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well im 16 and willing to answer any problem you have. all my friends come to me for advice and i thought why not offer my services to everyone! if my advice is good please rate so i know if im helping and if not i can improve my advice! anytime!
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Okay, well I have been talking to this guy for over a year. We get together almost every weekend. We tell each other everything. Here's the problem ..lol I like him ALOT and he knows it. He tells me he loves me and we talk on the phone everday we can't see each other. (he lives in a diff. city like 30 min. away) He tells his friends he likes me. But then again we fight a lot. But they never last long and we are cool again within a few min.(the fighting has stopped now unless we are joking around)He has turned down other girls because we are *talking*. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Do you think he will or am I wasting my time?
p.s.-a week ago he told someone he was thinking about asking me out...but a week has gone by and he hasnt but we still talk ALL the time? What do you think is going to happen? What do you think he is thinking?
I am 14
He is 14
well maybe because you are so close he is scared that you will change you mind and reject him or it wont work out and will ruin what you have. and anyway who said he has to make the first move? you obviously want this as much as he does so just go for it. show that you trust him by putting yourself on the line. he will probably be relieved that he didnt have to do it because boys can be as scared as we are and its hard for them because girls just presume they will make the first move. so go for it and suprise him
Good luck!
I've always felt that there was no need to be in a relationship at my age(14) but i was just asked out and i think i have fallen in love. but my mother tells me there is no way you can fall in love so young. do you think its possible to fall in love at such a young age? if you dont think so what do you think i should do, i dont want to dump him or anything, but i dont want to waste my time and energy
if there is no point to our relationship.
Your thinking about things WAY to much! your only 14 so just take it easy! no0one can tell you how you will know you are in love because its just a feeling. it had hit people straight in the face so they immediatly know or creep up on them so they dont even realise it until they just have the urge to just blurt it out. but even if your not in love now that doesnt mean you should end your relationship. your 14 so just enjoy it and have fun. think of it as a test run for later life. with each relationship you gain confidence and learn about yourself and other people so you can eventually find someone you love. so dont dismiss it. you need relationships even if they dont go anywhere!
don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...
i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!
the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!
See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.
I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.
Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....
snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS
maybe you just need some time apart. if your with someone for a long time then their annoyings habbits can become more apparent! i go insane on holiday with my brother. but if i dont spend a lot of time with him then its fine because i dont notice. so go out with some friends and when you come back dont think about how much she annoys you. go in with an open mind and see how you feel. dont let it get you down or you will never get over it because everytime you see her she will remind you of how you felt when you wrote this. nd one day you might find that you actually get along because you dont see her faults as clearly and by that time maybe she will have matured into a person who you would like to spend time with!
hope it helped!
I have a date with a guy tonight. He's somewhat shy. I am a fairly outgoing person. I'm actualy the one who asked him to go on a date with me. I want to kiss him, but would it be alright for me to make the first move? Would that be too forward of me? Should I just wait for him to make a move on me?
well if he is shy then he isnt likely to make the first move. just casually slip your hand into his as a starting point. if he makes an excuse 2 move it you know that he isnt ready to be affectionate because he is too shy. if he doesnt keep smiling at him to reasure him and them if you think all is going well then kiss him on the cheek first. if he leans in then try kissing properly but if he looks embarassed quickly change the subject and try later (like on the 3rd or 4th date)
Hope it helps!
Aright well im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together for almost a year...and he hasn't tried anything, I mean im not waiting for him to do something with me...but is it weird that he hasn't tried anything after almost a year or does it just mean that he really loves me? Like he's always all over me and touching me, but whenever im around me friends they just keep on askin me "have you guys done it yet?" and ill just be like "no" cause we havn't. And sometimes they just end up saying that he's stupid to not try doing it with me (i don't think that) and that they expect us to do it now that we've been together for almost a year! So I need to know does he really love me or is it just weird?
Thanx
I think he just respects you. dont listen to your friends opinions because after all who is in the relationship? all of you? i mean if you ask for advice then fair enough but just tell them to back off a little. maybe your both just not ready to have sex. dont do it just because your friends say you should. you are obviously happy with each other the way things are so dont ruin sumthing good. look, he could be pressuring you ans asking you about it all the time! which would you prefer? (a bit of a no brainer really) so just say, the next time your friends say some thing, that you know he respects and cares for you and thats all that matters!
I lost my virginity and it doesnt seem like it was what i had actually wanted to happen.. people who arent virgins... can u tell me how it went for you cause im jus really curious now. none of my friends have lost their virginity yet so its kinda hard to talk to them about it. thanks!
Its just because of all the hype about it. there is so much of a build up hat you think it will be this amazing this butthe firsttime it isnt cos it hurt. but dont worry, as they always say practise does make perfect! it gets better believe me! its never like it seems in films because of course there not actually doing it so it just shows the good bits! so dont worry it will get better!
okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?
his eyes, the way he messes with his hair to makesure it looks ok, the way they try to act tough in front of you, the way he smiles every time he sees you, the way he cant keep his eyes off you when he is with his mates.
