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hey im allison
im 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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allison

advice

I don't know if this goes here.....but...oh well.
I have been getting occasional cramps (not stomach area cramps, lower abdomen cramps) and discharge. My breasts are slightly tender, but nothing major, and im starting to grow more, i think. Im almost to 100 pounds, and i will confess i have been a little moody...are these signs that my period will start soon?
Please help me!!!!

i'd say yes.
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=443468 was my last question talking about this topic.

Anyways, today, Jeff acted like he liked me. Like, he sat by me at lunch again, and complimented me on my new a-ar shirt. Then, some girl said something and I hit her in the butt with my agenda and then he was like "ooo hittt me laurie!" and of course we all laughed and stuff. Then, during science class, this kid took my glasses and I was like "STEVEN GIVE THEM BACK!" and jeff was like "o0o Laurie looks SEXYYY without her glasses on," smiling and all, and the other guys at the table nodded their heads haha. idk. it just seems like he gives me mixed signals.
and then, I talked to Ginger about it, and she said she didn't mind at all, because just today she started going out with this other guy.

So, NOW what do you think about him liking me?
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its ok. if you like him and he doesnt already know...tell him. all guys are like that. they dont know that they want until you show them.
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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help!

your dad has problems and he need to see a therapist...and if he doesnt go for that, next time he tries to hit anyone in your family like really tries to hurt them you need to call an authoritative figure.
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what is morning breath how did i get it and how do i get rid of it

its bad breath in the morning. and you get it by not brushing well enough. get rid of it by brushing your teeth every once in a while.
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Alright, This is really gross. but the last 3 days,i've had like, diarrhea, but its reddish, like, blood. but i'm not on my period for another 2 weeks, somebody please tell me whats wrong with me??

tell your parents to take you to the doctor.
it could end up being serious...or just something you ate.
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This is going to sound crazy, but I get so grossed out when I'm on my period. I can't take looking at all the blood. It makes me gag and stuff. What should I do?

just try not to look.
and if you use pads...USE A DAMN TAMPON!
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Im 14/female and Im 106 pounds. I just wanted to know the average weight for teens. Also I was woondering when you are supposed to weigh yourself.... morning, afternoon,night... when? Thank you! :)

it depends on how tall yopu are. if you are five foot you should be 100 lbs. if you are 5'2 then you should be around 105 lbs. and it goes up by fives. i'm 5'7 so i should be around 135'lbs. im really under weight. im only 115 lbs.
you should weigh yourself in the morning after you go to the bathroom. that way you dont have extra water weight.

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What does phat mean?

cool?
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This girl wants to know about my...man thing...which isn't exactly big. I am wondering if I should let her see it since she knows my cousin and girls talk

let her see it. if the reaction isnt good then shes wayy too shallow.
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16/f

alright over the summer i met this guy. hes one of my best friends cousins and we hit it off so well. i really like him and he really likes me. were together but then were not officially going out. he lives like 20 minutes away from me and he doesnt have a car or phone so its kind of hard to talk to him. like he goes over his friends house and either calls me or gets online and talks to me. or his sister has a cell and he calls me but his sister isnt always home. the big problem is that school is coming up and so is sports. ill NEVER be able to see him or talk to him and everything will just be over. i dont want it to be one of those summer flings. i really really care for him and i know he does for me too. i lost my virginity to this kid and in about 2 weeks soccer starts for him and he has it EVERYDAY...and its not like i can get a ride to go see him play or anything..and once school comes up everything is just gonna be over and i dont know what to do.. i wanted to cry last night when he told me that soccer is going to be starting up and its everyday. ive never felt like this about any other guy..hes one of a kind. he's nice, sweet, cute, athletic, funny and i just feel safe when im with him. is there anything i can do to make the situation any better?

ill rate high!

i kinda have the same problem.but we are about ten minutes apart.and something that helps us is not being on the phone all nite or for a long time.because once you find out everything about each other, you wont have anything to talk about.when ever he has a soccer game go and see it. bring some friends so you wont be so bored on the side lines all by your self (i do the same for his hockey games!)try meeting up at the movies or at the mall or a coffee shop. (just dont go only to the movies...he will only concentrate on getting in your pants) and thats really all i can sayy.
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What is a good way to get rid of the pain when u get your braces tightend. Help. Im in pain

a good medicine is aleve. it relieves your pain for up to 12 hours...(read bottle). also something that helped me was drinking lots and lots of ice water. or any iother chilled beverage. that really helpes me.

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If god loves every one then why dose it seem that being gay is wrong. im a big gay rights person and i dont understand how in most religions its like one of the bigest sins

i agree with you. the people on my dads side of the family are big on their christian religeon. but when i was little i was taught that god loved everyone no matter what. well my only answer to you is...god lied.

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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!

dont worry about it...they are probably just messing around and will eventuially stop. im around the same size as you also friends with mostly guys. they teased me for what seemed like forever. but then they just got bored with it and gave up...i have a feeling that they will do the same for you.=]

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