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How to start talking again with ex-boyfriend?
Can you guys give me some tips or ideas to become closer with my ex boyfriend again? We broke up 3 weeks ago, and we've only talked once since and that was on Friday. But what're some casual things to say to him to get us close again? We just completely stopped talking after we broke up, until he said a few words to me the other day.
Eventually, I want to ask him if he would like to go to this concert that is on Saturday with me. I don't know if will though because there is a dance on the same night at my school, and maybe he wants to ask this other girl to it, and maybe would rather hang out with her. I know he wanted to go to the concert though because when we were going out I told him I'd give him the extra ticket if my friend couldn't go so we could go together and he said he'd love to, and would rather go to the concert than that dance because he loves that band... but that was when we were going out. But yeah, I'm not going to ask him if we aren't talking that much, so tips? Ideas? He's always around this other girl + talking to her, so keep that in mind that it might be harder to start a conversation with him if he's always talking to her. I know he may or may not still have feelings for me, but I'd rather be friends with him that it be all silent between us. It'll be hard though because I still like him.
I have 2 classes with him, and they're both on seperate days, so I see him for one block each day, and the only one where we could really talk in is PE, and that's when he started talking a little bit to me again a few days ago. But... that girl is in that class too, along with the other, so they're always around each other.
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What did you want to hear?? I have an ex bf too that i still care about deeply, and he has a gf. Do you really expect to be friends after youve been lovers? Its usually 1-sided depending on who did the breaking up! Hes interested in another girl. If he wanted you back in his life, he would go out of his way to talk to you, and hang out!!
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Sleep with him. Then at least you'll have grounds to fuck things up with the other girl hes talking to.
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