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how do i kno if he still is into his ex?


Question Posted Monday October 24 2005, 7:04 pm

hello im a gurl..me and my bf have been dating for awhile and i was just wondering how do you know if your boyfriend is still into his ex? i mean we broke up once before because he still had feelings for his ex and he still talks to her but not alot now he said they are just friends but i dont like him talking to her and i told him that but im not sure if he has stopped...so how should i know and is there any way to put into words to stop talkin to her without sounding mean and controlling?
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brilliantbrunette answered Monday October 24 2005, 9:43 pm:
hjdfhjd! thats the same with me.i like a guy too and he broke up with me cause he wasnt over his x and im crazy about him. But ive been talking to people maybe you should just ask if he and this girl a JUST friends and if he says yes trust him. make sure if your together that hes not texting its not a good sign. Just watch your back guys are gay. Talk to him about it your not being jealous you just want to make sure your the only one.i understand hun

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angelfire2708 answered Monday October 24 2005, 9:33 pm:
Maybe you need to look at the circumstances of why they broke up, and whos the 1 that did it.
If she broke up with him, chances are hes not over her yet.

How soon after his breakup with her did you and him start dating? If he still does have feelings for her, telling him to stop talking to her might make things not so good between you and him.

I guess now you have to put your relationship to the test. That thing called "TRUST".

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carissaxo311 answered Monday October 24 2005, 7:43 pm:
Theres no easy way to know if your guy is still into his ex without asking him. If hes not into her then he should tell the truth and that thier still just friends. You dont need to ask him to stop being friends with her, becuase im sure if you eventually break up youll want to stay friends; but you could ask him why it is that it seems like hes flirting with her. some guys are just naturally flirtatious and if this bothers you you hav to tell him. Ask his friends about him, im sure theyll tell the truth; its probly nothing to worry about, hes probly just a friendly guy! If this is the case, dont worry about it. But if it continues you have to ask him and be firm, tell him you dont like him flirting with her. Yu have nothing to lose- if hes worth it hell understand and if he doenst; your probly better of, theres plenty of fish in the sea...you just need to find the right spot and the right time to cast your line =]

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