you went to homecoming and prom with him while he was with his gf!!
You basically put him on the spot when you asked him directly to his face if he liked you. He didnt want to be rude and say "no"! im sure he likes you, but not "that way". Hes just being nice!
Afraid to date? hun, he has a gf! Why are you going after a guy whos already in a relationship? If you were the 1 dating him, would you like it if another girl was after him, and would you even want a guy who has a gf that flirts with other girls like hes doing with you??
Just because he talks and flirts with you, doesnt mean he wants to date you. I mean thats probably just his personality. If he really liked you "that way" and wanted you to be his gf, he would be with you and not with her.
Sounds like you have a good friendship going. Dont wreck it by expecting him to be more than friends if thats all thats between you 2 right now. Let him pursue you, if he wants to be more then that!
ok youre asking us if hes afraid to date. Listen to what youre saying. Hes ALREADY dating, so obviously hes not afraid.
Even tho you didnt find out that he had a gf until 2 mos later, hes STILL with her. He still hasnt broken up with her. Which means he loves her, and hes just being nice to you!
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Okay, ummm. I am 16 and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me in july. i was very heartbroken because i loved him very much. well i thought i did. people keep telling me it wasn't love, but i still think it was. my first question is is it possible to fall in love at the age of 15 with someone you only know well in the last 5 months? because people told me it was impossible but i think they are wrong.
my other question: I miss my ex very much and I really want to be with him again. The only problem is he has a girlfriend now. I have heard rumors that they wont last long. I want him to know that I still like him and want him back. How do I go about doing this in a way that may make me seem not desperate? should I wait until they break up or confess my love to him while he still has the other girl in hopes that he will break up with her for me?
oh yeah the reason he broke up with me was because he was going to be really busy and he didnt want me to have to wait around for him while he was busy and vice versa. (link)
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Hey hun> that excuse your bf gave you for breaking up with you, was WEAK! He cant have a gf because hes too busy?? Then why does he have 1 now? Hes gonna be too busy for you, but not for her? He broke up with you for a reason. If he cared about you, he wouldnt be with anybody else, but you!
Dont listen to what people say. They dont know how long that relationship will last.
I really dont think that pouring out your feelings to him will change anything. Like i said before, if he still liked you, he wouldnt be with her!!
Guys make up gay reasons for breaking up with girls. He broke up with you, because he obviously wanted this girl!
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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing (link)
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Sorry, but it sounds like andy got what he wanted from you, and now hes done.
You need to forget the player, and give jack a try. This time take your time. 3 mos. is too short to start giving into a guys needs. If you think your gonna keep them by putting out, you seriously need a reality check hun!
Make a guy want you for you, not for ass! If hes willing to wait, hes worth keeping!!
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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Youre story sounds somewhat like mine. Except my ex has had a gf as long as weve been apart. He was pouring out his feelings for me 5 mos. after he was still screwing her. How do you think that made me feel? i wasnt gonna tell him how i still felt about him though.
Sounds like he still wanted to know if you were still interested. Maybe he realized after you guys were through that its not what he wants anymore.
If he wanted to get the relationship going again, i dont think he would have ignored you online.
I think i would wait and let him make the next move, if there is any, but dont let what happened in the car happen again.
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okay..well i'm a 13 year old girl and i like this 17 year old guy and he liks me too. my best friend is going out with his cousin so we get to spend a lot of time together. he's a really awesome guy and i know he'd NEVER hurt me. he really cares about me..but the thing is we want to be friends with advantages before we date but it's hard cause he lives in a different town..even though he can drive i don't want him to come over cause i don't want my parents to freak about the age difference..he's the same age as my sister. how should i tell them how old and how good of a kid he is..my mom's met him before but it was only for liek 2 seconds. idk what to do..if you can help i will rate high. please and thanks to those who do help me.♥ (link)
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When a guy of 17 is interested in a girl of 13, he wants only 1 thing! Older guys go for younger girls because they are naive! They know that theyll give them what they want, because they think its so awesome that an older guy likes them! If he truly cared about you, he wouldnt try and take advantage of you like that. He doesnt want a relationship, just friends with benefits! What is that telling you?
Hun> dont let him use you. Whens hes done getting what he wants from you, hes gonna leave you and never talk to you again. I guarantee it!
Dont give him something to brag to his friends about. He obviously cant get a girl his own age to use, so hes choosing a 13 yr old.
Listen to every1 here, and listen to your mom. We all know what were talking about!! Youre gonna be sorry if you dont!
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