Hey Everyone It Is Irishdude405
I am A very Understanding person that likes to listen to your thought and i can relate to many of you hear because I've been through many Situations that you may be going through. I'm not to into sports but i love being active. I dont Have a girlfriend at the current moment. I am Attending Highschool Next year and im Hopefully going to go to college raise a family and be a writer. Now Dont hesitate asking me a question They Will be Answered and They will have Advice for every specific Need!
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I'm a hugeeeeeee tomboy. I always wear t-shirts and long shorts, my hair is always pulled back, and i dont wear makeup. I mean, im not fat, just bulky and muscular. I dont wanna change any of this. But i've never had a boyfriend, and maybe its cus i act too much like a guy. I really want a boyfriend, but i dont wanna change. What type of guy would i go good with? WHAT SHOOD I DO!!! (link)
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Well go for a guy that has the same interests as you like sports and stuff. You dont have to change but maybe try to wear girly clothes because Boys Dont Particuarly like that TomBoy Look But you dont have to change.
ill be here if you need to talk
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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?
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Well even if nothing happened you still thought about it. Now your Boyfriend Just Needs time to realize how much you really do love him and care for him and then he'll come back around. He is porbably Just doubting himself more than Anything. But you stay Close to him as distant his heart may seem. Ill be here if you need to talk.
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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
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Well it Seems that this Boy likes you way more than your friend and if your Friend knows how you feel She should not like him and you should like him because you have liked him longer. Follow your heart and Do what you think is right, But i Think you should go out with him
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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers. (link)
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I think you Should Follow your Heart. I think That Elijah Seems Very interested in you and that he is willing to go to the end of the World For you while Zach is still waiting for another girl to fall in love with him. Elijah Seems more trustworthy and Like he Loves you more and It seems that Zach is in the Same Situation so i think he will Understand.
If you need help you can talk to me
You ask Ill Answer Irishdude405
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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background
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Faith is Beleiving and Knowing that God Will take your life in his hands and pull you out of anything that you are Struggling With. Faith is spreading the word about God and his Good Will, Faith Is putting God before Everything. Pray My Friend Pray about your faith and ask the Lord to give you more faith and to help you with your struggles and to keep you on your feet. If you need someone to talk to Ill Be here For you
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ok so i am a guy and i signed up well tried out is more like the word for colorgaurd this sport that were wel lyou twirl guns wood of course and flags and show school spirit. and the great thing is i made it but my friends and well a lot of people disagree with my desicion. i mean i know i shouldn't care what they say and that god is here and i am doing it for him i want to get these people t know him and show others that this activity is not a joke or it is "gay" in there words. and i mean it hurts because i get made fun of but i live with it and give it all to god. but i still need prayer. so if you would pray for me that i may get through this rough time and show others that i can make a diffrence. and i mean i just ned advice and support on like how can i deal with this stress i mean i give it to god of course but how can i make it so when hurtfull words come to me such as "dude you'r a looser for doing that, coorgaurd is so gay and dumb only stupid kids do that" i mean it hurts do you have any verses i can look up and how to deal with this stress and what not. And pleas please please pray for me. on this situation
thnx a bunch
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Listen I've got to give you an Incredible amount of Credit, Being a Fellow Christian. You have put God Before Critisiscm and Your Friends. God is Taking Care of you and he knows what you are doing and he has some amazing things planned for you. Things May be hard at first and You should Pray For patience and Pray For your Friends becaus they are the ones who are missing out on Gods Good Word. Another thing to would be to is to pull them aside and say listen i dont have a problem if you choose not to beleive what i beleive in But i Do not appreciate you Insulting me and Critiscizing me for what i beleive in So i would appreciate it if you could please Stop. You can talk to me if you need some help because i know how stressful things can be and how nice it is to have someone to talk to
You ask Ill Answer Irishdude
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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?
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I am A christian Too and i sometimes find it very hard to stay close with God at times. You should pray about it and god will answer your prayers. You could Go to a local Church More and you could stay away from sins such as Swearing,Jealousy, and Sex. Try Reading the Bible. These are things that will help you become closer with God. Hope I helped
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what's pop a cherry mean? (link)
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Pop a cherry means to take someones virginity away
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last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me. (link)
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Well you're probably not pregnant if you got your period. But anytime u have sex you have to make sure you are well protected. But you could Talk to A coach, A Health Teacher, or an older experienced Woman Right here on Advicenators.com
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i shaved my pussy so my bf could fingure me, but it itches alot and it used to have red bumps, should i use nair or will it come back? thanks!!!! (link)
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It will come back no matter what you use. Maybe if you use nair or another waxing product it wont come back as quickly and wont itch as much. But if you shave it will itch if you dont use shaving cream.