My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
If your not ready to have sex then dont even think about it! just because he says he cant wait does not mean you should compramise what you believe about yourself. by sayingthathe is presuring you and he shouldntbe doing that. heshould respect that yousaid that you are not ready.
i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?
the only thing you can do! stand by her and help her through it. its a good idea for her to take anotherpregnancy test and confirm the results. if there positive then suggest she goes to see her doctor or the local family planning clinic. go with her and support her. its a really big thing that she is going to have to deal with and she may be in shock so support her and reasure her that its going to be all right. whatever her descision is on what she is going to do you need to have her back and help her through it!
well.. i have a boyfriend.. and i really love him and stuff but sometimes i feel like hes not treating me "best" although he seems a little obsessed.. haha and theres about 6 other guys that i could go to.. but i know if i break up wtih him for them ill never be able to get over him! hes an awesome guy.. help please!
im a really generous rater...!!
talk to yoru boyfriend and explain how you feel. thats the only way you will know if your relationship is going to last. but dont finish him for someone else, its a bad idea. you will always want to know if your relationship could have worked and regret finishing him. so see where your relationship is going first, and if its not going anywhere then its best to finish him. bt remember talk to him frtst! honesty is the best thing in a relationship.
does anyone know about today's holiday? its called smingus dingus =)
no i dont. and its a bit of a weird question but whatever floats your boat i guess?!?!
pretty soon i know my boyfriend and i are going to have sex. OF COURSE we would use a condom, but i am still overly scared of the chance of getting pregnant if the condom breaks. i am trying to figure out what time of the cycle is the best time to Not get pregnant. i know ovulation is the worst time, but what about before, during, and after my period - which is the best time and which is a risky time? i cant find it on any websites and some people tell me different things... please help, im a spaz
there isn't a 100% safe time to have sex but just after your period is probably the safest. but deffinately use a condom. you could go on the pill. thats about 99% safe of preventing pregnancy. go to your doctors for some advice or a NHS drop in centre you dont need an appointment at one of them. the nurses there will give you the best advise because after all its their job! hope it goes well!
when i go in a tanning bed, how can i prevent sun burn?
use a body lotion before you go on the sum bed. it can prevent sum burn all together but it can help.
tomorrow is the talent show at my school and i want to sit next to the kid i like, how can i go about doing this? if it helps, my 2 friends are helping me. ones a girl and ones a guy.
get your mates to get there first and save a seat for you next to him. or get your boy mate to sit next to him and the get him to ask you to swap seats with him so you can sit next to the boy. then smile at the boy in question as you sit down and if your feel ing really confident comment on the talent show to him to start a conversation. hope it turns ou the way you want! good luck!
I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me?
Try a new style. spash out on a new outfit and do your hair and make up. ask your friends to help you shop and ask them to get ready together befor the next dance. it will be loadz of fun doing each others hair and make up so you wont feel the odd one askin then to do it for you.
BUT....
remember you should never change who you are for somebody. you should still be yoruself!!!!!!!
ok, see, there's this guy at my school that I like ALOT for a LONG time. I know this is kinda a typical question, sorry, but, how do I find out if he likes me as much as I like him? And what do I do to get us talking? I never talk to him, but I see him in the halls everyday and we always glance at each other, but we're both too shy to say anything. I don't know what to do, because I never talk to him, so I don't wanna make a fool of myself by just all of the sudden talking to him out of the blue, you know what I mean? (Also, we had these little valentine cards at our school that you could send your crush for v-day, and I sent him one. So, he knows that somebody likes him, and I think that he might kinda know that it's me, but I don't know)Anyway, srry so long!!! Please help me though!!!
Thank you so much!!-
*potentially in love*
the only thing you can do is talk to him. when you see him in the corridor smile at him, i promise you if he sees he will smile back. then go up and talk to him. ask him somthing trivial to start off with, maybe somthing about one of your classes or something and just take it from there. and as for him finding out that you sent him the valentines card it doesnt matter. he will be flattered that you sent him one so dont be shy about it. at least he know that you care. hope it helped!
okay at the end of the year we have a 8th grade dance..and this guy asked me to it just as friends and i said yes because we've always been pretty close..but i found out that he flashed girls twice in the same day..@ school! soo yeah it just disgusted me and i don't want to go with him anymore..but i don't know what to tell him. and thats where the problem enlies.
i rate good. unless your a dumbass about what you write back. thanks.
you should do the only thing you can do. tell him straight out that it disgusted you. you said that you were close so he should understand but if he doesnt then you are probably better not going eith him.
OKay, I want to put self tanner on my legs and arms, but I have a few questions (just for those who have dont it before...please!)
Is it safe to apply to arms and how do I do it w/o it streaking. Also, if I sweat will it bleed onto my clothes? And are their any other tips?
If I mess up...how do I remove the tanner?
the first time its a bit tricky but after a few practices you will be a pro! try getting your hands on a good quality moose tanning lotion or tanning wipes. the mooses are betterat reducing streekyness. was your skin first and dry thourghly then moisturise your skin because sometimes tanning can dry it out and applying it afterward can cause streeking. apply the tanning the night before you want it so it has the whole night to dry and be absorbed. well it works for me anyway!
hope that helped!
I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!!
you can find a guy for you! yoru only 15, there will be plenty of guys before you find the one thats right for you. elationships at your age are like trial runs for when your older. dont get yourself down because you never know who could be falling in love with you right now and it your down and you dont notice you could miss out! so get your self out there and be noticed and you will find the right one in time!
A few months ago, I fell for my friend, we went out and it was really great and all. At first, I didn't want to go out with him because we were such great friends and I didn't want that to change. Now, since we broke up, we never talk and he always talks about me behind my back! What can I do to help change this? Pleass help me!
Get him on his own and explain how u feel. say that even tho thing didnt work between you when you were dating doesnt mean that you cant be good friends again. say that you didnt want this to change between the two of you and you hate it that it has. explain how much you miss talking to him anddont like that he is talking about you behind your back. if you were really good friends then he wont be meaning to hurt you and im sure that he is missing your friendship too. so just give it a try!