about

Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?

I'd say 15 or 16. I babysit, and i started when I was 15, im 16 now. I think before age 15 they don't think you're ready for the responsibility


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Does anyone know any good places where I can share my photos (*FOR FREE*) like Webshots and places like that and It would have a blocker so no one could copy n paste the pictures? Thx a bunch!!

Picturetrail.com!You can prevent right clicking, but its only free for the first month, then they try to get you to upgrade. The other one i know about is fotki.com but you cant protect people from right clicking them but its free!



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i have this friend who thinks she's like really hot, but she's isn't. whenever you're at the mall or w/e she always all "that guy is so staring at me" or "he is so checking me out", when the guy is staring at ME. how can i break it to her w/o wrecking our friendship?

I would feel sorry for her.She's trying to make herself feel better.It's not hurting you,so just ignore it, as hard as it is.



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Some people say that if you put toothpaste on a pimple overnight than it will go away. Does anyone know if this is true? Has anyone tried it?

All it does is help dry it out.It doesn't get rid of it (trust me i've tried).The best way to get rid of a pimple is oxyclean ointment for pimples which is what i use whenever i get a pimple.:-)


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whats a good name for a female chihuahua? I rate 5s for really cool and creative names :)

Hey I have a female chuiwawua!lol her name is barbie,and the reason we named her that because right from the first day we brought her home she acted really "high maintenance" and we just thought that would be the perfect name. If your chiwawau is like tan, name is like sandy or something.Or you can name is cocoa for the black and brown ones (like mine) or cute names like sassy,sadie,tiny,or something like that.


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Does anyone know any great sites where I can find very very very very funny jokes or comics so I can get a good laugh?

Jokes.com


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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?

Talk to her about it.


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ew... ya, this is gross, but, im 14 and a girl. Ok, I kinda sweat a lot... its weird because noone else in my family has had this problem. No matter what shirt I wear, I always get like sweat circles under my arm-pits, so I ALWAYS wear hoodies. Even in gym, we have uniforms, and theyre extremely thick, and I still sweat through it! I've tried like everything! Wearing 2 shirts just makes it worse, and anti-persperent doesnt work either. I also usually put deodorant on, and on the inside and outside of my shirt where I sweat! ITS SO EMBARRASSING!! I told my mom, and she laughed. I really need help with this one, any tips or any reccommendations are appreciated!!

Well i'm so sorry to hear your mom laughed at you.This might be a medical problem.First see if it's the deordant your using.You may need a strong deodorant try arrid, and put it on more than just once a day.If that doesn't work go see a doctor.


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What is 'popularity' but a social disease?

Are you asking what popularity is?It's when everyone knows your name, and you have alot of friends, even though sometimes they arent true friends.


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ok i know this is really random and sounds stupid, but whenever my mom eats, she doesn't eat with her mouth closed. this really bothers me because it looks and sounds really disgusting, but none of my other family members seem to notice. how can i tell her, politely, that i think it's disgusting and she should stop (because she does it in public too!)

Tell her that you think proper manners are really important,and when she asks what you are talking about just say very nicely "Did you know that you eat with your mouth open" and when she answers just tell her it would make you so happen if she tries to change that.


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ok im catholic and im also 14/f...i dont want to be bi but i feel like im turning to do so, though i like guys a lot... me n my friend were joking around and my mom said i better not turn bi or any such, though 1/4 or so of my friends are either gay, bi and les...what r signs that ur turning bi...can someone help me?

Okay i'm not bi,but i think i can help you out with this one.You start to feel a strong attraction to other girls,and you fantasize about them at times,but you still also feel attracted to guys.


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I just recently got asked out, and I said yes to make them happy. But, after the first day I'm already feeling crappy. I find myself comparing him to my first relationship, because it was so wonderful. My question is does this feeling ever go away? Can a relationship that starts off with no spark ever get better?

Just because you don't feel a spark right away doesn't mean the relationship cant turn into something better.If you think it's worth it,give it some time.After a couple weeks if you still feel miserable,it's time to say buh bye.


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I like to sing. But when i am in a group with people for chorus i don't sing. I think i am singing but i'm not. My music teacher is getting mad at me. I try really hard to sing. I quit chorus but now i still have music periods. I can't quit. Did i make the right decision?

I think so.You shouldn't have to put up with a teacher you don't like,and if you still have music classes then you have nothing to worry about.


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Okay at school I talk with this kid a lot and now everyone is saying nasty things like we have made out and stuff and it is really making me not want to hang out with this guy anymore but I want to but I do not want to be continued calling names so what should I do?

Tell the people who are saying those things that you are only friends with him,and they need to grow up and get a life if the only thing they can think of to do is tease you.


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Hey
sorry this is kind of a wierd question and please dont delete i really need to lknow...like what is sexually harrasing(sp)? Liek what does a person have to do inorder for it to be sexually harassing

The person has to talk to you in a sexual way that makes you feel uncomfortable.Like if you were walking down the halls and a guy said "hey sexy i wanna hit that ass" or something along those lines that would be sexual harrassment.


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I didn't know what to put this under but i truley need some advice... i will rate rate you high even if you just try. I'm got in a fight with my teacher today and i got arrested and my mom picked me up at the jail a few hours later. I have court and that was my last strike so i am gettin sent away. this has been streesing me out all day , and i can't stop crying. The hardest part was seeing my best friend crying in my arms and telling my boyfriend.. ne ways what I'm asking is what should i do or say that will make everyone feel better including me.

Tell everyone you didn't mean for this to happen and that you're really sorry.


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I feel really dumb asking this but what do you exactly do when you give a guy head?

You put his penis in your mouth and you go in and out with your mouth and then sometimes lick the head and stuff.It's really easy once u finally do it and realize it's not as hard as it looks.If you need to know anything more leave it in my inbox=)


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Okay, all day..randomly I start sweating, and my bra gets soaked, so the bottom of my boobs stink..and the whole day it's wet there, and it raelly gets annoying. I've tried bringing two bras to school, and it doesn't really help. I use deodarant, everything. Please help me?

P.S. I'm wayy overweight, so my boobs are the size of china. I know this is part of the effect, but I don't sweat on my face or anything..just my chest and armpits. Help?

Make sure you use a really strong deodorant,like arrid total.Maybe you can try putting a little doedorant on the bottom of your boobs too.

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ok... my boyfriend and i really really like eachother... but online i don't no what to say to him... i want to make him laugh and he already knows my hobbies and i already no his... what are some FUNNY topics that will make him laugh... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers i swear!

Go to a jokes site and look up jokes.


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i finally got rid of my acne problem but now its like i have small not even like touchable bumbs and it looks like i still have acne what can i do about this?

Use more of what you used to get rid of your acne to begin with.If that doesn't work see a dermatologist.


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