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A few months ago, I fell for my friend, we went out and it was really great and all. At first, I didn't want to go out with him because we were such great friends and I didn't want that to change. Now, since we broke up, we never talk and he always talks about me behind my back! What can I do to help change this? Pleass help me!
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O M G! that happened to me! it really hurt hard when he wasnt even talkin to me in school anymore... and i thought that our friendship was ruined 4eva!! but now we talk but not as much as we used to b4 we went out... but still its a start... just give it some time and talk to he/she online a lot!!
hope it helped!
MaNdY!
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Talk to him tell him that the reason you broke up with him was to still be great friends because you didnt feel comfortable been together.
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well dateing a friend has a chance of always starting trouble so try talking to him about the whole thing and tell him that you still want to be friends even though the love is gone and if he dosn't care he isn't worth it so just try talking about it
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tell him u really did (or do) like him and u dont like that he is talking behind your back just say that you thought he liked you to
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Get him on his own and explain how u feel. say that even tho thing didnt work between you when you were dating doesnt mean that you cant be good friends again. say that you didnt want this to change between the two of you and you hate it that it has. explain how much you miss talking to him anddont like that he is talking about you behind your back. if you were really good friends then he wont be meaning to hurt you and im sure that he is missing your friendship too. so just give it a try!
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Catch him alone one day and try to talk to him. Tell him even though things didn't work out between you guys that you should stop fighting and become friends again. Let him know you don't want to lose him as a friend and that whatever he has to say badly about you he should say it to your face. You don't need anyone talking about you behind your back.
If he continues to talk shit about you and doesn't want anything to do with you have you've talked to him then the only thing you can do is keep trying or leave him to get on with his bullshitting.
♥Em
- Good luck.
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