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im a 15 year old girl and ive lived with my dad for the past 3 years and its hard to talk to him about girl stuff. how can i talk to him without making both of us unconfortable.
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well Talking to an adult male can be rather hard. But maybe if you talk to him about it in a mature Adult way it wont be hard. And if you stay firm and not awkward then he wont because no guy wants to be the one that is awkward.
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my sisters dont talk at all they got in a fight and its been a month and their still not talking! My family is thinking of cancelling our cruise just because of them. I think thats not fair at all and i was looking forward for the cruise with all of them. Now its my job to get them to talk so we can all be back together and go on that cruise! But how? My older sister wont give of what im saying she is tuff and will not listen to me! So what should i do? I have already talked to my parents and their just doing nothing... so its up to me... and i need help so if u guys would please help me! Thanks (link)
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My Sisters Fight a lot To but your situation sounds a lot Worse. What i would do is pull them aside and talk with them. and If they Dont listen to you. Then Just tell your family its not cool to cancel a whole trip because two of your family members cant act Maturely. You seem like a mature member of your family and i respect that. You should tell your Sisters" Listen You two Fighting Resemble a five year old fighting over a toy with a four year old and its embarresing" and just leave the room. Eventually it will sink in there heads. You can talk to me when things start to overwhelm you.
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i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?
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Well the best thing to do is talk to her. I have lost touch with many close friends of mine and this is how it started. But if you talk to her and let her know how you feel and listen to how she feels then maybe you can save your friendship. Many people go through this becaus many peoples personallitys are changing right about now and people are beggining to figure out or wonder who they are and what kind of person they want to be. But i'm here for you if you need me!
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Me and my friend stole some clothes from my cousin and we put the clothes in our bags but didnt take them out of the house. Well they found out that we stole the clothes and my mom and my cousins mom got in a huge fight and now my mom wants to call the police on my cousins mom because she was cursing at us. So will we get in trouble for stealing the clothes even though we gave them back?
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No you won't be in trouble from the police , But your mom seems very upset. Its good that you gave the clothes back i think that your mom and your cousins mom will calm down. But your cousins mom can't get in trouble for swearing at you unless she continues to do it. But Talk to me if you need some advice.
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My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help? (link)
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You are Not a freak. You are a very strong person who hides how she feels on the inside because you dont want to show the saddness within. But sometimes holding on to that sorrow can cause outbursts from Stress, Anger, Guilt, and depression. You are a very strong person and i Envy You For that. Stay Strong and remember It's Okay to Cry. If you need to talk E-mail Me
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ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?
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It Sounds like he likes you, GO FOR IT GIRL . It sounds like you to get a long great and take this word of advice from a guy, he likes you i can tell from reading it but dont get weird around him because that'll make things awkward. GO FOR IT. tell me what happens later ok!?
You Ask~ Ill Answer Irishdude405
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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do? (link)
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Yah You really have to like someone a lot to like family. Listen I know that you like your cousin a lot but you really shouldn't .i know you cant help who you love but things like that can mess a up family lives. I think it would be in your best interest to move on and try to like someone else. E-mail me if you need someone to talk to.
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Does anyone know any websites for Interior decorationg/designing? Please don't suggest google. (link)
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Well Im Afaid I dont. Sorry But, Needless to say Google and Yahoo is a great Search Engine. Go to those Websites and type in Interior decorating/desinging and a ton of websites will come up. Sorry Though that i couldnt be a better help.
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i need help my dad i have not seen him one year and three mounths and he drinks a lot i try to let him go but i cant what should i do (link)
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Letting go of a family member may be a hard thing to do im afraid. Keeping yourself Physically, Mentally, Acedemically busy may help you to not think about him. Im terribly sorry for you. This will be a hard thing to do and if u need more advice ill be here.
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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2? (link)
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Listen You have every Right To break up with him. You dont have to stay with a relationship if you are unhappy. He on the other hand HAS NO RIGHT touching you . you should tell your parents or a guidance counselor. No boy should ever touch you like that Ever. Dont Blame yourself Ok? this kid sounds Sick in the head. im serious tho you really need to tell someone about this.Ill be here for you if you need more advice
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