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Missing him
Okay, ummm. I am 16 and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me in july. i was very heartbroken because i loved him very much. well i thought i did. people keep telling me it wasn't love, but i still think it was. my first question is is it possible to fall in love at the age of 15 with someone you only know well in the last 5 months? because people told me it was impossible but i think they are wrong.
my other question: I miss my ex very much and I really want to be with him again. The only problem is he has a girlfriend now. I have heard rumors that they wont last long. I want him to know that I still like him and want him back. How do I go about doing this in a way that may make me seem not desperate? should I wait until they break up or confess my love to him while he still has the other girl in hopes that he will break up with her for me?
oh yeah the reason he broke up with me was because he was going to be really busy and he didnt want me to have to wait around for him while he was busy and vice versa.
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Wait till they break up
dont be a gold digga
and no its not impossible love is love you tell them that
You can love anyone at anytime ok?
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my answer to youre first questoin is yes at 15 you can fall in love im 15 and i been whith my man 4 9months but then i dont now how teen boyz think since my boy is a man
and to the other questoin i think you should wait a while it might not last as long as u think
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wow...it's really hard to do, because it requires patience and during that time, some better things might come along! I dated this guy "M" for 3 months and he just didn't show up for dinner one night. I was heartbroken, i really liked him and had no clue what, if anything i did wrong. Well... i kept my heartbreak to myself (and my closest girlfriends) took a long while, dated a couple of idiots, saw "M" at a few mutual friends get togethers like 1-2 a year, and then literally 4 yrs later I'm dating him again! It's been almost 6 months, we've never talked about what happened before... but we're happy so far!
you should just try moving on with your life, to a certain degree... maybe date, but not right out in front of him. let him see you out, here and there, but always looking like your having fun, and you're happy and successful.
silly as it sounds the ages don't matter, it's all the same game!! and I'm 40.
Good luck!
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Hey hun> that excuse your bf gave you for breaking up with you, was WEAK! He cant have a gf because hes too busy?? Then why does he have 1 now? Hes gonna be too busy for you, but not for her? He broke up with you for a reason. If he cared about you, he wouldnt be with anybody else, but you!
Dont listen to what people say. They dont know how long that relationship will last.
I really dont think that pouring out your feelings to him will change anything. Like i said before, if he still liked you, he wouldnt be with her!!
Guys make up gay reasons for breaking up with girls. He broke up with you, because he obviously wanted this girl!
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Oh yes, it is possible. I can say I've expirienced it and trust me, we're not dumb and we know if we love and care for someone.
You're in the same situation as me. You will have feelings for your ex for a while, and that just shows how much you love him. Rumors are rumors, but no one actually knows how long they will last. Telling him how you feel is up to you. I think that you should tell him when they break up because it would be really mean if he just broke up with her for you again. He might still have feelings for you too, but he might think you are being jelous and want to break them up. Happened to me in a way. You should defenetlly tell him how you feel. Whenever you feel like the time is right, tell him. I hope everything works out with you and him in the future!!!! Best of luck.
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