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My boyfriend and I haven't been going out for that long. When we're kissing and really into it, he tries to finger me and I really am not ready for that right now. How do I explain/tell him I very much enjoy kissing him, but I don't want things to go too far just yet?
I think you need to tell him, or else he wont know! If he still tries to do it after you tell him that you're not ready, you might want to consider breaking up with him.
i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin
Your not weird! Some people dont get asked out until late high school!
i need to get ready of my acne before school... in like a week... anyone know of any quick home remedies besides perioxde and tooth paste?
Hmmm.....Home remedies dont work for me...You should try cleana nd clear or another brand made for acne. They have all kinds of things, concealer, clenser, etc. Hope I could help!
ok so i got those glasses with the plastic frames last year cuz i liked them (at the time). they r blue with sparkles. i got them from da adult section cuz they werent in the kids section. at the time i didnt realize that they were too big for my small face soo i never wear em anymore. im afraid people will make fun of me, so i dont risk it. im only supposed to wear them at school and at home watching tv or sumthin anyway but sometimes i feel like i cant see anything without it being blurry. i dont want to wear the glasses at school cuz they look bad on me but i need to c the board. last year i got bad grades cuz i couldnt see anything. please dont nag me for getting the glasses in the first place, i cant fix that now. its already been done. please, i dont want to wear them cuz i made fun of enough but i need to see. what should i do?
Maybe you should get a new pair of glasses or you might want to try contacts! Hope I could help!
ok well my boyfriend wants to have like alot of sex you know and I'm not ready for that yet but once he pushed me when I said no and he yelled at me and just left I don't know why but I'm scared to say no to him and I'm doing sumthing with him tonight I need serious help
You need to break up with him. Do NOT let him pressure you into something that you are not ready for! You might want to tell someone-it sounds like he could abuse you if you dont do what he says!! Please feel free to ask me anything else! Hope I could help and good luck!
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This might sound a lil weird.. but im 15 and i was wondering when is the best age to start having sex?
When you are mature and can handle the consenquences. You can handle a baby if you get pregant. The best age I think is when you have a steady boyfriend who respects you and you are both almost out of high school/ going into colleage. Also, you both must be mature and ready for the possible negative outcomes!!! Remember:Unwanted things can happen if you do it before you get married!! (Please rate and thanks!)
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has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e
I do situps. It will help you look leaner! You just have to be dedicated!
ok im 13 and so is my boyfriend, weve been going out for over 2 months now... hes had sex with other girls b4 but ive nevr had sex b4... he wants to have sex with me really bad but he always says he understands if i dont... i kinda do tho... but then i dont... im really confuzed cuz i really lov him its just i dont wanna get pregnant and i people will find out if i have sex with him and i dont want people calling me names like a slut and stuf, at this same time im in a huge fight with some girls, but i really wanna have sex with my boyfriend but then i dont! i NEED HELP!!
I think 13 is wayyyy to young! It could really ruin you life, too. Plus, you could do it more! If your not sure, then dont! Dont give in to it! There will be plenty of time for that later, trust me!
is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?
Yes, its absolutly fine!
When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?
Hmmm....try these
*Respectful
*Will respect you
*Honest
*Sense of humor
*easy going
*smart
what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?
Dont give in! Just assert yourself and say NO! You might want to dump the person if you two are going out. Dont hang around with the person! Hope I could help!
okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!
I kinda have it too! Just do situps! They work! Dont eat foods that make you bloated! At least to some situps every other day! I do situps while watching TV!
my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?
I think you should, so she wont do it where you can hear her so easily! If you don't get a cd player with headphones and turn the music up! Hope I could help!
what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.
1st-makeing out
2nd-feeling up or touching in the southern area
3rd-oral sex
4th-sexual intercourse
Thats mine....but many people think differently about it!
Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.
In my opinon since its going to be summer and on the beach- how about a soft pink, red, or orange. Or maybe a soft blue. Hope I could help!
i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.
Go see a doctor ASAP!! Hope you feel better!!! =-)
OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!
Well, that sounds a littel like rape... Hav eoyu ever thought that hes just using you for sex! Im not sure if you protection or not because you didnt say. It could ruin your life if you get pregnat-he might not want to help you with the baby! You really should break up with him. Sorry, but thats the truth!
Well, I'm new here...actually, I only signed up so that I could ask you this question. I am a singer and I need to know if you know how to make your voice stronger and sound better on high notes because all my high notes start cracking up. Thank you!
I'm a singer, too. My mom wontlet me get a coach. Join Chorus at your school. In middle school they really get in to it. Go to Sopranos section. Don't try to hard! Just practice, but not to much. Don't eat tooo many dairy products!
Hope I could help!
How old do u have to be to have sex?
You have to be able to handle the possible consenquences! You should be almost legal...just remember all the things that can ruin your life!
my mom is getting married to this guy whos really kool except he like flirts with me and comes on to me. he says stuff like hey sexy, hey cutie, hey pretty girl, and stuff like that and its really uncomfortable.. should i just let it go?
I think you should go and tell your mom. He may not mean it in a bad way, but he could! Hope I could help!